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My Girlfriend Wants To Dump Me Because I Don’t Believe In GOD
Dear Readers,
My girlfriend and I have been together for almost three months but she wants to break up with me because I’m neither a Christian nor a Muslim, I don’t believe in God. I’m a freethinker.I love her so much and I don’t want to loose her because of this issue.
I have vowed never to be a Christian in my life. I’m an atheist. she is a God fearing Christian with good morals and she’s very beautiful and intelligent, but she says she can’t get married or date an “unrepentant pagan” like me.
please what should I do? Should I let her go or should I compromise and throw away what I believe to be truth and embrace what I think is false, all because of love, I’m confused.
- FRIENDS, Please Kindly advice this man
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cm
June 24, 2014 at 10:38 am
Can two walk together except they agree. The two of you are not in agreement, so part company.
PARI PASU
June 24, 2014 at 10:39 am
Get behind her U devil!
diamond platinum
June 24, 2014 at 10:40 am
You know what to do for you to win her
vuto777
June 24, 2014 at 10:50 am
And wat is she still doing with you after 3 months.u two are too diferent.
shipson
June 24, 2014 at 10:51 am
Muli fipuba bonse.
snowball
June 24, 2014 at 11:03 am
sorry ba guy u have 2 leave her bcoz light and darkness can never meet.
atheist
June 24, 2014 at 11:05 am
She’s just being a hypocrite, christian and muslim men are no beta than us my friend. If you were to ask her to name for you one good thing that christian and muslim men can do that you can’t, am sure she’s gonna have difficulties. However, its very easy to give examples of bad things that christian and muslim men do.So you can’t be brainwashed to think you are the bad guy all in the name of love, stick to what you believe in and be the good guy that you are. We are good guys, we just have found convincing reasons to believe you are a beta person than I am if you believe in God…
munafiq
June 24, 2014 at 11:42 am
This girl is not a christian either,oil and water can never mix not even for a’ month’,,,did I hear three months???
GIRL
June 24, 2014 at 11:59 am
Ifyabupuba fye….atase…!!!
love
June 24, 2014 at 12:07 pm
JUST LET HER GO MAN
Charlie2000
June 24, 2014 at 12:12 pm
The best u can do is to know Jesus as ur personal saviour n then God will provide u with ur true wife, based on love n not feelings……
general
June 24, 2014 at 12:44 pm
I think u are a islam. My friend zambia is a christian nation, dot bring boko haram in zambia.mulekefye she is a christian.
Hambilwi-abana.
June 24, 2014 at 12:49 pm
ulichipuba.to believe in God, you do not need to be Christian or Muslim.you are worser than a hypocrite.at least a hypocrite has a chance of seeing God.seeing is believing my friend. you can see beauty and it is telling you it is from God ulekana. ****** FOOL.
Real Nigga
June 24, 2014 at 4:12 pm
Ulitole iwe.
Chibote
June 24, 2014 at 1:00 pm
Repent and invite Jesus in your life, not because of her, but because you need to be saved. Jesus did not come to this world just to visit, He came for serious business of saving mankind.
CHILANKALIPA
June 24, 2014 at 1:03 pm
In the first place your so called girlfriend should know better than having a non believer for any future plans, to you even marriage came from nowhere, those feelings you claim to have for her came from nowhere, in fact you yourself came from nowhere, all the the shit you throw in the toilet comes from nowhere, your brain came from nowhere, the house you live in came from nowhere, the roads you use came from nowhere, the Teacher who taught you to read and write came from nowhere, the school you went to came from nowhere, everything you see, smell, do, eat and touch came from nowhere.Awe ine chilankalipa mwe.
the future
June 24, 2014 at 1:30 pm
help me understand, what do you really believe in, are you satanic or something.
love is about what makes that person, how did you love her, you say, you sweared not to be a Christian, then who did you vow that to?
just repent and follow Christ.
kwa george
June 24, 2014 at 1:54 pm
FOR YOUR OWN INFORMATION SHE EFFECTIVELY ACTUALLY DIPLOMATICALLY DITCHED YOU ON THOSE GROUNDS.
God fearing child
June 24, 2014 at 2:22 pm
U are an Antichrist. But if u have so much belief yo so called athiesim. WHAT DID U SEE IN A CHRISTIAN TO MAKE U CONFUSED OF YOUR BELIEF????
chief
June 24, 2014 at 2:43 pm
being a christian is the best decision one can make therefore not a compromise.
Two cant walk together unless they agree….let her man.
