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I’m Pregnant For My Uncle,He Wants Me Out Of His House
Dear Readers,
I am Memory by name, in my early 20s. My parents died years ago,life became miserable for me since their sudden demise. I thought it was end of the world for me before one of my uncles who lives in Northern Province came to my ‘rescue.’
I moved into his house last year and he promised to see me through in my academic pursuit. I never knew that was the beginning of my problems.
The whole thing started few months back when my uncle’s wife traveled overseas with the children.
Since then, my uncle started acting funny. He’s been constantly demanding of sex from me. In fact, there was an occasion when he invited me to come and sleep in the bedroom with him but I refused. How could I have sex with my father’s younger brother? I asked but he refused to pay attention.
Since then, I’ve been receiving a lot of threats from him; he even promised to send me back to the village if I don’t succumb.
Precisely in May, I allowed him ‘IN’ after much pressures and threats of beating and sending me back to the village.
Recently, I started feeling dizzy and I told him, he asked me to visit the hospital for a test and the doctor told me that I’m already 7 weeks pregnant.
I told my uncle about the development and he asked me to abort the pregnancy. I’m afraid I, I’ve not done such thing before and the worst of it is that his wife would return by month end. He threatened to throw me out of the house if I don’t terminate the baby.
Please I need advice,what should I do?
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Auntie
July 30, 2014 at 3:00 pm
It’s unfortunate you allowed your uncle “IN” live. You commit suicide!
DIVA
July 30, 2014 at 4:48 pm
@ Auntie, I concur with you. I lost my parents very early and never succumbed to anyone’s pressure. She is just a whore, how do you allow your father ‘IN’. We mbwa we, wilabepesha bu orphan kolwe iwe.
The young engineers in zambia
July 30, 2014 at 3:09 pm
@Auntie you are very foolish and idiot person is the world, i guess you still have both parents ,life is had as she said she lost parents.
Just report the matter (uncle)secretly without telling him to the victim police ,they will handle you idiot and foolish uncle nicely and save your life period
dorika
July 30, 2014 at 4:51 pm
@ the young engineers….., if you are a man, you must have opened a relative’s legs and if you are a woman, you sound like you let a relative ‘IN”. So what if she reports, nothing will happen and the hule will be sent to the village with her ka baby with down syndrome. Let her just go for an abortion and stop letting the father ‘IN”. when she finishes school or college, then bolt.
SHOSHOMAN
July 30, 2014 at 3:27 pm
So sad, how old are you? @auntie is yo uncle married? take him to victim mayb they ill support you.
Denkete
July 30, 2014 at 3:44 pm
There is a thin line betwee your uncle and a male dog. A dog doesnt choose whether its mother, daughter, sister or niece, as long as a female dog is on heat, ni tiyetiye.
Nomba naiwe wine niece how do you open your legs for uncle? wen he touched you, did you become wet? If so, you are a bitch.
concerned
July 30, 2014 at 3:55 pm
Why didn’t you agree to go back to the village when you were clean than allowing yourself sleeping with you? You like it or not you will go back to the village now with that burden, just wait for the wife to come. You are very useless. In early 20s u are mature enough to think properly.
muntu.
July 30, 2014 at 4:16 pm
Sad news. Pressure is not an excuse for you to open your legs for your father, not “uncle”. Sweetie abort that thing though its innocent. I mean how can you keep that abomination as a, “baby” you seem to be proud of your pregnancy. Tell your father to give money and visit doctors for professional abortion before you are thrown out of the house and languish with your miserable baby. Even if you go to police it will not help you. Your father will be arrested for incest but you allowed him “IN” who’s going to take care of your thing. The Victim support Unit do not give money to desperate pregnant women. In the 2Os you are a big person to make decisions. Think for once girl both made a terrible mistake.
Chief Of Grief
July 30, 2014 at 5:00 pm
Iwe u desrve my advice enven though walilufyanya pakwisulamo because ya love yakwikala mu town.My dear abantu kumushi bala survivafye bwino bwino nokuchola bamo abamu kalale waunfwa teh?I wouldn’t advise u to keep that foetus u have pantu akaba ni moko moko kwati the likes of @ka Pop nangula akamufyala kakwe @ka summer pantu aba tebantu waunfwa.As for yo stupid uncle kamu chite report pantu nga wa deleta ka foetus uko aka kokkanyapo ukuku tomba mami waunfwa teh?Nkwipusheko,bushe walechita mourn na eccitement olo walechita na orgasm aiyi?If yes ninshi uli hule ilyafulungana nga ni no nishi waliba na mano.So my dear just do what i’v said & pray to God to & ask for better judgement pertaining to yo plight mami>All the best to you my dear.
burret
July 30, 2014 at 6:03 pm
So does you uncle have a big cock ?
