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Buumba
Juliet Buumba says she is virgin and her dream is to a marry a white man only because white men are caring.
Recently, Buumba ran an advert in The Post, seeking to marry someone who is white because that is where her heart belongs.
Buumba, 21 says it’s not about stereotyping because she considers black men as her brothers.
“I have never had a boyfriend in my whole life, neither have I slept with any man before and that is why I wouldn’t allow any man to take advantage of me, no ways, and at least not this time around when I have not even found my white guy,” she says.
Buumba, a student at Zambia Institute of Management and pursuing a diploma in purchasing and supply, says in an interview that she wants to get married to a white man because some Zambian men have proved to be violent and difficult to handle.
“This is something I have been wanting since my childhood and I have always dreamt of getting married to a white man. Well, for me, I see Zambian men and any other black men as my brothers and I cannot really get married to a black man and nothing will change that,” she says.
“I come from a family of 10 and I am the 8th born. I am a dependant and currently living with my aunt here in Chilanga. She is the one sponsoring me at school.”
Buumba says she has a strong belief that white men have strong and unconditional love for their spouses and that they have great respect for their wives.
She claims that some black Zambian men were not nice and friendly to their spouses.
“White men are not violent. They do not abuse their wives and that is why I want a white man to marry me. As for most Zambian men, all they know and do best is to abuse their wives, beat them up and, ah! They are just too violent and I cannot manage to live with such a man,” she says.
And Buumba says she would also prefer getting married to a white man resident in Zambia.
“I would not accept to get married to a white man who would want to take me to his home country because I wouldn’t know what kind of abuse he would subject me to. I wouldn’t want to be taken somewhere far from my family. I want them (family) to know how I am and how I am doing and in case things go sour, I should know where to run to,” she says.
Buumba says she is ready for marriage and that white men who are interested in marrying a young and vibrant Zambian woman should not hesitate to contact her.
“I am only 21 and I want a single white man for marriage aged between 29 and 34 years old because with that age difference, I feel we can get along very well and I would promise to give that person my full respect as his wife,” she says.
Buumba also explains that she did not tell her family about her intention to find and marry a white man because she wanted it to come as a surprise to them.
“From the 50 calls I have received so far from men, only two are whites and the rest are blacks, my ‘brothers’ so to say. Well, the two white guys, one is from Kitwe, his name is William and he promised to come and visit me here in Lusaka over the weekend. I will be meeting him at InterContinental Hotel because he prefers that place. And the other one said is a journalist from Mexico and he just came for some programme here in Lusaka, but I do not want to go for him because he wants to take me to his home country in Mexico,” she says.
“From the two, I think I would settle for William because he is locally based and he truly shows interest in marrying me. I will then take him to my aunty and introduce him. And then marriage procedures will have to commence.”
Buumba adds that she is not scared of human trafficking and that she is aware of what is becoming a common practice for some foreign nationals saying she is careful with the moves she is making.
“I know that I can be a victim of human trafficking. That is why I am extra careful in the way I am dealing with these issues,” said Buumba.
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tutu
September 12, 2014 at 10:03 pm
kolokombwa wembushiwe makaka fumbafu wehulewe kwindi iwe waba ichinyo pamenso…ichimusungu icho ulefwaya chikakubofyafye nokukuposa,,ifibasungu fyakutupasana fimona bachifita ngefibombelo fya kutomba. I study with 5 white guys n my class,2 of them personally tod me hw them consider black women,t disgustin 2 listen
brian
September 12, 2014 at 10:05 pm
kuti waseka. ifintu fimo
Zambian
September 12, 2014 at 10:09 pm
What an ignorant foolish person you are! Every race of humans beings you can think of, has abusive people including white people. What lesser and inferior mortal you are!
