My girlfriend and I have dated for two years now and for the period we have been together, she has NEVER said no to my sexual advances, as in never. She gives me her body at will and never hesitates. Last Sunday in Church my Pastor while preaching said that a woman who really loves you and would be faithful in marriage would not give you her body at all while you are dating and if at all she gives it to you, it would be after a “battle”. Now am having a rethink because even me sef am wondering “why would she not ever say no to giving me her body? Does she respect her body at all or is it blind love? Would she be ever faithful? Is my Pastor right?
From a male reader
Dude
December 1, 2014 at 10:19 am
Rubbish, even men who ask for sex immediately are not husband material.
Tiyende Pamodzi Ndimtima Umo
December 1, 2014 at 11:17 am
Etart major
December 1, 2014 at 10:20 am
It seems u already hv answers bt y r u asking? Besides th picture wz recently on another story
Judge Joe Bidden
December 1, 2014 at 10:21 am
Kuti waseka… Stop using silly excuses just go man. You have been abusing and using her for 2 years now you are tired kapuli its you who doesn’t respect her, if you love your God or pastor why did you fornicate then. Leave her someone who deserves her will marry her.
Ifwesa
December 1, 2014 at 11:01 am
This man is an idi*t!! I agree with you. He has abused her, used her and today he says is she marriage material? This man is also not marriage material, if he was, he would not have been asking for marriage before they married. Pumbafu!!
Erasm
December 1, 2014 at 10:33 am
The pastor is a gods man but you , you are an assssooooo a big one
Erasm
December 1, 2014 at 10:35 am
Infact give me your girl friends number you idiot
Big full
kofi
December 1, 2014 at 2:32 pm
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Russell
December 1, 2014 at 10:48 am
foolish man, why thinking today were you mad in the first place ?
Psquare
December 1, 2014 at 11:26 am
Did she rape you? NO.
Read Mathew 7Vs7 you fool. You asked and she gave you! So if she refused you were going to say she doesn’t love you or claim that she was giving it to someone else. Be responsible satanyoko.
Denkete
December 1, 2014 at 11:32 am
yangu taata maayo eeee uyu chikala aba nomufulo!!!!!!! Your girlfriend is as human as you are. she has blood in her veins, she feels sexy just like you. the way you wanted her, thats the way she wanted you. Waba akabwamba ubunoono swaini lyobe.
kakolwe
December 1, 2014 at 11:40 am
Na pastor obe litako saanaa!! Why specify ubupuba and confine it to the sweet woman. What he should have said was any Man who asks a woman for sex is not marriage material. So eifyo owe cikamba. 2 years utungapofye Elo icinje lelo? Weshiluwe. In the time you were phucking her, she was phucking you too!! We stand equal. If she ain’t, you ain’t too!! Swine of a man!!!
kkkkkk
December 1, 2014 at 11:57 am
this man is an example of a big stupid idiot!!!!!!,after finishing all the soup in her then you want to dump her foolish.
herve starlin
December 1, 2014 at 12:18 pm
Pastor obe cipuba sana. alelwisha pantu tabamutemenwe. just because e woman aicipisha kuli iwe does not mean alicipa. awe! Ninshi nakutemwa.
tresford simapese
December 1, 2014 at 12:19 pm
Waba inombo ngo lupwa lwa red,simply an assooooo no 2 ways about it.
4 corner
December 1, 2014 at 12:52 pm
U are jst a time waster
kachiwanda
December 1, 2014 at 12:58 pm
#after u hve effected her with h.I.v. ma rubbish .
Venn
December 1, 2014 at 1:41 pm
TUMFWEKO FOR YOU!
gass
December 1, 2014 at 2:39 pm
You are a fool.
Ulubunda
December 1, 2014 at 3:16 pm
1. Pastor lacks wisdom
2. Pastor lacks balanced biblical principles
3. Umwaume uyu is foolish
4. In 2014 men and women must be treated equally
Jonatas Milz
December 1, 2014 at 8:40 pm
How wud u hav felt if your sister was trited like u’ve bin triting ur girlfrend?
Did she propose u or u’re the 1 who did ci satana?
sassy
December 2, 2014 at 6:35 am
Idoit after having yo way wit her now u want 2 dump her,u are u fool…