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My Wife Wants SEX All The TIME,Please Help?
Dear Readers,
I am a 42-year-old man, well educated and city bred. I have been married for two years. My wife is 21-years-old from Mansa and not well educated.
As this was an arranged marriage between old family friends, I didn’t mind. My wife wants sex all the time, and at least 3-4 times daily, apart from the night. At times I have woken up from sleep to find her on top of me.
She is not interested in working, either outside or inside the house. I have been managing the servants too. All day she is busy chatting with the neighbours and once when I overheard her, it was again all about sex.
Is this normal behaviour? It is definitely not what I had expected. So much of over-indulgence only in sex may be okay now, but what will happen 5-10 years down the line if she has no other interests?
Please, I need advice..
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Yongwe
October 18, 2014 at 5:04 am
Give it to her please…next time she will find fulfillment somewhere else….village girls..bwafya!!!!I will not say much
Zambian Nympho
October 18, 2014 at 9:00 am
town girls and church girls are worse……….
moniqua
October 18, 2014 at 6:29 am
Where’s is chief of Grief and Tutu? We need your comments pliz, kikikikiki
Chief of Grief
October 18, 2014 at 12:18 pm
Kikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikiki Iwe chi mudala bushe uli mutuntulu aiyi?kikikikikikikikikikikiki fwebanobe we’re scavenging 4 pusssy iwe ati waalaah!!U ‘re one lucky basterd,do u know how many men folks would trade for yo possition aini?Plizzzz give me yo details & yo wife wil quit blowing smoke up yo assss in terms of sex,she needs sex meniaxs like me pantu nku nde mu tomba senseless that she wouldn’t have the time to chat with her neighbour due to fatigueness yakutomba.In short walipena chikala chobe,wangimyafye ubukala stanyoko……
Zed
October 18, 2014 at 6:48 am
Diforce her before its too late because the day when you wont be there she’l need some1 to service her or the time when you wont be able to do it all the time then infedility
Married Monk
October 18, 2014 at 6:57 am
Chess that sex adict otherwise the moment u ll be away from home for some days somebody else ll be on top of her she’s not a normal lady that one is a demon
for real
October 18, 2014 at 9:04 am
Every Zambian woman uwakuna imishino needs more than one or two lousy rounds a day.. if you can’t give her that someone else will help you!!
Abakukwafwa bengi sana!!
mwech
October 18, 2014 at 7:05 am
The difference in yrs (21) shows that you deserve what you are going through. I think it’s you wealth which attracted her to you. Educated people think twice but with you it is different. The Bible say ” who eve find a good wife ” so it’s you to find someone pleased your heart and not your friends or family members. She is from the village and illiterate you mean there was no one where you are living who is of you age and educated. This is not marriage but marry-under because she is under your age. You can not expect more than this from her so just give her according to her wish for piece and harmony at home.
Mj
October 18, 2014 at 7:33 am
Age difference is the issue here. At 42 your libido is going down and for her at 21 it is going to a peak. I remember, before I was 30, my minimum was 3 rounds in 2 hours.
Am now close to 40 and I can only manage a round in 2 days.
Man, at your age you should have someone around 30s.
Din freeze
October 18, 2014 at 11:48 am
You are very right mambala
Zambian Nympho
October 18, 2014 at 8:58 am
Naturally most Zambian women are “Nymphomainacs” beause of AMALEPE they make us women horny 24/7.
I need a fit D I C K to make me happy. 10 times a day is what my young Muzungu can manage, now i need one more young bloke to help me out.
African Man
October 18, 2014 at 9:33 am
Am 33 and am still going strong
Ba buza
October 18, 2014 at 9:03 am
With due to respect to your wife,its not her fault she could be a sex maniac. There are so many options to try to resolve your problem.First talk to her,involve those elders who gave her marriage lessons through your bashibukombe if it doesn’t help seek medical help particularly a psychatric doctor.Goodluck
Emelia mwale
October 18, 2014 at 9:52 am
Ndeloleshafye
tutu
October 18, 2014 at 10:46 am
ngatalekupela ichinyo ati iyo balenchinga insambu shandi,akupele ichinyo ati iyo alitemwisha ukutombwa…chikala iwe tupele data tukese mukukulila kachilemba,akumonabwino tu neighbor pachipanda m sure tulatombapo pehule lyobe
Mj
October 18, 2014 at 11:34 am
@ Tutu, mwalipena imwe zoona.
petersen
October 18, 2014 at 11:41 am
But kwena ulicipuba….umwanakashi alefaya ukumutomba ati its bad! Hand her over nkamutombe ukulepaula ndofu! This is a blessing fo u we cipuba…..
Green
October 18, 2014 at 11:52 am
That’s a Damn shame
r
October 18, 2014 at 12:15 pm
We have not heard the side of your story. At 42 you have been strong enough. Do you go to the gym? What is your weight like? Hahaha….
kambani ndhlovu
October 18, 2014 at 12:17 pm
ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE WITH GOD.SEEK HIM FIRST ALL THE SOLUTION WILL COME THROUGHT
Omunene Lsk
October 18, 2014 at 2:08 pm
My Friend yo woman has sexually bin demonised. Seek spiritual intervention 2 cast out the demon raising abnormal appetites in yo wife. Truthf spking that insatiable appetite is alarmng & may attract extra marital businesses. The earlier u seek the clergy, the better it ll be 4 u.
Humble Landlord
October 18, 2014 at 3:55 pm
Tapali na demon apa, th young lady is okey. she has high libido levels @ 21. nd let her do somthin that wil b keepin her busy not always thinkin about sex.
Humble Landlord
October 18, 2014 at 4:13 pm
Tapali na demon apa, th young lady is okey. she has high libido levels @ 21. nd let her do somthin that wil b keepin her busy not always thinkin about sex. mufyalishe nd u wil see her evn denyin u sex coz wil tired from caring for th baby
Nalikosa
October 18, 2014 at 6:58 pm
There is no any problem wth that lady,she’s just doing her level best 2 sated the husband,now the gap btn this pipo is too big,mudala walinakakale let the young ones do the job actualy am looking 4 such kind of a lady.
kaptain
October 18, 2014 at 10:57 pm
take her back to school
illogical logic
October 19, 2014 at 11:18 pm
pipo pipo it is not about sex. The young lady wants a child. once she is pregnant she will stop.The gentleman didn’t mention that he has children with the Lady. she wants children what do you expect…. village chicken eshi!!