Wimu
September 12, 2014 at 10:15 pm
This girl has a very big problem. She has a very low self esteem who thinks whites are very superior. I suspect she has been brought up in a village. I am a keen follower of CI – criminal Investigations and I see how whites can be abusive to their wives. This girl is just too dull with no exposure to the real world.
kim
September 12, 2014 at 10:22 pm
komboni girls
tutu
September 12, 2014 at 11:09 pm
bushe iwewine makaka walikwata abafyashi nangula wakulilafye mubuhule? nafuma pa facebuk ,wapusuka nafilwa ukukusanga,namailo kesha ukukufwaya,kakusuba insele shamumatako ukamwenako waba ichinyo chambwa munuma…are the guys pachipanda nt gud inafu? wekolwe iwe wapwisisha notulo
Toka
September 13, 2014 at 1:14 am
Young lady you have not yet read the truth about the white guys you are talking about. I have read true stories about the white people you are claiming to be good. Put your thoughts and wishes in order before you make a mistake you will live to regret the rest of your life.If you intend to marry, marry someone who will love and take of you. If you are looking for skin color you will regret. look around zambia and see how many women have coloured children who have ran away from the very whites men you are claiming to be better than black and learn a lesson
Sepcial Agent Dr M.
September 13, 2014 at 1:16 am
She should be praised she is a virgin. But please expose her to simple information, statistics reveal that there are more divorce cases in Western than they are in Africa, of course reasons are numerous, but that should show her that her imaginations are quite very wrong, how can loving men be divorcing like that?!
Napapa Sana!
September 13, 2014 at 1:16 am
iyeeee naumfwa insoni
Disaster Management And Mitigation Unit
September 13, 2014 at 3:08 am
as I was reading this story it reminded me of crime and investigation. it makes the two of us wimu. buumba can you get your facts right. are u a product of an immature failed relationship? you will remain unmarried if marriage is one of your dreams. at your age our goals were different. sad development!!!
mj banda
September 13, 2014 at 4:41 am
this girl is just advertising herself
toloka
September 13, 2014 at 8:06 am
Baka kutomba pofye kumatako na mukanwa.wekolwe we.u ar not even beautiful.wembushi we.
baa bee
September 13, 2014 at 8:09 am
TELEMUNDO TELEMUNDO TELEMUNDO LOVERS,LET HER REACH 28 YEARS SHE WILL EVEN PRAY FOR BROKE BLACK GUY FOR THE HUSBAND!
Czar
September 13, 2014 at 8:13 am
This muppet who thinks so highly of white men by claiming they are not abusive goes on to contradict herself by saying “I would not accept to get married to a white man who would want to take me to his home country because I wouldn’t know what kind of abuse he would subject me to. I wouldn’t want to be taken somewhere far from my family. I want them (family) to know how I am and how I am doing and in case things go sour, I should know where to run to”.
She’s simply insane.
WEAKILEAKS
September 13, 2014 at 9:04 am
SATANYOKO UKUTUMPA UKOPWE KU MUSUNGU UKAMWENAKO AKALAKUTOMBA PAMATOKO NA MUKANWA NGA AUMFWA ATI KANYO KOBE KALANUNKA.MWAICE TAWAENDA I WONDER IF YOU HAVE DSTV FACILITY PA NGANDA.ULEMONA APA FUMA ISHINA MUSUNGU NIPESA .THE WORD ITSELF MUSUNGU MEANS ABUSE UKEPUSHEKO BA SHIPANJI (KK).WRONG THINKIN BONSE MU WORLD BAUME THEY ARE SAME SATANYOKO WAKE UP STIKIN CANT!!!!!!
vuuk master
September 13, 2014 at 9:15 am
Try Oscar pistorious
Mwiza
September 13, 2014 at 10:19 am
Kekekekeke, thats a good one
Chief of Grief
September 13, 2014 at 9:33 am
Atase iwe saataanyoko makaka bwamba bwansoka tomba wiso six box matches double satanyoko ihinyo mukutwi.Aaauti shani??Walimwishiba umusuungu iwe??Bushe niwebo nani iwewine??Uli chibi nokuba makepula iwe,how i wish ukamusange uyowine elo ukasambililepo chimo noko something……….weh nga’nga iwe
Cheng
September 13, 2014 at 9:36 am
on Marrying a Muzungu!
