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‘I Slept With A Married Woman’
Dear Readers
About a year and half ago, I gave a lift to a woman and it happened that she stayed two streets before mine. After a chat in the car I discovered she was married and has 3 kids. I also told her I was married with a child. We got friendly and exchanged numbers.
One day my wife traveled and she asked to visit me. Another thing led to another and we had sex unprotected. We had Sex 3 more times on different days. Twice in my car, and twice in my house.
Now, one day I asked her why she was doing this… she said she doesn’t sleep with her husband anymore and he had reported her to their priest but she doesn’t care. That the husband doesn’t satisfy her and she hardly looks forward to having sex with him. I felt bad and guilty and advised that we should stop seeing each other.
She agreed and said we should remain friends.
Three weeks ago, she called to say she missed her period and that I was responsible. I advised her that this would be disastrous to both our marriages and that she would have to terminate the pregnancy. Now she’s refusing to do so even after I gave her K5, 000 to take care of it. She is promising to make my life a living hell and that she doesn’t care what the world thinks.
Claiming that she loves me and that if I loved my wife I wouldn’t have slept with her. However true this is… I love my wife and I’m not ready to crash my marriage.
I seriously have no idea of what to do. I practically live in fear cos she calls me every other day and my wife is getting suspicious.
Mail from reader
Posted by
BOSCO
November 28, 2014 at 7:07 pm
man she could be lying and she knows that you will be giving her money always,you both fumbled why did she acept your request? just find a way of informing your wife through friends or relatives before the disaster, if she loves you she will forgive and be by your side like mrs clinton of usa.
Kosovo, Bosnia & Hercegovina
November 28, 2014 at 9:09 pm
You are a bad person, how could you sleep with her if you love your wife? Then you went ahead to giver Kr 5,000 to abort man you deserve to die unless you repent. By the way all that happens on earth is vanity all vanity and its the vexation of the spirit. Bosco advised you to inform your wife that is a good idea. If you read the bible David slept with Uriah´s wife and had a child who later died. Many problems followed David until he repented and said “create in me oh Lord a clean heart and right spirit so […]
bmc
November 28, 2014 at 9:17 pm
Spade for spade.his wife and the womans husband wakatombane with the other two fully aware chikapwilemo.bakanyengane 4 times nabena.
THATS KING SOLOMONS JUDGMENT.
NSONGA MAURICE
November 28, 2014 at 10:01 pm
BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR WIFE, MAKE SURE GO FOR VCT BEFORE YOU HAMMER YOUR WIFE
theorist
November 28, 2014 at 10:34 pm
I have been unfaithful to my wife before, though my situation happened away from home. I decided to tell her everything and to my surprise she listened and forgave me. Now our marriage is far better than ever before. So man, talk to her, you will be amazed how big her heart is and how willing she is to forgive. But you need to assure her that you will be faithful. If the child with the other woman is really yours, take responsibility and if you are not sure, do a DNA test.
Thicket
November 29, 2014 at 7:09 am
You Kunda bad boy you! Say it wasn’t you!
Three rules of philanderers:
1.Deny
2.Deny and
3.Deny
Sid
November 29, 2014 at 11:31 am
One way of solving your problem is to meet the lady’s husband and discuss everything that transpired between you and his wife. Make sure both your wife and his wife are present during the discussion.
kachiwanda
November 29, 2014 at 11:39 am
ONE LOVE KWASILA. GO FOR HIV TEST.
Crasher
November 29, 2014 at 12:00 pm
I was in your shoes once and the only way I found to sort out the problem was to be honest. These are the consciences of sin, especially one of the sins God hates the most.
The only way to come out of this is if she is keeping the child then tell your wife in advance coz it will be worse if you keep it a secret for a while.
Change your lifestyle coz if you think you can sort it out or hide from it you are lying to yourself. the truth shall set you free.
PS get tested.
munda inmuchabu
November 29, 2014 at 11:17 pm
am also going fru that, can u advise?
Real Man
December 1, 2014 at 8:16 pm
Thankyou guys for the honest opinions rendered to our brother facing a huge challenge. I’m honestly never impressed by the rubbish and uncalled insults that are hailed at victims in situations. Please keep it up and let’s help one another grow. No one is perfect. Let’s give “christian” opinions.