WEAKILEAKS
July 31, 2014 at 10:29 am
itle bukala bwanama leka ukwipusha fya bungwa tomba noko wafita patako you cant just contribute ninshi kubikapo ifya bunama chikala.eimwe mutomba bankashi benu.tomba kalukuluku iwe!!!
amashinsha
July 30, 2014 at 6:31 pm
But bafipuli tamwakwata ama solutions yakusovelamo ama problems. Young lady take my advice,pantu batila umulilo ucingilile abakulu taocha. Simple arethimatic iye kalalefye no mwaume umbi out,and let the uncle call that guy for taking you and spend night with you at his house. Ifintu kwambukishanya atemwa ukumugonga nangu ukumufwika amala yambushi mumukoshi chikala. Kabwalala ni pakuboko.
WEAKILEAKS
July 31, 2014 at 10:32 am
itole naiwe wine chikala BUKALA BWANAMA USELESS ADVICE
mojo`
July 30, 2014 at 6:32 pm
Thats a pure case of incestuous rape report him to the police.And let the doctors conduct a legal abortion because you are eligible.
WOMAN
July 31, 2014 at 11:17 am
THAT IS A GOOD ADVICE, AFTER LEGAL ABORTION SHE SHOULD GO BACK TO THE VILLAGE.
Kamushi
July 30, 2014 at 7:23 pm
if u wer told 2 sleep wit a dog 4money wud u do it?wat about satanism av u thot of joinin?bcoz the 2 r just the same as wat u did u whore.presha is der but their is always a way out.so iwe nayama oobe mwembwa mwe mwaumfwa ka??
kakolwe
July 30, 2014 at 7:34 pm
Tumfweko at its best!!!
You see my intellectual *** friend @Denkete? The pieces of advice given here are a true reflection of what obtains in society. Though the comedy, they show how we have degenerated in selfishness. Most applicable is that of @Amashinsha. Guess how many men are simply caretakers of our kids!
Summer
July 30, 2014 at 7:36 pm
Chief of grief elo lwanya nomba waikata nomwipwa obe I think you need to check with your doctor . I see you miss me a lot coz you can’t stop mentioning my name. Kisses to you I know you are gay.
openess
July 30, 2014 at 7:51 pm
my sister that is police case life is gift no matter how it has come. whether you abort or not you will finally be kicked out of the house because your uncle will become so possessive that the wife will know what is going on. keep the baby let police hold your issue another door will open for you dear sister
Kuchinane Twambenga
July 30, 2014 at 8:23 pm
Shame and sad for such things to happen. Please get counsel from YWCA. The matter will be handled effectively and there should not be any anxieties.
These are real issues that need level headedness friends, let us help society.
Summer
July 30, 2014 at 8:27 pm
Mukasha iwe just keep your baby but your uncle is going to jail. It’s so sad that you allowed your uncle to fu and remember abortion is a sin you will never be forgiven if you kill that innocent child. Am sorry life is not easy like that.
muzo
July 30, 2014 at 8:29 pm
iwe why did u remain jst wth yo uncle when da other members went away nd when he started pressurng u why didnt u tell yo pastor’s wife? they wud ve asked u to stay wth thm. you also got interested. dnt kill an innocent child. report him to VSU nd go ku mushi. @ 20 u are mature enaf to dodge abomination.
jaklliper
July 30, 2014 at 8:38 pm
My dear yungsister never abort leav tht prgnce wen the ritetime com th responsble prson wil solv it
Kanai
July 30, 2014 at 8:41 pm
In sociology, the uncle is known as a disguised philanthropist who would stop at nothing until he satisfies his ego.
There is also something wrong with the niece (daughter).
I agree that YWCA should come in!
tutu
July 30, 2014 at 9:25 pm
wemukashana iwe ifishinka niweweka na mabolo ya yama obe mwebeshibe…bafikala imwe mwebaletila ati ku kapokola ngalimbi aka kali hulefye kali seduca yama so d@ kakwate amaka pang’anda,nangula baletombanafye nakale nakale ubwafya bwaishile lilya kapula ifumo. anyway f w@ u say z true,try by o mins t get rid f d@ fitas,bcoz t wil b so unfair 2 brng a being in such an incest way & afta abortn return kumushi,Lesa umwine akakupala…anyway nga uli hule nainewine kuti natemwa ukulyapo ukufwako efyo walowa,afta wapapa ofcourse m nt a pervet! wamonaposhani?
ZAD
July 30, 2014 at 9:36 pm
Just kill yourself u are very foolish. u are about to bring stupid family in the country. bcoz even your own child wil bonk u. fuck u!
tutu
July 30, 2014 at 9:39 pm
bafikala naimwe mwebaletila ati dnt abort,try to put yrself in the kid’s shoes 12yrs later wen he z tryin 2 explain y z uncle z oso his fatha to sum stupid teens…t wil b torture 4 the rest f his life…finally I allowed him ‘IN’ in where? palya pene pakati apaba ubumi nobulowe…ngaine tekuti naine wine umbikepo palya pene pakati?
innocent
July 30, 2014 at 9:41 pm
The uncle is so very stupid,how could he take advantage of a desperate innocent kid.he must rot in prison.nonsense
Computer
July 30, 2014 at 9:48 pm
@Amashinsha, muli pa Pondo, that’s the wisest solution av ever seen, epulogilamu!!
