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How Do I Tell My Boyfriend That I’m Sleeping With His Father
This message was sent to us by one of our numerous readers, who wants some advice desperately as it concerns her future…. Read below;
Something is happening between me and my boyfriend’s father that will come out soon but I don’t know how to present it to him, because he may not forgive me and even attack me, am really scared. Please I want you to share my story with people so I can get good advise on what to do and how to do it.
My boyfriend is stingy but I love him. He is always doing projects and will say he needs more money for his projects. So, one day I met his father at a hotel where I went to do supplies:
Since that day my life has not been the same again. The man has been spoiling me with cash and I have been bedding him, not that am proud about it but I need money and my guy is not helping. The problem now is that his father wants to marry me since he is separated from my guy’s mum and he said I should forget about his son, after I told him about us.
He told me his son is not responsible. Truly, I love the father more than his son now. But I’ve dated my guy for 10 months and most of his friends already know us as lovers. Pls my headache is how to tell him about me and his dad and our intentions to get married without getting him too angry that he will do something bad to me? I want to go to his house and tell him. Please help, i don’t know how to go about it!
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Posted by
Umupandapwiti
July 29, 2014 at 10:44 am
Just do his father a ka 12 minutes Bobby East.
Zondie Zacks
July 31, 2014 at 4:02 pm
Ba mayo imwe muli ule, obviously you knew the father along time ago, and you are using the guys’ stinginess to sleep with his father, shame on you.You open your legs to his father and then to his son,,, who is sweeter between the two or who his better in bed.
PARI PASU
July 29, 2014 at 10:55 am
you know what to do!
Sara
July 29, 2014 at 11:04 am
Be . . . itch
explicit
July 29, 2014 at 11:15 am
young lady u r such a waste of raw material. imagin yo boyfriend datin yo mum & he want 2dump u 4her. wher r da morals good morals 4d@ mata.
Oracle
July 29, 2014 at 2:05 pm
Explicit, your message is very clear just like you name. This lady has no morals. The best is to leave all.
young chonya
July 29, 2014 at 11:15 am
Ulitantule ukutemwisha impiya nobukala..
malama
July 29, 2014 at 11:22 am
Stupid woman. You are just a whore.
Boko Haram
July 29, 2014 at 11:42 am
You have no morals, not even bad ones, dump both of them. This is extreme taboo. How can one be your father-in-law and lover at same time, and how can the other be your son and lover at the same time?
Manhimself
July 29, 2014 at 12:02 pm
Lady you have the love of money not the love for the person as a husband or boyfriend,you better dump both of them because shame is on your way as long as you are still with one of the two-perhaps you are practising a taboo!
x46
July 29, 2014 at 12:16 pm
The father and yourself needs To Be caged
Mije
July 29, 2014 at 12:23 pm
You are not a marriage material, leave both of them, father & son ill hate each other 4 g if u continue.
kakolwe
July 29, 2014 at 12:23 pm
Amamweee (as lala’s of Ndabala would say). This female human being!!!! Umunobe bakamujaya Ku Kapilimponshi. Ono ulayanda kumwambila Oyo musankwa!!! Weee! Balakujaya Andiwe. Advice: Forget the horny father, & quit your foolishness and ditch the son. Otherwise, marry the son & the father will continue riding you. CiSperm Cembalapoto iwe.
Mukwai
July 29, 2014 at 12:34 pm
You are dangerous to know or have as a friend. What ever we say will never change you because you have a bad spirit with no human morals but animals’ look to God He is the only one who change your bad behaviour, in friendly teams I say seek God and His righteousness then He will make you clean, after that stop sleeping around coz sex is sin outside marriage.
de
July 29, 2014 at 1:07 pm
Bad girl,lady,woman
Chief of Grief
July 29, 2014 at 1:09 pm
Ya ya ya ya naiwe wailetafye pamulabasa makaka nomba leka tuku pishemo justice nga’lilya ihule linobe swine.1st of all walitemweshapo impiya than uyo wishi wabula’amano nga’iwe ulefwaya ukupa.What meks u think you r yo dudes responbility anyway?U very much knew yo dudes useles dad elo waya mukwimya amolu mumulu makepula iwe!!Ati i need advice,kwena iwe solola ulangala GOOD advice pa tumfweko elo ninshi walinjishiba shetani iwe aiyi?Ala nga’ninebo uchita efyo nkunaku panyela stanyoko elo nakutunga na screw driver muchimutwe several times naya namuku joina umunandi Kanene.From the looks of things,walitemwesha ubukala,imwe muletususaulako amabolo bunda bwa nyele yenu fi na mutekenya imwe!So nkwipusheko iwe ni advise isa ulefwaya,tell me pantu ndekubwelela nombaline nshilapwisha na justice yandi,anso wi selapo……
KALULU
July 29, 2014 at 1:39 pm
Nids delivernce
Chief Of Grief
July 29, 2014 at 2:00 pm
Nabwela as promised!!Okay to cut a long di***ck o napushila a story short,nkunakutombapo naine aiyi pantu fyonse ulefwaya ku echo ichipuba chawishi nku na kulasa,currency yena nalikwata,ubwaba tebwakwipusha nokwipusha eyo.!!Look @ it in this angle,ulihule ndi ihule ilaume perfect fit waikata teh.?So my advise to u is leave ’em both bantu ma one kuli guy yobe pantu wali sakuta ba wishi impumbu ya muntu.So njebako uwalowelepo,wishi nan’gula umwana?Am sure ni chi wishi nalodela teh?Anso i would gladly love to fu***ck the senses out of u slut whore,SHIT!!!!
Oracle
July 29, 2014 at 2:08 pm
Useless girl….She must be caged before lives are lost. How could you do such!!!! Shame on you and all those supporting your move.
