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Dambisa Sues Husband For Marriage Reconciliation
Zambian singer Dambisa Lunda has sued her husband Brian Mulenga for marriage reconciliation in the Chilenje Local Court.
But Mulenga, who is a 2nd Lieutenant at Zambia National Service in Makeni, on the same day (August 25) applied before the Lusaka Boma Local Court for dissolution of marriage on grounds that Dambisa, 26 was disrespectful towards him.
According to summons obtained, the singer sued her husband for reconciliation and submitted that there were disputes in their marriage.
The couple is expected to appear before the Chilenje Local Court on September 14.
In Lt Mulenga’s summons to Dambisa, the court has set hearing for tomorrow.
Earlier on Monday, Lt Mulenga, in the company of his mother, retired Brig General Catherine Makwala, reported Dambisa at Woodlands Police Station, demanding a restraining order against the singer.
And police sources confirmed that Dambisa was reported to Woodlands Police Station.
But when contacted, Lt Mulenga refused to comment on the matter, saying he was not in a position to discuss the issue with the media.
Dambisa, who lives in Lusaka’s Woodlands area, told The Post that problems began when she exposed her pregnancy in an online magazine earlier this year.
Exclusive Zambian magazine carried a picture of a topless and pregnant Dambisa on its cover page a few months ago and many women organisations in the country condemned the move.
According to the singer, her mother-in-law was not happy with the picture in the magazine.
“When that picture came out, my mother-in-law was not happy, but my husband didn’t have problems because we were together during the shooting. We actually took a picture together where he covered my breasts,” she said.
Dambisa said her mother-in-law demanded that their marriage ends, saying Dambisa was a prostitute.
“My mother-in-law called me a prostitute because of that picture and from that time, she has been pushing the son to leave me. Before I gave birth, she came home to pack my husband’s clothes; she packed everything, including his underwear. What kind of mother does that? I gave birth prematurely because of stress,” she complained.
But Brig Gen Makwala accused Dambisa of taking men to their home when Lt Mulenga was in school, and that she did not want her son to marry a “prostitute” but a God-fearing woman.
Dambisa further said it was not easy for her to support her child financially as she currently did not have a steady income.
She said when the baby was a month old, she reported the case to police because her husband was behaving funny.
“I did not go ahead to give him the call-out that time because I thought we could find a way to resolve the issue. I even complained to his bosses at Makeni Zambia National Service. I regard him as my husband because lobola (dowry) was paid sometime back. We even had a kitchen party in 2012. We used to live together. He even had his matebeto, so what do you call that?” she asked.
Three years ago, Lt Mulenga publicly engaged Dambisa in Game Stores at Manda Hill Shopping Mall in Lusaka and planned to have a wedding later on.
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kakolwe
August 28, 2014 at 9:33 pm
If it looks like an azzhole, talks like an azzhole, fartz like an azzhole, dresses like an azzhole, chances are that IT IS an azzhole. This applies to your antics dumb-isa.
tutu
August 28, 2014 at 10:21 pm
lieutenant watomba wanaka atini? ubu ebu guy,ukukanyenga imisangoshonse nokukapela ifumo afta wapwisha imidowe nokwita abafyashi mukukulongela utwamukati ati kalihule…
test@e
August 29, 2014 at 7:56 am
Man tell banoko to leave u alone.She will call get you a demon from the church.
sexy
August 29, 2014 at 9:21 am
This guy is just a bully ad shud be ashamed of her self. Sh took th guy for granted coz he loved her.dambisa who does not know that u ar a prostitute ad a gold digger? ur ex husband deserve a real lady like me ad I will get him
ingileni mukwaii
August 29, 2014 at 9:45 am
The man who only has a hammer everything he encounters begins to look like a nail.Iwe Kapokola after wapwishanya no mukashana wamutwala naku ku ma half porn pictures then pa last ucinje inzelu iwe mambala.Bwana offier SIR think twice.And let me tell you icintu cimo the space between your fingers were created so that another one could fill them and that one is the one walilile amatebeto waumfwa maiche.
