Dear Readers,
I am a 37-year-old woman from Kabwe and I have two children aged ten and five years respectively. I have been working for nearly ten years now. About a year ago, I met a man of 40 and we became very friendly with each other. He too is married. We have gradually come closer, even though there has been no physical intimacy. I am so preoccupied by him that I am unable to concentrate on my job or family. I know that society will not accept us.
Should I sacrifice my love because of this aspect. Please advise.
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If you are looking to destroy and curse yourself, as well as destroy an innocent family and be known as a marriage breaker- and men will just appreciate u as just a hole to put their dik in and nothing else…pls go ahead and fk the married man…expect nothing else.
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Please seek ways to stop that relationship. You have a husband and that man has a wife. If you start committing adultery you’re sowing seed of hate and unhappiness in both couples. It will not be easy to break that relationship but you have to find the best ways to end it. You have a bright future with the devil you know than the devil out there.
U ar just a HOLE at yo age dats da question u can pulse IDIOT •U hv got even two Children•Wabe ICHINYO
Find ways & means to stop that relationship,you will be not happy in that relationship,cause you will be called marriage breaker…
The man will never leave his wife for you, that I can guarantee you! Stick with your husband and kids!
Kulafulafulafye mayo waluse mpelako number yobe kubala naine natongamapo nishinga ucita? Ine nangu ni K100 kuti nafunya per round pantu obviously ulicisuma cimayo iwe. Endesha ntumina am nearby at Nkrhuma kuti naisa leloline pantu baume ufwaya. Twalakutengamina lelo pakuti icilaka cabaume cipwe icitefye concentrate on your Husband.
Selfish hole, these cases are now common in Zambia. Ask yourself at the end of this adultery what do u achieve? Remarry hell no! Long term relationship nope! Spread HIV yep! Damage 2 families Yep! Free vagina to the cheating man. .. priceless!
what kind of woman are u?u even call yoself a mother. yu are a an insult to motherhood and womanhood. i pity husband.
Ati we haven’t been intimate ponyo nyo ponyo nyo…Sou’re just waitin 4 thatka moment tefyo?Justice ninga kupela ine is that walitemwa sana ubwamba ubwa lekanalekana teh?Eah mafi wingaleta pamulabasa aya aini?Mwakwatako nensoni mayo,tushileniko ukushumfwa fwe ba shaupa chilishani kanshi!!!!
So ulefwaya ukonaula icupo camunobe.If u do it ,know that all u wil b doing with that man is adulterous(ubuchende).Stop it Lesa alikanya,one man=one woman, look 4 yo own husband but deep down yo heart u know its wrong.U cant chalenge GOD.
u are a bad exampie to young women nd th comunity
so u want to follow a man whoz already cheating on his wife? what guarantee do u hav that the same wil not happen to u? i asure u that this man wil leave his faithful wife fo rug like u. its strange that a woman at yo age cant see that u ar being used
As a Board Chairman we have finalise to say ua a PIECE OF SHIT
why cant you find a singal guy lyk me you idiot, there’r so many nkungulume right here pa zed nishikanshi mwatemenwa bamukabene finyo fwenu? naifwe twalikwata amatole kukupela bampundu panshita inono.
U ar a disgrace to de society mwandi.I pity ur family
Fokofu!!!
Waba ubucende kwati wambwa we cipuba
Waba akapunda kabusali ci mayo iwe ulekwatako amano
Are you married as well? If yes please you are just wasting your precious time just look after your family. If you are not married put yourself in the man’s wife shoes and ask yourself if it were you, moreover he just using you he will never leave his wife and children for you. Think twice my sister.
Go to da idiot called chief of grief and get insulting advice, I think he is yo relative, may b yo blood brother.
Be strong and stop that nonsense, immediately. Or your life will be ever so miserable.
Honestly, why not develomental issues than this well known fact that SEX outside marriage is adultery. woman, do not be shallow minded
Get permission from your husband and from his wife. Then proceed with the relationship when both agree.
Stop that relationship, His a married man! That is adultery/ Sin. Seek Church Counsel at Kabwe Chapel. Regards from Kitwe.
you gave each other too much attention eroding the little d@ u had for your hubby. I believe love is a feeling of which ts born, then grows & eventually die but ts a willful & deliberate decision you take to remain in love. give your marriage attention, you’re not a teenager on love auto-search.
seek the lord and he will help you my sister
My sister you should think wisely in each and every step that you make in life before you proceed.
It is not a good idea,stick to your husband.
Stop that nonsense u r married rememba….
U ar not evn ashamed of yoself by bringing out such nonsense to de public. Infact i knw u chi idiot iwe. But befor i tel yo husband, first nikakunyenge makaka iwe. Insted of paying for a one nite stand kuli ma hule, atlist u ar a free f*kn agent wembwa iwe. Nalikwata umutototo ne mbalala, idiot
What do mean when you say sacrificing your love? You and the man should just come to terms that it can’t work out. The manis married and you should not fooled that yu wil have a perfect mariage with him. What happenes when he or u meet another person like u have met? This is very posible and likely to happen. Stop fooling yourselve and move on with life.
No it is wrong stop it before it is too late you will mess up your family and careful married men do not easily leave their families, ask yourself why you would want to break up some one else’s marriage? You are living a lie stop it before he sleeps with you and dump you.
no woman no cry.am sure even zoz kids ar not de kids of yo huband,hes jst a careteka, wemen ar jst like that chimo na public toilet n1 can go & urinate in it.am sure u sow it 4rm yo mother that s y u ar doin it shem…
ewee chinyo, tawaufwa PK CHISHALA(NA MUSONDA)U ll jst kill yo husband &that guy ll run away,he ll even say ulya maume naine ndimwaume even me thats what u ll do 2 me.
You need Gog my sister,
The woman is very right to wear what she likes since inside her heart its the spirit of that kind so whether you condemn her or not the devil inside her is ruling to her all the time,since we are two in this world devils and GOD loving pipo so lets keep up with our life and caesar things for him JESUS matter to Jesus.
Teko mutima, Ubucende bubi sana. Bushe walyupwa? You are being unfair to yourself, your family especially your hubby. Cibi kwenda nabamukabene. Imgaine nagacakuti iwe umulume obe afwaya umbi… uleposa fye inshita. Uyo alekucita fye…
Those insulting a woman are idiots. The woman has brought this to your attention so that you advise her in a wise manner, Give her the advise which will bear fruit. The woman has brought it to you because her heart inside is fighting with the spirit
(1) The man is married which does not guarantee that he can stick to this woman if she snatches her from the current wife.
(2) The woman is married which does not guarantee that she can stick to the Man if they gets married
(3) It will be very unfair to there families, her hubby and children as well as the man’s wife and children
(4) The Bible has stated it so cleary that adulterers and fornicators will not enter the Kingdom of God
(5) The rate of increase in the spread of HIV, has almost doubled almost doubled
What have you seen in that man which your husband doesn’t have? secondly what makes you think you are more special than the wife? Ask God for wisdom and take care of your hubby and children.
You are embarasiment to people who brought yuo up,to people of kabwe,to zambian society hence you desave to die .God will take care of your orphans and your hushand will find the better wife.what love is that?
if only u knew adultery is a sin you wudnt want to take such a move my sister,stick with your husband & family dnt be cheated by infatuation that will only destroy. & tear up yo family dnt brhave as if tamuletontonkanya.