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Dear Readers; I Cheated On My Husband And I Feel Great About It
This past weekend, I did something I thought I was never capable of doing. I had sex with another man who wasn’t my husband. Yes, you read right. The best part about it is that I feel great *dancing*. I thought I’d hate myself for doing it. But I don’t. I thought I’d regret it. But I don’t. I thought I’d feel some guilt. But I don’t. In fact I can’t wait to meet my lover again. Once again – *dancing*.
I love my husband, don’t get it twisted. He’s the father of my four children. We have been together for 23 years. But you see, he was never a faithful man. Not from the first day. He cheated when we dated. He cheated when we got married. In fact, he has another baby by another woman. A love child he had while we were married. I stayed. I never cheated. He slept with a friend. I stayed, I never cheated. He slept with 6 of his female staff, I stayed I never cheated. He slept with so many random women, I stayed, I never cheated. He even slept with our neighbour, I stayed, I never cheated. Then he said something
You see, I saw a text on his phone which he sent to one of his lovers. The lady had apparently had an abortion for him and she was threatening to contact me to tell me about their affair and guess what my husband told her?
‘even if my wife catches me on top of you on our marital bed, she will ask us to continue, go into the kitchen make my dinner and still make love to me that same night on that same bed so please feel free to contact her. She’s not going anywhere”
You see, he’s wrong! His cheating affects me. For 23 years I have had to endure his constant philandering. My husband is rich so the women are plenty. I have cried, I have pleaded, I have threatened but it never stopped. And he thinks I’m okay with it. He thinks I am not going anywhere. Oh but he’s wrong. I am going somewhere alright. To another man’s bed.
I’m stuck with this man, 23 years and four children. And I love him with my life. But I’m done being the wife he thinks will catch him on our marital bed and give him a standing ovation. He wants to cheat? Well, two can play that game. After 23 years, I try now? I feel so liberated. I can’t wait to meet my lover this weekend again. The last time was amazing. He’s a great lover. *dancing*
From a female reader.
Posted by
chileshe
November 18, 2014 at 4:27 pm
Enjoy my dear.. Your husband doesn’t deserve you.
You’ve been through so much, hope you will one day find the strength to leave this abusive man.
Sharon
November 18, 2014 at 4:28 pm
so whats your point exactly?
Zick
November 18, 2014 at 4:29 pm
Yesu iseni pls
Jay
November 18, 2014 at 4:33 pm
Eh!
Judge Joe Bidden
November 18, 2014 at 4:37 pm
Panyopako! Whats your point then? What do you want us do, dance also? Pamatako! Thats your life thats not a crisis asking Tumfweko to post your stupid text. Besides, thats your story whats is his story, you are even lying the number of his women to justify and get sympathy like @Chileshe above did but how did you count all those women, he took you with him? Thats borebom just masturbate and stop fantasies.
SHIBUKOMBE
November 18, 2014 at 4:45 pm
Waiting to get infected or already infected? Finally cheating as well because you are sick and have nothing to lose? Seek GOD’s intervention in your marriage and stop the bullshit.
Umwina Nkana
November 18, 2014 at 4:49 pm
Here are three equations:
(1) foolish hubby + virteous wife = respected home;
(2) virteous hubby + a foolish wife = disrepected home;
(3) foolish hubby + foolish wife = shameful home
You just announced to the whole wide world that you’re comig from a shameful your home! Though it’s not beyond redemption.
mutale Yumba
November 18, 2014 at 5:06 pm
Is this the best solution madam? Do two wrongs make a right? Do your children deserve these lessons? Great respect for any who would rather die than cheat. God have mercy upon you mummy!!
Kennedy
November 18, 2014 at 5:14 pm
Someone gone nuts because of ubushimbe! This woman is not married and wants to mislead our women. Wanyaaaaa!
Judge Joe Bidden
November 18, 2014 at 6:26 pm
Thats why i said shes just fantasizing, just bored. She even over-did the bad painting of her imaginary husband, how can she know all those details of who the husband slept with even the number at the office, if she knew all that then he wasnt cheating, they moved together.
Laso
November 18, 2014 at 5:25 pm
Ubuwelewele mu chalo
Barotse Buffalo
November 18, 2014 at 5:31 pm
That’s not something to boast about madam. God is watching you. You can’t quench fire with fire, NO !!!
If you can’t feel the emotions you have counted above then there is no virtue in you. However, all is not lost, seek God’s guidance. God loves you. Why should you abuse your body and soul like that?
kenny
November 18, 2014 at 5:36 pm
rubbish .stupid women
Sikiza
November 18, 2014 at 5:48 pm
Respect yo body are you not shameful with all this nast comments uli mfwa yenda .you are a moving dead stop it you wil not go any where!
Tina
November 18, 2014 at 6:06 pm
My God wonders shall never endo!!! This man will settle down when time catches up with him, AIDS WILL SETTLE HIM such that ARV’s will not work even. They say the devil makes things like sweet once sick finished that Spirit of Lust will surely leave. Let’s pray for his deliverance. Lord have Mercy on this lost soul. Amen.
why
November 18, 2014 at 7:10 pm
Iwe mayo wilaleta ama Nigerian Movie pano waumfwa, rubbish. Go and sleep?????!!!!!
jack chongo
November 18, 2014 at 7:27 pm
My question to her is; what are you still doing in that marriage?There is life outside that miserable home of yours in case you didn’t know….and please do not use your 4 kids as an excuse to stay…sleeping with other men while you are still stuck to that philanderer will not bring you happiness.Kabiyeni mayo!
eddy
November 18, 2014 at 7:41 pm
You will be caught and he will kill you. It will be shameful and your family will not bear the burden of losing you. Stop or you die!
The Professor
November 18, 2014 at 8:36 pm
Sickening. I want to vomit.
teddy
November 18, 2014 at 8:38 pm
Ya mayo! Naimwe you sound like a nine year old , what do you want to pRoOve ! To. Say the truth I think your husband new that. You a gold digger that’s the. Reason why he cheated on you. Mayo has. We are tolking you’re even hamping this man. ! Get A life foolish woman!
muloongo costern
November 18, 2014 at 8:44 pm
sorry madam,thats not the best solution.its not doing what he is doing that will solve yo problems but pray without ceasing.in that way god will hear you
chanzigwa
November 18, 2014 at 10:08 pm
you did well my dear only those who hasn’t been disappointed with the so called husbands can condemn you. i support you 100%. let those who have been hurt hang.men will support their fellow men for their unfaithfulness foolish
nkonkonkooo! Ntindii
November 18, 2014 at 10:26 pm
uli cipuba ai cimayo iwe
Eddy
November 19, 2014 at 12:37 am
Two wrongs do not make right, are you heaven bound or hell bound with your action?
Cool temple
November 19, 2014 at 1:05 am
Bushe what do you look for in your husbands’ phones ai? Nibu Chipelelo, bu Chitongo mee use we Mayo .
Nigga Nature
November 19, 2014 at 6:58 am
Two Wrongs…
Amake Mwana
November 19, 2014 at 8:43 am
When a woman has had enough, watch out because she will play twice as hard as you have played… My sister, enjoy yourself. I would do the same if I was you.
mary mwale
November 19, 2014 at 9:33 am
Show them dear! I’m doing the same to my unfaithful hubby. I’m 44 and going out with an energetic 32 year old boy! I enjoy as well an am not stoping.
gaga
November 20, 2014 at 6:26 pm
way to go girl…….wat men can do, a woman can do even better!