It is not a bad idea to have a desire to marry a Muzungu. But thinking that a Muzungu is better than a black muntu is a gross misunderstanding and misplacement of marriage values. The idea of marriage is to find your loved one with whom you share your life and raise a family. I think Buumba is wrong when she thinks a Muzungu is better in those matters. The fact is, here in the Muzungu land we still are faced with a lot of marital challenges. What I urge Buumba is to be focused and open minded. To be ready to marry anyone capable of loving her not the colour.
comment made, Rome 2014.
Mateyo
September 13, 2014 at 10:16 am
VERY MATURE ADVISE FROM YOUR COMMENTS I LIKE IT.
RSK
September 13, 2014 at 2:40 pm
i tnink it is good advice
pato
September 13, 2014 at 9:40 am
What an insult to her father who did everything for her to be in this world.what a loss i feel sorry to her dad for wasting his ernegy to produce this missed call.tufi ya kwa.umubemba alanda ati wi ponta ukabwela.am a wich doctor i will make sure u get marre
ied to a dog than a white man.u are cursed forever
twice
September 13, 2014 at 9:54 am
i agree with u my lady. try oscar pistorious.
AMENO MAFUPA
September 13, 2014 at 9:59 am
This girl is a Chainama case. She is mad. She doesnt just know that she is a lunatic. Imbeccile.
Ze bigge chichi
September 13, 2014 at 10:00 am
She says, “I would not accept to get married to a white man who would want to take me to his home country because I wouldn’t know what kind of abuse he would subject me to”. Kwena ulikapuba iwe!!Was your father abusive to your mama.
Mwiza
September 13, 2014 at 10:18 am
Ulimwaiche elo ulikapuba, Kula umone!!!
MUJOMBA
September 13, 2014 at 10:44 am
Ule ichindika. ukuisebanya fye
Chief Of Grief
September 13, 2014 at 10:47 am
Nakubwelela nakambi.Am sure wiso aleponona banoko tefyo?Ati intercontinental ponyonyo ponyonyo afyamu musula fye.Firt iwe wine,u think akanyo kobe ka gold nangula daimani aiyi?ala mwandi ulikabi nafuti nafuti,nowanda tabakufwaila ama niggaz!!From my analysis u must be from an impoverished family tefyo?ka social climber iwe!!Nalakubwelela nafuti firsti nkanweko akabwalwa makaka…..
Pa Zed
September 13, 2014 at 11:09 am
Please Chief Of Grief, mubeleleniko Uluse uyu mukashana, takwata mano.
Pa Zed
September 13, 2014 at 11:06 am
And she says there is a white guy from mexico. Mexico has no natives we call Abasungu. Mexicans are not Basungu please!!! She is very dull….
Chief of Grief
September 13, 2014 at 11:31 am
Iwe ka kolokombwa nabwela nakambi nachilashitafye ka take away,lelo ndenwina pa house #.Wachilalanda shani aiyi?First of all ba tumfweko,nikanani akalishilu aka?Mwakatolele kwisa akapuba aka?njebeniko?Elo neyi pi yaka yena bushe kalechensela banani,smile kwati kanunshile pamafii nangula kanye kalya akalitufi akapalasti akakupatikisha.Naisa first nchite mix bwino wisky yandi,wiselapo kembo iwe……
Mabvuto
September 13, 2014 at 12:40 pm
Ka virgin kakwata utwantutu utumabele kwati tuma pawpaw not ayo kopokopo kwati ni tie ya ndoshi.