Oracle
me
July 29, 2014 at 2:10 pm
chinyoo chenu mayo imwe…you have been dating for 10 months…recently met the dad and already planning to get married…next time will be reading about you being killed for dating father and son…
Maiko
July 29, 2014 at 2:12 pm
Your boyfriend will Kill you and his Dad when he discovers. Girl, this is no movie…..
chile1
July 29, 2014 at 2:12 pm
Jus cm I fck u then u go
ONETIME RELOADED
July 29, 2014 at 2:25 pm
DO IT IF YOU WANT TO DIE!
Pig
July 29, 2014 at 2:47 pm
Ask human rights’ activists for guidance.
mario
July 29, 2014 at 2:51 pm
u gave the son hiv and now u want to kill the father kubuka kwanshani wuku…amalepe yenu yalamiletelele..
Kamushi
July 29, 2014 at 2:56 pm
you r a whore tombanoko u’l mek those 2fools kill each ada.u av bn sleepin wit yo father & brothers,u r messd up in yo head.banoko umucanga mundofu waumfwa ka!!
Mavis Mandefu
July 29, 2014 at 3:11 pm
Dear Lady,
What advise are you looking for when you know exactly what you want ?? Why didn’t you seek for advise before stepping ahead ??? How would you feel if your boyfriend had sex with your mother ?? Go ahead and marry both .
Amen.
voico
July 29, 2014 at 3:18 pm
I think we need a holiday in zambia called the ‘d!ck day,its like these d!cks are working very hard than pipoz brains
DORIKA
July 29, 2014 at 3:26 pm
Just pretend to your boyfriend that you did not know he was his father and move on. I think the better option is the father because young men are very stingy.
Gabbage
July 30, 2014 at 2:47 pm
Ba Dorika mwalipena mulishilu.
Kape
July 29, 2014 at 4:27 pm
AWE NAPAPA SANA MUKASHANA WALILEMANA MU BONGOBONGO PLEASE GO TO ESTABLISHED CHURCH AND GET DELIVERANCE OTHERWISE YOU WILL BRING CALAMITY ON BOTH AND START KILLING EACH OTHER AND IN ANY CASE BLOOD IS THICKER THAN WATER PLEASE JUST DISAPPEAR INTO A THING AIR BETTER THAT WAY. YOU ARE A SHAMEFUL WOMAN YOU ARE EVEN BOOSTING THAT THE FATHER IS SPOILING ME, JUST KNOW THAT WHEN YOUR BOYFRIEND DISCOVER ABOUT THIS, HE WILL KILL YOU. AND YOU WANT TO SEND YOUR FRIEND TO JAIL JUST DISAPPEAR I INFASAISE FOOLISH WOMAN GOLD DIGGER IWE WHO JUST AFTER MONEY TAISHIBA NEFYO BASHIFWAYA MBULI IWE
mojo`
July 29, 2014 at 5:59 pm
“I have been bedding him, not that am proud.Truly, I love the father more than his son now.”Two contradicting statements thats why Hule ni hule just go hang.
ZAD
July 29, 2014 at 6:15 pm
Iwe chigelo u are more than a fool & a dog is more good than u. shit!!
NDEKUTUKA NAKAMBI MBWEKESHEPO
July 29, 2014 at 7:20 pm
Iwe satanyoko musurunyoko elyashi lyakuleta pamwela ili, ulekwata amano mutompwe waumfwa. waba ukununka ifipu ku item.
DMMU
July 29, 2014 at 8:12 pm
A cipha dzuwa? u r a foolish woman with no feelings for mankind.you are like Oscar Pistorious.how are you going to face either of them if you decide to marry either of them.From the look of things your problem is how to source money and not how to find a boyfriend. leave both of them and find yourself another potential financier. Naku yopa, you r mean!!!
Rainier
July 29, 2014 at 9:45 pm
bo
Rainier
July 29, 2014 at 9:53 pm
sin is sweet becareful on wat you wish, jst the same like dating with yo inlaw. 1 advise repent coz ther is darkness in u, nd the lord wil sho u the way!
Janja wid.
July 30, 2014 at 8:46 am
@explicit & many of you pipo u hv correctly answerd this hallot.how do u plan to do such an evil thing?like some1 hs said,how will you feel if da guy was dating yo mum??useless girl,dirt.
amashinsha
July 30, 2014 at 8:56 am
Imwe bafikala naba finyo umuntu nalila mwafweni. Namupwisha nokwiba ati abaice tabaishiba ukutomba,bushe Bobby waste ngabamwafwako bawishi kuti mwatila balufyaya?pantu ka Ruth kalikwata ama games inhands takateya so bawishifye Bobby bafwile bamuteyelako akofweko bwino umwaice. Ichitemenye nina chitemwe nomwana,ichitemenwe umwana chitemwe nawishi
jk
July 30, 2014 at 10:19 am
Be true to yourself, you are not in love you are simply infatuated. LOVE is not about having money but a mutual understanding between two people. Get real and find yourself a free man….leave them both because you are heading towards destruction and God is not pleased with you.
Greg
July 30, 2014 at 10:20 am
You are the worst be..itch in the entire universe!
Trixy
July 30, 2014 at 11:03 am
Wont even waste my comment on such nonsense…… disgusting
Mwa
July 30, 2014 at 12:59 pm
Put yourself in his shoes!
De Great
July 30, 2014 at 2:07 pm
Idiot,imbecile Wowan
Gabbage
July 30, 2014 at 2:49 pm
I think ask your boy to date your mother and see how it will feel then you can take it from their.
Kanai
July 30, 2014 at 8:56 pm
I am sure this woman has heard what has been said. My advise is STOP it NOW!
jk
July 31, 2014 at 9:27 am
Kanai true that.