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My Wife Found Out I Was Cheating & Said Nothing,Should I Be Worried?
Dear Readers,
My wife found out about two weeks ago that I’m having an affair but has not said a word about it to me. She knows I know that she knows that I have a girlfriend but she’s refused to confront me about it. Should I be scared or its nothing to worry about? What worries me about this is that she’s a very confrontational person, I wonder why she decided not to address this.
Please What should I Do?
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Malukula
October 28, 2014 at 6:55 pm
Good for you. I hope you’ll do the same for her one day!
soft bee
October 28, 2014 at 7:02 pm
be care that keeping quiet is a timely bomb
pets
October 28, 2014 at 7:16 pm
you must just repent for your evil doers ma friend
the3y3
October 28, 2014 at 7:26 pm
Be worried, be very worried. Two things are likely to happen here : 1. She’ll cheat on you big time with your friend, cousin or brother. And she’ll make sure you know about it, and,
2. She’ll pour acid or hit cooking oil on you while you sleep
Mutonkofyo
October 28, 2014 at 7:30 pm
Ekupesha! Jst tel her yoself that she raped you nd wait fo an advise she wil give.ukatasha
Regrete man
October 28, 2014 at 8:37 pm
My beautiful wife started cheating when she found out about my cheating ways
kapwapwazhi
October 28, 2014 at 8:44 pm
you are useless coz whn u went ahead en proposed another girl u knew that at 1time yo wife wll know.So dear jxt apologize en cut the relationship en yo wife she iz m
artured enough.
Sunzu the tool
October 28, 2014 at 8:50 pm
The calm before the storm, be very worried, sleep with one eye open….good luck
Judge Joe Bidden
October 28, 2014 at 8:54 pm
Honest answer: she’s either thinking of cheating or she’s already started. Last reason she’s trying to gather more evidence for a divorce court case
Trixy
October 29, 2014 at 11:46 am
You are right Judge Joe Bidden. I also think she is working on background in order to come up with concrete evidence so that she can sue you for divorce or something….This is one hell of a well taught and mature woman.
Humble Landlord
October 28, 2014 at 8:54 pm
Yo wife is happy to know that she is not th only one cheating.
Apologize to her nd she wil also confess, 4give each other.
visitor njala
October 28, 2014 at 9:20 pm
She’s gathering more info. Be ready for the confrontation!
ONETIME RELOADED
October 28, 2014 at 9:28 pm
yes be worried,she’ll fry your face punk ass
mumbwaman
October 28, 2014 at 9:46 pm
U are a stupid fool ok,galu ya muchila
mumbwaman
October 28, 2014 at 9:49 pm
U are a stupid fool ok,galu ya muchila webwa we
amashinsha
October 28, 2014 at 11:47 pm
She will cut off your genitals nokukubeya amaso kwibotolo pa last chikala.
ZambianToTheBone
October 29, 2014 at 12:11 am
May be she began cheating WAY LONG b4 u!!!!!
Tina Doyo
October 29, 2014 at 4:41 am
She’s no fool. Confirm to her what she already knows and make sure your balls are nicely tucked away. Good luck.
investigator
October 29, 2014 at 6:22 am
mwana uli mu chibe. Namayo alikaba pafyakwe. Sleep with one eye open dear. ukasanga itole limo naliya. Good luck
SEKOPONOKE
October 29, 2014 at 8:16 am
There’s evil heating up behind that silence. She is also cheating on you wecipumbu we!!
LM
October 29, 2014 at 8:32 am
I like the way your wife is taking things she is toturing you mentally just repent and come back to your senses and stop cheating on your wife.
lukundo
October 29, 2014 at 8:52 am
OK my dear have already started reaping on earth repent you wil die. Bible does not allow fornication. Sit down with yo wife ad confess
Tramp
October 29, 2014 at 9:16 am
Your wife has been cheating on you all along. You did not catch her but she caught you. She is too clever for you. She is simply punishing you phsycologically.
xyz
October 29, 2014 at 9:21 am
you are both cheating on each other, and there is no love so divorce
herve starlin
October 29, 2014 at 9:40 am
have you tried to reach out?
Ulubunda
October 29, 2014 at 10:15 am
You are a fool. Efyakuleta napabwelu ifyo. I have been sleeping with your wife. What are you going to do about it?
Maiko
October 29, 2014 at 10:24 am
Run my friend, she will kill you while you sleep!
Tex2014
October 29, 2014 at 10:28 am
Silent treatment. Its a punishment on its own. Just apologise and things will be back to normal. Otherwise you are not safe
Emelia mwale
October 29, 2014 at 11:18 am
what a treatment?mmmmmm i lik it
Chief Of Grief
October 29, 2014 at 11:33 am
Coments reserved,i’ll bite my tongue on this one,i’ll give u justice later pantu ndelosha mudala wandi.!
Kitwe Kitwe
October 29, 2014 at 12:13 pm
imagine you sleeping…suddenly u wake up only to find yo neighbor in bed looking at you…and this goes on for a few days.
BE AFRAAAIIIIID MY FRIEND!! BE AFRAAIIIID!!!!
LMAO!!
kasantana
October 29, 2014 at 12:25 pm
Kwena mune uli mu bwafya,she is annoyed.Ukasanga amatole nabaputula,talasanga the right type of knife.Why did you do that?bushe talowa umukashi obe iyo?
Jumbo
October 29, 2014 at 12:34 pm
If you are the only bread winner or making a ton of money she won’t let you go, or scared confronting you will push you away. Or she is probably also having an affair and doesn’t want to be seen as a hypocrite. and she probably does not love you. But then again it’s normal for a Zambian man to cheat on his wife eventually.
KALIKEKA
October 29, 2014 at 1:31 pm
Speak for yourself !!!
Is it normal for a Zambian man to cheat on his wife?? No wonder the incidence rates of Sexually-transmitted diseases are so high in the country!! Disgusting!!
Jumbo
October 29, 2014 at 5:52 pm
EVENTUALLY you will.
chile1
October 29, 2014 at 12:36 pm
Shibutukaye weshilu we
Jumbo
October 29, 2014 at 12:43 pm
Does anyone remember John and Lauren Bobbit? Google it my man. Be afraid, be very afraid.
stella
October 29, 2014 at 1:30 pm
Just be man enough and ask for forgiveness from God and from your wife before something happens. Some things you can not hid them forever. Am sure her silence is really killing you and you wish you knew her next step.
All the best man, before you open your mouth to her, talk to God first.
Man
October 29, 2014 at 3:09 pm
ask her what’s on her mind…..
sassy
October 29, 2014 at 4:08 pm
She a very good woman,who knows dat confronting a fool makes 1 a fool…..wise woman….Man xpect yo own pot of soup….
IF NOT
October 29, 2014 at 4:13 pm
You better watch out her silence speaks volumes. sooner or later she gonna explode.
IF NOT
October 29, 2014 at 4:16 pm
Ladies, pick something from this, instead of confronting your partner just remain mute he will be tortured terribly until he resorts to tumfweko for advice.
State house
October 29, 2014 at 4:55 pm
she also has an affair
catherine
October 30, 2014 at 9:13 am
u r such FOOL n u deserve the silent treatment. hope she is planning something BIG
ounce
October 31, 2014 at 2:43 pm
What normaly determines how one reacts is how the information is passed and from what source. Havin said that, how did she find out ?Did someone tell her? if so,how does she relate with the source.Maybe she took it as a joke.So be very carefull,you might end up reporting yourself.However,if she caught you red handed she would have reacted there and then.Do you feel me?