Mucende
July 30, 2014 at 10:17 pm
Amumvwe Mucende mbaamba. It is better he and she plans to avoid outsiders to interfere including maigulu. She sould not abort or report to victim support unity who will just worsen the situation and cannot support her. Let uncle support both. If I was near I would have claimed responsibility to save uncle from the madam and the innocent pregnancy. Ine ifi efyo ningacita. Ifwe nifwe bakafwa. Real Mucende ena akumbwilepo sana dumpe between her legs. Ka virgin ka chikasha. Ifwe tuli basankwa sana. Twalumba, alimwi, Tumfweko nafuti. Uncle accept responsibility and look after that girl and her child.
scott
July 31, 2014 at 12:14 am
Get rid of it legally through hospital Doctors you can not keep that baby do it now while the time is right so you do not risk your life, it is sad that your uncle took very unfair advantage of you simply because you went through problems.
teti
July 31, 2014 at 1:07 am
which victim support wld help her? how much has she got? coz even legal clinic for women need some dwn payment, these organisations are no longer serving the maginalised in society as their core purpose but conduits for individual money making including legal aid…just investigate and see pipo who are assisted…
Pop
July 31, 2014 at 6:43 am
Its not my intention to visit this website (tumfweko) l only visit it because of this gay Chief of thief.Iwe pali iwe chikala sperm yali onaika fye Maybe naiwe uli mwana wabaKalamba babanoko l mean bakalamba babanoko ebatombele banoko naena yali rapecase elo wafyalilwamo nangu uliwakumbali,ecowatemwa ukutomba pamusula waba shikulu bobe uli gay washupa iwe makaka waumfwa teh?Banoko liswao chikala kuti baletombesha shani kumbwa yaba neibour.
Dyu!
July 31, 2014 at 6:55 am
Kikikiki @Mucende uli Macende nangula ntoni? Hw can u Say that Ocinswe yebo!.muneke kumatako mumubone mukonzyenye biyo a CHIEF OF GRIEF,POP wabota kapati.Chief of grief Chikala walishoka makaka iwe bawiso kubwamba bwalemana,nkakutombela Sister wobe pamusula wau teh? in nshili gay boyi nkayapwisha ma sister yobe mwati nine Boko Haram wamu Zambia Owo kolindila.
mutototo
July 31, 2014 at 8:53 am
the blem is on 3 pipo.1 the aunty how does she go oversea 4 long whn she now she used to giv sex to husband.2 the niece how does she ask 4 advice whn pregnt not b4 .3 the uncle why didnt he look fo prostitute if couldnt manage to wait fo wife
Kazembe wa Lunda
July 31, 2014 at 9:11 am
Ba ZED kuma LIVE mulifikali
Dodoma Daeresalaam Dansania
July 31, 2014 at 9:43 am
Abort the item my girl. The innocent child you want to bring on earth will live to be ridiculed. It will not enjoy life at all. Even if you die is there anything to live for after sleeping with your father?
Rai
July 31, 2014 at 10:18 am
The only advise I can give you is to Blackmail that foolish uncle of yoz because he has been foolish threatening you that u will go back to the village, first of all his the one in problems both with the Law and his wife so Thank me you lil Bitch for this master plan Am giving you. First of all you cant keep that Brat u are Carryin so just order him to give u a very big lumpsome of cash so that you get rid of that thing u have safely, afterthat u are old enough to start a life with the same money coz I know he will still chase u afterall believe me I am a man, If u want to know someone who can terminate that pregnancy properly without complication just say so that I recommend some Doctor.
immigrant
July 31, 2014 at 10:18 am
since you were never raped but consented to your uncle’s sexual manouvers, ur uncle will only be victimised at VSU, and that will be the end, thereafter you will need to look after your baby all by yourself. be careful how you approach this issue. sit down with your uncle.
PARI PASU
July 31, 2014 at 10:55 am
The poor girl needs a pieace of advice not condemnation here,sr keep the innocent child you are not the problem, i know u neeeded shelter and your wellbing is imporntant,the problem is this ENGLISH CULTURE we ve adopted,i mean if you were calling that man DADY instead of Uncle this shouldnt have happen.in my culture we treat all my brothers children as my children not as Nieces and Nephews, this will not sent somebody to seduce a child calling him daddy unless otherwise
namanje
July 31, 2014 at 11:06 am
you girl you know you are lying, you were never under pressure. you got used to it and you were enjoying the whole thing, now that you are pregnant you are saying that ‘pressure, pressure’ keep the baby and go to the village and ask for forgiveness from God.
ba luanshya
July 31, 2014 at 11:11 am
jungle kizwa nd cm l cant see yo advise here
Imwe
August 1, 2014 at 1:28 pm
@ dorika mulichipuba bamayo you are a whale opening legs to everyone who comes yo way, she bolt, bolt what kolwe…