Kamushi
June 24, 2014 at 3:15 pm
u not a free thinker u r a free stinker i wonder wat de b!tch saw in u coz 2 me u r just some confused piss of sh!t u want 2 share yo stup!d!ty wit de world.u must b gay liv her let her get a normal man,u really suck
Wantanshi
June 24, 2014 at 3:19 pm
You have got to understand this atheist first before judging him. It’s easy to disbelieve in God when the world you live in is saturated in evil and hypocrisy. What with false religion, materialism and evil people governing the planet, one is left with little choice but to believe God cannot be present amid this chaotic scenario. But atheist can do well to investigate further the existence of God. There is a reason why the Creator of our universe hasn’t intervened up to now to undo the damage caused by humans. The atheist can investigate this rather than be satisfied by the belief that God doesn’t exist, he does. It’s impossible that things could just happen without cause. If you look around you and find something that was not made by some one, show me.
id!ot!
June 25, 2014 at 9:38 am
Wise words indeed from a Soli/Lenje!
general ignorant brat
June 24, 2014 at 3:31 pm
That brat cod general has made me laugh,ati he is a islam,,lol how can a person be a islam?????????? Go and research yo vocabulary,,mh ignorance at its best
Umuntungwa
June 24, 2014 at 3:32 pm
Go get a witchdoctor to bewitch her. Then marry her. Love doesnt know God. People married long before they knew God
Gps
June 24, 2014 at 3:34 pm
My dear forget about that lady she stands on truth do not be yoke together with unbeliever. She is very right which I suppose she ditch’s you because even myself I cannot make company with atheist in fact she is wasting her time let her find a GOD fearing Man for her self than you, a person who does not believe in God is not worthy living is like a dead DOG
MIZE
June 24, 2014 at 3:46 pm
The best thing you can do if at all you love her is simple LEAVE HER ALONE find your fellow pagan by so doing u shall have peace in your life
Chisha Kambole
June 24, 2014 at 4:19 pm
Just hang yourself.
lukundo
June 24, 2014 at 5:07 pm
The fool says there is no God yu hv hears and ayes hw can yu say there is no God. Then who is yor father???? I can’t sayn may be yu believe in….. Repent God is real
x5
June 24, 2014 at 5:24 pm
Does it mean you are the devil????
BMW X6
June 24, 2014 at 6:26 pm
Just comply
SoM
June 24, 2014 at 6:49 pm
You are doing the work of your father Satan. Repent before its to late.
mwansa
June 24, 2014 at 7:29 pm
The angels of the Lord encamp around that Lady, be careful, they will whip yo behinds.
Bwalya
June 24, 2014 at 7:30 pm
What fooL indeed. Son of the Devil . Leave her alone you serpent from hell .
watson
June 24, 2014 at 7:34 pm
You are dead you fool.. Can you tell us where you originated from??
Let this woman associate with normal people. You need a Psychiatric help. Go to hell.
Moyenda
June 24, 2014 at 7:54 pm
You are the same idiots who believe is if you take all the natural elements and mix then with water en you could create a living organism? Dream on with ur atheist beliefs. Leave her alone, or you will weaken her faith.
kakolwe
June 24, 2014 at 8:37 pm
You dull Christians who call atheist as Devil, Satan,etc, research first! The Devil believes in God Jehovah. Mulifikopo? Atheists DO NOT believe in the Devil too! So instead of insulting them, let God use you, mwefipuba! They need to see God in you to believe. Hell fire kwisa!
Mwandi atheist, kafwayeko umbi. Leave these impotent christians alone.
Nigerian pastor to be
June 24, 2014 at 9:52 pm
kakolwe you must be dull
kakolwe
June 24, 2014 at 10:47 pm
@nig pastor, am not dull but analitical. Most of these Christians have NEVER shown Christ in them but live in fear of hell fire. Coz of that fear, they eat grass, give their daughters to be f**kd by pastors when God has told them to try EVERY spirit, prophecy! Actually, a very thin line divides stupidity from humility.
FuManchu
June 25, 2014 at 5:23 am
@ kwa george you have summed it all up, and as the christian she professes for herself she is not a good one if she has failed to preach to him or bring him to accept Jesus as his Lord and Savior thus she’s chosing the easy way of ditching him! Aren’t ardent Christians, Moslems and, other religious followers supposed to win more souls to their faith? Move on brother she may still be on a mission to kissing frogs before finding one that will turn into prince charming!
Narrant
June 25, 2014 at 8:30 am
Leave her alone. You could have a life-time of discord were you to persist and insist.
marvin k
June 25, 2014 at 8:59 am
Its not arithmetic’s where negative and positive will make negative no, and they say birds of the same kind flock together.my brother ur two deferent personalities in which u cant combine heavens glory with hell, no our lord Jesus wit the devil. The lord is speaking through her so u may repent and seek salvation so u may became one. Remember God is love.
NASIKUKU MUKOMBWE
June 25, 2014 at 9:53 am
kindly findo out which tribe put pink lips kabimba as acting president.why should he force matters on issues that do not suit him.pls pls Zambians lets cry to the Almighty JEHOVAH to giv us an able bodied leader before ZAMBIA goes to the waste.Its our pray that our president comes back in good health.we LOVE ba SATA PLS.GOD SAVE HIM FOR MOTHER ZAMBIA.