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My Husband Is Great But He Is Not Good In Bed,Please Help
Dear Readers,
My husband is the best man I could ever think of getting married to. He is very caring and loving. The only problem is that he is not sexually active.
He never initiates any kind of sexual gestures and neither responds to any. I have tried seducing him but he avoids me in a very polite and funny manner so that I don’t feel bad. It’s been months that we have had any intimate moment and I’m getting worried.
What should I do?
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pj
October 3, 2014 at 2:05 pm
Tutu, advise
Chief Of Grief
October 3, 2014 at 2:12 pm
He is GAy MY DEAR!!!finito
Med(e)Enlarge
October 4, 2014 at 7:19 pm
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Trixy
October 3, 2014 at 2:13 pm
Chief of Grief, also advise.
lolex phiri
October 3, 2014 at 2:17 pm
Just come to me. You will have it everyday.
francis
October 3, 2014 at 2:46 pm
Too bad my sister.u haven’t indicated the period u have bn together and if with kids.u must be the best teacher to your husband,try to bring the issue to him when he is in a happy mood ,start by indicating all the good he does for u and finally touch the issue @ hand.may god guide u .
george
October 3, 2014 at 2:47 pm
He may have some disease like diabetes which affects erection. In ur bedroom get into the blankets completely naked and see if he will f..k
chioce
October 3, 2014 at 3:05 pm
His gay
former bemba
October 3, 2014 at 3:07 pm
attach your photo!
Ba game
October 3, 2014 at 3:13 pm
women of nowdays ninshi kanshi mulefwaya tulemitomba shani kanshi? umonkamutombela banyina bakwe bakafilwa nokwenda pakuti mukeshibe ati ntombela ukwipaya malepe yenu.
MWABA M
October 3, 2014 at 3:14 pm
Pls If u’re a child of God there’s nothing imposible 2 God, Just see one of pastors u trust who can’t make u a public example.God bless u.
Judge Joe Bidden
October 3, 2014 at 3:21 pm
You woman sorry but can you contact our chief counselors at these numbers 963445440 for Tutu and 963564789 for Grief of Griefs. These two chaps have gone to increase their manhoods in DRC for 2 weeks. Ine ni ziii tizaona vamene bazachita
monk
October 3, 2014 at 3:40 pm
uletana umunobe umuzompiki, too bad. wat some of us ar yearning to have.
Truth be told
October 3, 2014 at 3:44 pm
Can only be one of three things dear
1. He got an STD banging some chick and is considerate enough to wait till it completely heals before he starts banging you again.
2. He is impotent – has problems getting it up and is to shy to share with you
3. He is gay – he treid the traight thing with you and now realises it just doesnt work for him.
kakolwe
October 3, 2014 at 5:25 pm
Terrible! But too scanty info given. How was it kuma first? How long have you been together? What is your age range?
With these facts known,it may be possible to advise with reason. I hope you’ve not strayed & are comparing him to that man who made you feel like fainting.
Cholwe
October 3, 2014 at 5:30 pm
We could also want to know something about you two people. If you are too rich, then pray too much mamy.
REMIE
October 3, 2014 at 7:08 pm
TOO BAD MY SIS.PRAY HARD.
krem-j
October 3, 2014 at 7:36 pm
Too bad my sis.Go to the Hospital together & find out what is the problem….
The3ye
October 3, 2014 at 7:48 pm
From a male perspective, I must take it that you’re probably repulsive to look at. And if he does have s.e.x with you it’s probably out of obligation, and as he does it he’s probably imagining someone else. I know this may sound cruel on my part but if if you really have to know if what I’m saying is true or not ask yourself this question, do other men approach you, do other men show an interest to sleep with you? If not then I’m right, if I’m not then he’s the one that has a problem. Thanks.
The3ye
October 3, 2014 at 7:50 pm
From a male perspective, I must take it that you’re probably repulsive to look at. And if he does have s.e.x with you it’s probably out of obligation, and as he does it he’s probably imagining someone else. I know this may sound cruel on my part but if if you really have to know if what I’m saying is true or not ask yourself this question, do other men approach you, do other men show an interest to sleep with you? If not then I’m right, if yes then he’s the one that has a problem. Thanks.
changwe
October 3, 2014 at 8:36 pm
Sorry my sister,it could be that your husband is infectet with an STD infection,and he’s waiting for the diseases to get away
dizzy
October 3, 2014 at 9:29 pm
you are not alone limbi alakolwa… ubwalwa ama Zambians bwalichilamo..
luvted
October 4, 2014 at 12:05 am
phone me on 0968426630
Hichamwipeye Hichilema
October 4, 2014 at 7:18 am
Wrong place to seek advice from!
See banachimbusa and Bashibukombe and they will guide wisely!
You children of nowadays …
Tony Luo
October 4, 2014 at 9:06 am
Get to Maranatha on Mondays for Counselling and prayers, 17:30hrs, Kitwe
gass
October 4, 2014 at 9:28 am
how old are you guys
edward siendi
October 4, 2014 at 10:17 am
Sex is in the mind,talk to him and bring back the early days u met
G.KATONGO
October 4, 2014 at 2:29 pm
See some advanced counsellors as soon as possible & allow God to take full control
MUSADABWE
October 4, 2014 at 2:43 pm
Mwaice Ndatomba Ine. Try Me. My Number Is 0978028708
MNC
October 4, 2014 at 6:17 pm
Discuss. You are not his sister.
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October 4, 2014 at 7:08 pm
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Visionary Leader
October 5, 2014 at 6:40 am
This issue can only be judged if he brought up his point as well