NS
September 13, 2014 at 12:44 pm
Whatever the case, once you go white you can go black again, but once you go black then that’s the business. Fact is u can’t compare to black. I think the college girl has her facts misplaced and more foolish than wise & i got a feeling she is very cheap plain truth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
B2
September 13, 2014 at 12:47 pm
Yeah right! Marry your single white guy, next thing we will see you in a blue movie produced by your ‘white husband’
Dobo Man
September 13, 2014 at 1:16 pm
the choice is hers. some of u like pointed shoes no one insults u ala
Zick Kolala
September 13, 2014 at 1:19 pm
U are wrong my sister. It is all about human being not the color. I am luck been much exposed to western culture and can tell that most divorce are in the west.
I agree with u they really love, but so sudden they would bring a divorce letter to u, what a a surprise white men. I have connections and can hook u up but u have to change how u think and also lose weight, I want u supper skinny
Hens
September 13, 2014 at 1:54 pm
Oscar Pistorious is a good example the kind of the husband shed is is looking for..
MARRY
September 13, 2014 at 3:02 pm
this girl will be sold by white men if not carefully she will regret.she needs psychological test and she’l b psychiatric when disapointed comes frm the the pipo she thougt a good. one thing i can advice is that am married to the black pipo u are saying they are bad am in a happy marriage and love is the key.warning to u u are not going hv a good marriage coz u will b in a harry look for muzungu today u are talking of William whom u are meeting in hotel and how long hv u been in a relationship such that u can meet at hotel? every thing u are doing is wrong and i dot think u are a virgin.
MARRY
September 13, 2014 at 3:08 pm
if u want yo family to be dis-honed when u differ with yo husband coz it is there culture.am not comfortable with yo meeting with William at a hotel instead of yo parents house. the devil you known is better than the angels u dot know.
Peter
September 13, 2014 at 5:44 pm
ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT THE YOUNG GIRL WATCHES TOO MUCH TV, SHE’S NOT EXPOSED ENOUGH TO COME TO KNOW THAT AFRICANS ARE GOOD LOVERS. CAREFUL YOUNG GIRL- THE KISSING IN PUBLIC AND I LOVE YOU, HUGGING AND CARING YOU WATCH ON TELLY ARE BUT UTOPIA. THE REAL LIFE SITUATION IS QUITE DIFFERENT. MIND YOU AFRICANS MARRY WHITES ARE INTO PARTNERSHIP. YOU NEED TO KNOW ALL THAT BEFORE YOU MAKE YOUR FINAL DECISION. OF COURSE AFRICANS WILL MINIMALLY SAY THEY LOVE YOU- MAYBE NOT EVEN SAY IT. BUT, THEIR ACTIONS WILL TELL YOU EXACTLY THAT THEY LOVE YOU. WHITES MAY SHOW OFF IN PUBLIC BUT WHEN THEY REACH HOME ITS TOTALLY A DIFFERENT STORY. HOWEVER, THERE ARE BAD AND GOOD LOVERS IN BOTH CAMPS.
uwakaele
September 13, 2014 at 8:12 pm
Study political economy, Then you will understand y your family, your country and your continent are poor. By then u will become civilized.
question
September 13, 2014 at 9:12 pm
bloggers,plz clarify, is the person a boy or girl??? coz i cant tel the difference…surely the guys of LUSAKA can propose that boy or girl??? they go for divaz ukamuona things strt happenng even before…gud luck wth search anyway…
ss
September 13, 2014 at 9:49 pm
waba amakufi
Amalumbo
September 13, 2014 at 11:46 pm
Kwena ulichisushi iwe icifuma na pabapongoshi. Wafye kumbwa?
Kwalanga kasawelo
September 14, 2014 at 12:27 am
Chainama case there. Ignorance is the worst that can happen to anyone. Watching and absorbing all the make believe stories on TV – Nigerian films and telemundo. You are yet to learn it the hard way.
popapopa
September 14, 2014 at 12:40 am
Kamushi uyu my friend do not trouble yourself, am currently based in Australia and these whites your are talking about three quarters are not married they just live with they partners ready to leave them. Open your eyes and look beyond your cheap thinking or just tell the world that you are selling your cheap virginity, coz u will never live with your white man for the rest of your life.