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‘Nothing Wrong With Her Sitting On My Laps’
A 30 year old man of Nkwazi Township in Ndola has told a local court that he did not see anything wrong for another woman to sit on his laps in a bar when his wife caught him red handed.
Chola Njovu of 2324 Nkwazi Township told Chipulukusu Local Court Presiding Magistrate Paul Kayula that it was not wrong for him to put another woman on his laps while drinking alcohol in a bar.
He told the court that his wife, Janet Chimbala whom he had married for five years was over suspicious and accused him of dating the woman he found sitting on his laps in the bar.
“She thinks all the women that come to my bar are my girlfriends, she has been going to the bar to beat up women and accused them of dating me. This is the reason I want to divorce her,” he told the court.
In defence, Chimbala told the court that her husband was too promiscuous to an extent of answering phone calls from his girlfriends at night in her presence.
She told the court that he was saving all his girlfriends names in his mobile phone as ‘Mr’ and not by their names for her not to know.
“ I once found him with a woman he saved in his phone as ‘Mr Chenda’ sitting on his laps and sharing headsets while drinking alcohol in our bar. When I confronted them, the woman told me that Njovu did not tell her that he was married and was promising to marry her,” she told the court.
In passing the judgment, Mr Kayula said it was wrong for a married man to put another woman on his laps and to answer phone calls from girlfriends at home while with his wife.
He said he did not find anything wrong with the wife, adding that the complainant had motives of marrying one of his girlfriends.
“You want to divorce your wife because you want to marry one of your girlfriends. Every normal woman can react when she sees another woman sitting on her husband’s laps,” he said.
Mr Kayula granted the two divorce and asked the complainant to compensate his wife with K8, 000.
Posted by
nekalandane
January 30, 2015 at 2:19 pm
Your husband is not faithful just be happy to divorce him God will give you a better man whom you deserve. this one can just infect you with HIV.
imwiko ngalande
January 30, 2015 at 2:21 pm
Oh this man you are embarassing us the menfolk. Awe takwaba how can you allow another womn to sit in your tools box?????
Chigwile
January 30, 2015 at 11:45 pm
Aini sure! Abika ujeni pa toolbox? Aikona man… nix.
DIVA
January 30, 2015 at 3:52 pm
Chola Njovu iwe, you even know that the woman who sat on your laps is your girlfriend.
Amano
January 30, 2015 at 5:33 pm
This man has no respect for women. He doesn’t deserve anyone of them. Shame on him.
Kawambwa
January 30, 2015 at 5:34 pm
Thats why ine ntombela ba neighbar mu toilet
looks
January 30, 2015 at 7:08 pm
u are a fool,how can u do that 2 yo wife?
tutu
January 30, 2015 at 7:16 pm
imwe bafikala mwebalecondema umulumendo uyu tamwakwatamano,mulefwaya umukashana ekalepanshi? ifipuna nafibulilwa muchikulwa hence the guy oz only bin a gentleman…
king solomon
January 30, 2015 at 8:48 pm
No need for comments. The judge made a gud judgment.
kakolwe
January 31, 2015 at 7:07 am
And my sister leaves her home with K8pin paid in instalments of, probably, 500 forthwith and 250/month. Show me the guy, I will teach him not to find anything wrong in him finding his next wife with her asss bent towards me and her bouncing off my crotch!!
Ghost
January 31, 2015 at 9:43 pm
Hahahahahaha another monkey,no woman can be happy with such behavior and the same goes for men whereby if it was him he would have bumbled his wife and her lover. He’s just a dog and a monkey at the same time