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Dear Readers. I & A Couple Of Girls Slept With My Friends Fiancé, How Do We Convince Her He’s A Womaniser
Thanks for the great job you are doing on this blog. I’m a 27years old lady who and I work as a sales assistant in at one of the supermarkets in Lusaka. However I am in a fix and I need the advice of readers on this one.
l have been friends with this lady(I will call her unom for privacy reasons ) from my teenage years, sharing many fun moments together. unom wants to get married now, however the problem is that the guy she wants to marry is a chronic womaniser.
While Unom and this guy were courting, he made passes at me (and I am ashamed to say this, we actually slept together) and a couple of other girls I know.
I have tried hinting Unom about this but she seems not to be receptive (you know what they say about love been blind).
I don’t want to lose my friend and I also don’t want her to marry this guy. How should I go about this?. Your readers advice will be highly appreciated.
Posted by
PARI PASU
June 17, 2014 at 9:34 am
Repent ! and leave the man alone you enticed him if you love yo friend like u ave said there is no way u could allow him to make love to u.
tina
June 17, 2014 at 9:36 am
Just tell her the truth. Trust me its better to have a clear conscious than to watch your friend fall into a trap…or if u are so bent on saving your friendship you can tell her about the other girls hz messed around with, atleast u would have helped then…some advice, never sleep with your friends dude no matter what, people aren’t as cool these daysn myt slice your throat….
GIFT
June 17, 2014 at 9:36 am
i can smell a rat.this lady is jealousy of the friend.how do you screw your childhood friends’ man.you are a devil.Leave her alone!
drinx
June 17, 2014 at 10:24 am
chi nini chako panyo pako chi hule iwe nini mugodi wa chindisa ku wa muyako.
Barotse Buffalo
June 17, 2014 at 10:38 am
Yes love is blind but marriage opens the eyes, so let them wed unless you are afraid of losing your illicit partner. Let go.
Anil Agarwal
June 17, 2014 at 11:22 am
Lady whatyou probably need is not advice to your friend but your own to zip your private part if possible with super glue until you find your own Konkola Deep Mining ROD, at the rate you are going opening your pit even to your friend’s boy friend, you are bound to earn millions of diseases and both private and public shame before you die.
Chali
June 17, 2014 at 2:14 pm
Now u want yo friend not to be marriaged to this man so that u take over. Wicked so called friend. Leave her alone
Chief of Grief
June 17, 2014 at 2:32 pm
Iwe gelo!I know its a bitter pill to swallow to see you childhood friend wed first(comon in girls).Just ditch meyour digits & i’ll be of great help chapwa,let friendmove on.
merce
June 17, 2014 at 5:08 pm
am glad u re not my friend , ulimbwa so u thot he wd marry U? infact ths guy knows hw decent ur friend is tharts why he is marrying him as for u whore kafwayeko bambi abakunyenga
ohms
June 17, 2014 at 5:16 pm
let yo frirnd alone. u want to steal yo friend’s man. shame!!!!!!
x5
June 17, 2014 at 6:05 pm
You are ******, why did you **** him when you knew was honking your friend. The advise is that you are all prodtitutes
one
June 18, 2014 at 11:08 am
You know what? you are such a foolish gal i cn’t even imagine what goes through that thick head, what do you want your friend to do?, leave him for you? how could you sleep with him when u knew it was a wrong thing to do, honestly if feel for your friend you are worsting time the best you can is feel for yourself coz no one can marry a woman like you, she would forgive him and move on, jst repent coz you will never turn bck the lost time….