A man is distraught at the destruction of his marriage after his wife joined the St John’s Apostolic Church in South Africa and allegedly started having an affair with the pastor.
Philemon Bale (40) from Emdeni, Soweto, said his house is a cold and lonely place since Pastor Mack Phokela (50) started sleeping with his wife.
Philemon said he and his wife have been together for 24 years. They were married in 2005.
“She told me she has no feelings for me any more. She said she never wanted to have sex with me and she stopped cooking for me,” he said.
“We slept in the same bed but she would never open her legs for me. For three months, I went through torture in a bed without sex,” he said.
Philemon added the pastor has a bath in his church where he bathes women to cleanse them of bad luck and bad spirits.
“How can a man wash a woman [unclothed] in the bath?” asked an angry Philemon.
He said his family’s problems started in 2013 when Queen Bale (39), the mother of their two children, joined the church.
“She started ignoring me and she was exchanging love messages with the pastor on WhatsApp,” Philemon said.
But the pastor, whose wife has reportedly dumped him, said Philemon must open a case if he has proof that Queen slept with him.
“Philemon wants to destroy me and my church,” he said. He would not comment on whether he was having sex with Queen.
He said Queen only sent him birthday wishes on social media. He said he doesn’t bathe the women. “A woman at the church does that,” he said.
Philemon said he wants his wife back but she apparently refused, even in the presence of her parents.
“She told me she would never live without her boyfriends and that included the pastor,” said Philemon
Pathako Pinu
January 17, 2015 at 2:54 pm
If you are uncircumcised like HH your umuzompiki will leave warts in your woman’s punani which will cause cancer of the cervix like Bana HH (Mutinta) and this is what leads to Pastors like above to start washing unclothed women in church.
Dorika Ndaifulila
January 18, 2015 at 12:49 pm
Most Zambian men smell like BAKAPOLI and expect their wives to wash and shave their stinking dirty penises ati ni African culture ifiko fyeka fyeka. Kanti Neva!!!
This backward culture is so outdated, plz learn to groom yourselves like all civilized human beings do, your wives are not there to smell your filthy stench!
tutu
January 17, 2015 at 4:05 pm
enomo ba pastor akapwalala wanyenga…nomba iwe chikala ulefwaya balebasafya ninshi nabafwala?pakusamba kufula entambi,naiwe shikulu bantu ulefwaya baletumishanya insele pa w@sup? pa w@sup pachitemwiko entambi
advisor
January 19, 2015 at 1:18 am
Most Christians in Africa are not making use of their brain,they have utterly been brainwashed to the extent that Pastors are now God to certain folks..Beware!
Common sense is not common!
January 19, 2015 at 1:36 am
Please show me where God is so i can give him my offerings and tithes myselfundecided
Common sense is not common!
January 19, 2015 at 1:36 am
Please show me where God is so i can give him my offerings and tithes myself.
ICIMUTONGA
January 17, 2015 at 6:14 pm
Hakamuzompiki Hàkanono
Denkete
January 17, 2015 at 8:18 pm
yo wife has tadted the real thing. not akobe so 4get papa.
kanyenga
January 17, 2015 at 11:43 pm
Have been married for 24 years and got married in 2005. Amatole
Tamara
January 18, 2015 at 12:07 pm
Most Zambian men smell like BAKAPOLI ati ni african culture ifiko fyeka fyeka. Can someone tell that pastor to go and wash their stinking dirty penises instead of washing already clean women.
Common sense is not common!
January 19, 2015 at 1:43 am
Religion is bringing Zambia down. We have more churches per square mile than 99% of other countries, yet our country is a crap hole.. Massive corruption, poverty, suffering, etc.
Does it mean God does not like us?? Meanwhile countries that are not as religious as us are doing much better..
Anyway, I do not want to get into that issue… For all you tithe payers, have you ever wondered why the pastor only chooses the verses and books that suit him when it comes to getting money..
Common sense is not common!
January 19, 2015 at 1:50 am
Open your fóólish blind eyes.
Your cunny rogue pastors can preach that you should obey God’s commandment when it comes to tithe but other laws in the old testament e.g Leviticus, Malachi, exodus are not necessary because Jesus has come to redeem you righti?
Did Jesus pay tithe?
Must you pay tithes to pastors account?
Your pastors are cruising expensive cars and jets but you’re still riding minibuses.
Deluded gullible fóóls.