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Should I Date A Guy Whose Ex-Girlfriend Is 7Months Pregnant?
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Dear Readers,
I need you advice, I am crazy about this guy I met about two months ago. He swept me off my feet and made me fall for him before he told me his ex-girlfriend is 7 months pregnant for him.
What I find odd in all this is that they dated for 6 and a half years and broke up just two months after they discovered they were expecting. He told me they grew apart and decided split which I find strange because which pregnant woman wants to leave the man she’s pregnant for? I wish I could speak with the lady and find out what really happened between them but I’m too scared to contact her. He told me that chapter in his life is over and the only thing tying him to her is their unborn baby.
I feel guilty dating a man with a pregnant girlfriend, but should I feel guilty? Should I go ahead with the relationship?
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Trixy
June 18, 2014 at 11:01 am
There are two things to this:-
a. Something must have gone terribly wrong in the relationship
b. The man never had an intention of marrying the lady. I think the lady was using the pregnancy as a loop hole to convincing the man to marry her; hence his pulling out.
But whichever the case, I would rather you find out what really happened. Mind you history has a way of repeating itself.
kakolwe
June 18, 2014 at 11:02 am
Yes!! Date (if not dirt) him. There is a possibility of him finding another gullible wench when you are 6 months pregnant for him. Ati ‘he made me fall for him’, kwangala! Are tuned up like a machine? Rubbish! You made yourself fall for him. At my level, you are 1 desperate strumpet.
Anil Agarwal
June 18, 2014 at 11:07 am
Lady you have a Production Casual Worker in your relationship and as soon as your belly starts swelling for him, his contract with you will end.
Worry not only about your belly being pumped by him, but also your body being injected with diseases some of which have no cure yet.
Take my advice or leave it the choice is yours.
Shibobo
June 18, 2014 at 11:15 am
Think about the 6 years they stayed together.the guy was using this lady.then the lady thought of becoming pregnant as a way of testing whether the man would marry her.
What does she get in return?end of affair.My sister this guy is not a marrying type but a player.Immediately you are pregnant,he will leave you.Mark my word.
Kamushi
June 18, 2014 at 11:19 am
i brok up wit my x wen she was 5months,she lied dat i ddnt send her money.her desire for mo money,lies & ungrtful family pushed me away frm her.afta givn a baby boy she apologised over her lies but feelins hav switchd 2 sam1 who tels de truth & i’l wed her pa xmas
Kasman
June 18, 2014 at 11:54 am
Study this guy first before you give your all to him – if you haven’t already! I smell a rat here. Any way at the end of the day, it really is your choice. But I am sure your inner self is already talking to you that is why you are even asking for help
SEPI
June 18, 2014 at 12:34 pm
Honestly i think there is something fishy about the Guy, try to find out what really happened,probably he still dating the same girl
general
June 18, 2014 at 1:12 pm
No find uo on husband.that man is now a father,
Uluse
June 18, 2014 at 1:22 pm
Trust me they never even broke up this man is just upto no good, he will make sure he uses you and then go back to the mother of his baby… Just forget him, God will Surely give you your own man!!!
ROMASAIDO AND KEIDO
June 18, 2014 at 2:00 pm
My dear you are being fulled.
Trixy
June 18, 2014 at 3:56 pm
fooled.
Jason Nyirenda
June 18, 2014 at 4:03 pm
Try your luck and submit your whole self to him
RE-POSTED
June 18, 2014 at 5:17 pm
YES GO AHEAD MY DEAR AND BECOME A SPEAR WHEEL OR JUST A PLAN B IN HIS LIFE..AM SURE THAT WILL BE ALOT OF FUN FOR YOU
truthfull
June 20, 2014 at 9:44 am
spare not spear
chikolwe
June 18, 2014 at 6:25 pm
Your not alone who does this mai gal
nm
June 18, 2014 at 6:25 pm
Plse my friend. This guy could just b cheating u. Am a guy and when I want to test new water I also lie like that but I can’t leave my wife. So be careful.
Hastings
June 18, 2014 at 7:28 pm
Give it a second thought girlfriend, do u really think a guy can leave a girl he has dated for 6yrs, just like that? No, this guy is so much used to this girl . He just wants to use u and dump u like u are some sort of garbage, wake up!
Doubtful
June 18, 2014 at 7:39 pm
You already know the answer. What advice do you need when someone already have a pregnant partner of over six years?
robertson
June 18, 2014 at 8:00 pm
you sound so clever as know sex have come so serious these days you have heard and read on papers.fathers having sex with there on children or even animals.A real guy do not disclose issues like “I left her 4 this and that”. Deeply in his heart you are not the second or last to be approached.Everytime I browse is sex,I read news papers its sex,on radio its sex and you sex:Is sex very friendly with nosense results “like being left with pregnance or used like you want to be.
My X left me coz I was not giving her sex and went telling her friends that am not a man.the challenge is this “honour your mother and father coz there are 2nd 2 God”follow your parents’teachings.
“CAN YOUR FATHER BE HAPPY WITH YOUR GUYS BEHAVIOR?”
What if you are the mother,what can you encourage you daughter?that’s why you ladies you go astray like your fathers was not feeding you propery “SHAME”
Having sex with him sound louse!
Your morals are yours to control.
Abafyashi
June 20, 2014 at 9:46 am
Good counsel Robertson. Woman if it is hard read, understand and obey the Word of God them at least ask your parents/guardians and some serious meaning friends. It’s all sinful and unreasonable to pick up what your friend has spat out and eat. All the comments so far point to one thing – this man is bad news to your life… Please remember to give us feedback on whatever decision you arrive at.
1ZED
June 18, 2014 at 9:45 pm
Desparation women. Look for a sober man, that one Chiwa
1ZED
June 18, 2014 at 9:47 pm
Desparation for woman amazes me. find a sober man for u
mupepe gift
June 19, 2014 at 12:16 am
Girls are stranded
edav
June 19, 2014 at 8:09 am
Nosense
MAN
June 19, 2014 at 8:23 am
Am just wondering what swept off your feet??in two months??and finding out his past and still confused? You need help…
kondwani
June 19, 2014 at 9:24 am
useles creature
chile1
June 19, 2014 at 12:06 pm
So what if he is gona hav a baby wit his x? Atleast he is nat bonkin both ya at tha same tym
Oscar
June 19, 2014 at 1:08 pm
Better think more about that, before giving in…
sata
June 19, 2014 at 1:28 pm
no sex until that x girlfriend of his derivers okey
Zuwaangendabah
June 19, 2014 at 5:06 pm
That guy is a player for sure. So you are his next victim of being used and being impregnated. Make the right choice before you regret. Sex will always sweep you off your feet coz he has all the experience.
humangasor
June 19, 2014 at 6:41 pm
jst dump the guy. who told u that u shud go out with a guy who has a child? he has a baby to take care of and also has a littel beef with his ex-girlfreind’s family. jst find another guy b4 u get urself into alot of trouble. ther iz a man out thr 4 u
kapembwa boyd
June 21, 2014 at 10:01 am
its fine if u r ok wit it mind u its yo heart we are talkin abot here kaa