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Hubby Accuses New MP Ngimbu Of Ditching HIM
Brian Mukuyu, the husband of newly elected PF member of parliament for Zambezi West Christabel Ngimbu, says she has dumped him after being promised a ministerial job.
But Ngimbu says Mukuyu knows where her village is and should take his grievances there.
Mukuyu, a businessman, said in an interview that he had information that his wife had intentions of ditching him after winning the by-election.
He said he was shocked that his wife of 23 years and mother of his five children dumped him on their way to the official opening of Parliament in Lusaka.
“From reliable sources, I was told that ‘Even if you are working so hard, your wife has mentioned that as soon as she wins, she will have nothing to do with you; she will ditch you because you are not of her calibre or quality’. We have been in marriage for over 23 years. I married her when she was just a girl but to me, I took such information as mere speculation because I have five children with her. I can’t talk about any immoral behaviour,” he said.
Mukuyu said on their way to Lusaka to attend the official opening of Parliament, his wife accused him of having a girlfriend, whose phone number he had saved as ‘Sweetie’.
But Mukuyu said the number was his niece’s.
He said after he had explained to his wife about the number, Ngimbu told him that she would have nothing to do with him because he had become irrelevant.
“She told me, ‘When we reach Kabwe, I will leave your car, you are useless’. On our way to Lusaka, I stopped at a roadblock. She opened the door and jumped out [of the car] and ran into the bush and disappeared around 20:00 hours. We couldn’t find her, so we continued (driving) with my nephew. At home, the children asked me ‘Daddy, where is mummy?’ I was speechless; I couldn’t tell them. What could I tell them? I just told them she’s coming and went into the bedroom. From that day to this moment I am speaking, I have not seen her. All I know is that on Friday, I didn’t want to see her (on TV during the official opening of Parliament) because my heart was broken. I am told from reliable sources that she ditched me because I was irrelevant to her and she was going to be appointed as a minister and she will need high-quality men. She bragged that she would be a minister, so she had nothing to do with me. Now look at the effort, resources involved to help her win the Zambezi West campaign, my time and energy!” he said.
Mukuyu said he had not recovered from the shock and wondered what had gone wrong with a wife he sponsored to the University of Zambia.
“She has ditched me. I am nowhere, I am in despair, I have no access to anything on her. I don’t know how I am going to look after my family. I don’t know what I am going to do. This is the predicament in which I am. I don’t know because all my effort, time, energy and resources were injected to promote her and PF. I have done my best. I have done what I could to bring her to victory. Her phones are off. She’s unreachable… 23 years of marriage.
This is a critical embarrassment on my part. Your friend says ‘I have ditched you, you have no business with me, I am going for other people better than you!’ And the intention to ditch me was previously there, is it wise that I should start going round Lusaka looking for her? This is her home. Parliament is a temporary thing but this is her home,” said Mukuyu.
Asked whether he could consider reconciling with her, Mukuyu said he didn’t know what to do.
“To tell you the truth, I am in shock. I am a sick man the way you see me today. I can’t say anything. It is something I never thought would happen to me and my family. I don’t know what will happen, my brother. My relatives are aware. I don’t know about her relatives,” said Mukuyu.
But Ngimbu advised Mukuyu to take his grievances to her village.
“I have no comment to make for this because it is against marriage ethics to discuss marriages in the media. I am surprised he told you that. I have a village where he married me from and if he has a problem, he can go to my village,” said Ngimbu.
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Fredrick Hanseende
October 3, 2014 at 1:33 pm
Na ba Lubale or Kalweenas please take care of yourselves and look neat like us Tongas. You can’t even afford some perfume. No wonder your wife has ditched you bbecause you are not of her type now. She is now in the company of ba Shamenda and Chishimba Kambwili. Those are her class now.
Fredrick Hanseende
October 3, 2014 at 1:35 pm
Na ba Lubale or Kalweenas please take care of yourselves and look neat like us Tongas. You can’t even afford some perfume. No wonder your wife has ditched you bbecause you are not of her type now. She is now in the company of ba Shamenda and Chishimba Kambwili. Those are her class now. Mulesambako nokusamba, bane. Bakulamutuka kubakashi.
Shibobo
October 3, 2014 at 1:40 pm
This is really sad.women think in a box.They are like that.It has happened to many before.Just be careful next time you marry because that wife of yours has moved on.
The earlier you accept that the faster you will heal.
Kazembe wa Lunda
October 3, 2014 at 1:53 pm
Asanga uwakumutomba ku Lusaka obvious
scott
October 3, 2014 at 2:17 pm
She has found Shamenda in Lusaka that is her type.
tutu
October 3, 2014 at 2:37 pm
obvious alisanga ubukala ubwine bwine mupanga umo abutukile…
Pretty
October 3, 2014 at 3:35 pm
Even you, Mr. Mukuyu! How can you save a nieces name as “Sweetie”? Which culture accepts that? continue licking your wounds… AM sorry.
kim
October 3, 2014 at 4:17 pm
Go and marry your niece, can a niece be a sweetie kwena ulichipuba.
Pretty
October 4, 2014 at 9:07 am
@Kim…are you addressing me or what?
kim
October 4, 2014 at 12:45 pm
No ,not meant to be a reply.