Then to the three of you,Your mother,your wife naiwewine Kapokola You must be the change you wish to see in the world.YOU THREE GUYS CONTROL EVERY THING NGA ABAKALAMBA MOSTLY IMWE MWEBAFYASHI BA KWA UYO MULUMENDO KAPOKOLA WACHALO>
Ulubunda
August 29, 2014 at 10:48 am
The moment I saw the kalufumo kakwa Dambisa with icitenge showing a bit of Ulubunda I saw fire on the mountain. Officer your mother is right. Which married woman would expose ifumo not ulufumo lwakwe but ifumo lya mwana mumala pa lwalala? She is not ready for marriage. I bet every man who saw kalya akamusana inagined f**** the hell out of that girl. Naka tatoo kacimpelesha. If you reconcile both of you must get more seriuos than you currently are. Marriage is not for the fain hearted. Additionally go for DNA to make sure it is your sperm that broke the ZONA PELUCIDA.
Dambisa
August 29, 2014 at 11:13 am
Lt yo motha z 1000000% rght whatever decision case run while can…If u pretend like othaz do u wl ve yoslf 2 blame…umukulu tapusa kebo…
WYNTER KABIMBA
August 29, 2014 at 11:53 am
Dambisa or whatever u call yourself did the retired mother called you a prostitute only? Then she might have forgotten the wed EVIL, you are not only a hule but also devil,if you had a chance of seeing what i wrote upon seeing your demonic pic sometime back,you will agree that i called your huby a fool not knowing that he is direct opposite of that, inshort he is a genius,Lt if u had a chance of seeing right now i have freezed and saluted you.this so called your wife is not serious with her marriage, if you want to go to an early grave please reconcile with that UGLY woman calls herself Dambisa,she is nothing but a fool.I never knew she had a well educated man like yourself.As for your Mother she is a true defination of the Mother! No true mother will support that nonsense she called fame.good move soldier.
GIFT
August 29, 2014 at 11:54 am
Lt i support your mom 100 per cent.i cant marry a woman exposing her body like that.To make the matters worse ZNS officers have respect so keep that respect and leave the prostitute
Chief Of Grief
August 29, 2014 at 11:57 am
YUSSSS bakuchenjesha makaka kikikiki do u know that ka sayin ati the ‘price of fame’ tefyo kikikikiki it has been applied on you effectively & efficiently kikikikik ulemwenako kikikikikikikikiki walila foul kikiki shipafye kikikikiki ama ups & downs ya ka life eayo wunfwa yaba applicable kuli you tefyo kikikiki am sure now u know my sayin that ubulanda bobe ninsansa shandi(yo sorrows ‘re my joy) kikikikikiki ba kupela justice walelomba teh?Kikikikiki
angel
August 29, 2014 at 11:57 am
every woman despite the status in society should humble herself if she is married or about to regardless of anything else…marriage is a sacrifice not because am a star a can do whatever I want!!I would rather have a woman who respects me even if I happen to be poor not embarrassing me in public…
Ulubunda
August 29, 2014 at 12:02 pm
I HAVE JUST REALISED THAT i ERONEOUSLY CALLED THAT PIECE OF CLOTH DAMISA WAS PRETENDING TO COVER HERSELF WITH ATI ICITENGE. AWE KAPIMPINYA. I WITHDRAW THE WORD ICITENGE AND REPLACEIT WITH AKATENGE.
Chief Of Grief
August 29, 2014 at 12:06 pm
We welcome u back with open hands to our single life.Ubushimbe tabwipaya mami,mwabweleni AGAIN……..kikikikikikikikiki bakulasa justice kikikikikikikikikikiki walila foul tefyo kikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikiki kosafye mami kikikikikikikiikikikikikiki aweshuwa utu ma marriages twa nowadays kuwayawayafye kikikikikikikikikiki i think i’ll find time to attend some of yo court proceedings kikikikikikikikikiki
hakainde
August 29, 2014 at 12:15 pm
PROBLEM WITH YOU GIRLS YOU FORGET YOUR CULTURE AND TRADITIONS THAT YOU LEARN AT YOUR SO CALLED KITCHEN PARTIES.ITS CALLED AMAFUNDE
captain chilz
August 29, 2014 at 1:07 pm
2nd lieutenant,why r u bringin the name of our defence forces into disrepute?