By Benjamin Mulenga (Bsc.Psychology,Russia)
Here is a list of things you need to teach your Child(ren) at early age:
1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone’s laps no matter the situation including uncles.
2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.
3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as ‘my wife’ or ‘my husband’
4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.
5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.
6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.
7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don’t, the society will teach them the wrong values.
8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.
9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often.
10. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).
11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families). 12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the crowd.
13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don’t keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them. Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be.
Have a Nice day and Great Week Ahead And possible forward to all friends who have children’s
David nkandu
July 13, 2014 at 4:40 pm
I like this, thank u for ur update
David Nkandu
July 13, 2014 at 4:43 pm
I need more of this important words
Muzo
July 13, 2014 at 6:16 pm
great indeed nd thanx. we really ve to protect our baibes, never trust anyone when it comes to yo child’s welfare. da devil is really at work. stop endangering their lives, they re our future leaders.
kakolwe
July 13, 2014 at 6:31 pm
14. If you have daughters as beautiful & friendly as mine, buy a gun and snipers. Shoot on sight or cut off intruding ntwenus.
Muzo
July 13, 2014 at 7:07 pm
Grt words
Abdul
July 13, 2014 at 7:53 pm
This is a great article Tumfweko, Felicitations.
tutu
July 13, 2014 at 8:48 pm
gret article Benjamin mulenga kip t up chikala @kakolwe nice1, anyway I oso have a beautiful 1yr old boy,kip 1 f the girls 4 him if they ar as beautiful as u claim
SEKOPONOKE
July 14, 2014 at 8:41 am
I like the article very educative. Nasambilila mwee ifyakusunga abana bandi
Kape
July 14, 2014 at 9:12 am
indeed a very good artical keep it up my bro and may God give you more wisdom to write such articles more powerful than this.
CHALI
July 14, 2014 at 11:48 am
thank you very much for this good advice, otherwise some of us we take things simple without knowing the impact it will bring on a growing child;
Naine wine
July 14, 2014 at 4:46 pm
The come of Mr Mulenga!! That is my man !!! words of wisdom !! very educative!
Shoko Sugi
July 15, 2014 at 5:37 am
Ba Mulenga mukapange ka website pali iyi data.