Judge Joe Bidden
October 3, 2014 at 4:09 pm
Tumfweko my humble request is follow up this story tightly. If I was an appointing official I wouldn’t appoint her as minister. If she can’t manage her family can she manage a ministry full of strangers? She’s even corrupt very who promised her the post? Very immoral woman
sad
October 3, 2014 at 7:17 pm
Bibongo mwata continue crying you married her alone so you are on your own.just find one and continue you a man she ran away in the bush at 20 hours then who picked her? Ngimbu means an axe careful
fort jameson nzika
October 3, 2014 at 7:45 pm
I am amazed at the silence of our vocal ngos who support women blah blah blah. I magine if it was a male mp who ditched his spouse of 23 years. chiwamila mbuzi kuluma galu osati galu kuluma mbuzi. to my brother mukuyu I advise you to just seek a divorce from this mp wife, if you force her to renew her love for you she may kill you with the deadily national assembliasis virus. mr mukuyu, when we marry these wives we enter into various types of marriage contracts which can be terminated by either party with or without any reason. mr mukuyu, look at the bigger picture beyond this useless mp wife; mind you a woman’s heart habours a lot of secrets, your mp wife, just like many others, may have lived the 23 years under pretence
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brian
October 4, 2014 at 8:58 am
good advise Fort Jameson. Mukuyu should move on. The wife’s political achievement is temperally and she will regrett. On the other hand we give her a benefit of doubt because we havent head from her. May be Mukuyu was a champion before she became MP….how can he save niece number as sweetie? he is defnatly a character.
club zero
October 3, 2014 at 8:56 pm
Its good good u are free,now u can enjoy life coz yaba MP nipatali.time to go for low class brother
The chosen one
October 3, 2014 at 9:15 pm
Lies! She has always been independent! Mulechefyako ubufi!
Stop addressing that fraudster tb joshua as 'prophet'
October 4, 2014 at 12:06 am
TB Joshua and 98% of pastors and those who call themselves prophets are fraudsters. Some have gangs of thugs,
Armed robbers, kidnappers and 419 working for them. This men of evil should be investigated and banned from civilazed countries of
The World.
christian
October 4, 2014 at 11:05 am
Obviously you have a BIG problem with Prophet tb Joshua.I wonder WHY? Emmanuel!
BRIGHT K
October 4, 2014 at 2:13 pm
let pipo laugh at u today tommorow u will be okey, dat woman is just a disgrace she will comeback 2u askg 4 4givenes,
Sakeni
October 4, 2014 at 2:33 pm
If she fails to run her own home with a mistake calling niece sweetie which I do sometime even my own girls how will she take care of her constituency. This woman is un idiot does not deserve to be in parliament. She is painting P.F party bad. Now let women N.G.Os full themselves now.
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October 4, 2014 at 7:03 pm
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October 4, 2014 at 7:04 pm
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Kasweka
October 4, 2014 at 7:33 pm
it’s unfortunate that this woman can ditch the husband in such a way. She was a nobody but a dirt girl coming from across the zambezi river. People from zambezi can testify this. She is who she’s today because of the same husband she is ditching today. Infact she is the one with promiscuous behaviour and not the husband . Infact she just snatched the same man from another women. It is extremely sad that this woman can do such a bad thing to a man who has helped her from a nobody to somebody in society by sending her to UNZA and changing her life style from a village girl to a town girl. She has no human heart and it is evident enough that she will be a bad MP . If she can’t appreciate a man who has made her a somebody in society , what can make her appreciate the people who voted for her ?? She is a total disgrace to all zambian women, not fit to represent her people in parliament! She’s a dog, a prostitute and good for nothing idiot.
sad
October 4, 2014 at 8:14 pm
Women are happy that is why they are mute plse leave them an MP running into the bush ? From a village to town is the honourable mp in order to behave like an animal I need your serious ruling .
popcorn kk
October 4, 2014 at 10:27 pm
Where are these good for nothing feminists? Iwo imbwa ngamwaume who left it could have been headlines, Grillllo and company come out and condemn this before tabala amba ukulitomba iule lyenu.
tondo
October 5, 2014 at 6:19 am
Ba sata instruct this foolish lady 2put things in oder b she b comes another dola siliya
Jinx chinondo
October 5, 2014 at 8:29 am
Too bad
juliet chinyama
October 5, 2014 at 6:43 pm
Tumfweko you can do a home work by finding out from people of Zambezi especially those who have been there from 80’s to date, they will tell you more about this Christabel. She was just a dirty villager with spotted dry skin before she charmed Brian to divorce his wife and marry her. She one girl who would go unnoticed in public because of being very filth. The husband has seen Christabel from a nothing to something by furthering her education through to UNZA. Infact she is the one with a bad reputation of sleeping around with other men especially politicians from PF to gain favor…. I even wonder what type of an MP she is if she can’t manage her own husband and children , then we wonder how she can manage her constituency and what she expects from her children. She’s supposed to be a role model to her own children of which she has failed…..
For br Mukuyu, just forget about this good for nothing prostitute of a wife by seeking for God’s guidance and strength. I know it’s painful but you can’t cry over spilt milk. God will see you through and heal your wounds.
Christabel’s discussion is based on selfish desires which has no blessings from God. But she should be very ready for the harvest from the seed she has planted.
kakolwe
October 5, 2014 at 7:53 pm
Do you guys train or improve your wives so that you enslave them? “Bana naikalila!” Rubbish!! If things fail to work out, do not be enslaved, move on!! Its the children who are hurt in a divorce. But believe me, the pain of seeing your mother or father looked down upon by the other (abused even) is worse than seeing the seperate & happy elsewhere.
So stop lambasting the woman. We have not heard her side of the story.
syms
October 6, 2014 at 7:48 am
is it English manners 2 keep niece’s cell number as sweetie, 4 what? just apologize 2 yo good wife period.
bro pansaka
October 7, 2014 at 4:08 pm
guys, our brother has invested alot of cash into this “nyimbu project” and i cud fil hw he is feeling, if she left bcoz of “project sweet niece” y would she jump frm the car? y would she nt do like other wives? for 23 years she must know this niece. Mudala kosafye otherwise tu money wafwantamo muli protect twafula mayb u hav even educated yoself and be of her standard. God will judge in his own way.