Why is there even a comparison? Actress Bisi Ibidapo Obe says women who use sex toys are more decent than prostitutes who give their bodies to different men and in the end come down with all kinds of sexually transmitted diseases. Bisi, who sells sex toys in her lingerie shop in Lagos, says there is no big deal in using sex toys
“It’s not a big deal. It is only our mentality here in Nigeria that is somehow. In the western world, they don’t see it as anything big. Left to me, anybody using sex toys is even decent compared to a prostitute. If you are using sex toy, you are better than a woman jumping from one bed to the other. Before such a person realizes, she has contracted sexually transmitted diseases. She can even be infected with HIV/AIDS. But with the use of sex toys, nothing like that can happen to you.”she told encomium mag.
Cutie
February 3, 2015 at 3:10 pm
Dirty u!
Pathako Pinu
February 5, 2015 at 8:29 am
The problem is if they get addicted they get so desperate & get fed up with sex toys that they later turn to dogs or horses to do them
Mwansa Kabinga
February 3, 2015 at 4:00 pm
True, better use a sex toy than go after different men. Look at the new Commerce Minister Margaret Mwanakatwe, bottom power with RB has landed her ministerial position. I know of other men she has been going out with. When she was Barclays Zambia MD, the bank went down & even closed some branches. We attended a conference with her in Sweden, I went to check on her at her hotel room, I quickly went back shocked after finding her with a white man on top of her. That’s why Sata appointed her husband Mupanga Mwanakatwe as ZAMTEL CEO to console him for his Mama Waluse wife.
Pretty
February 3, 2015 at 4:58 pm
Guessing she forgot to lock the door to her hotel room.
Sando
February 4, 2015 at 8:56 am
Uli wa bufi chikala iwe. Ulenya fye ubufi kukanwa.
Denkete
February 4, 2015 at 6:40 pm
childish comment. stop attacking personalities.
C.J
February 3, 2015 at 4:04 pm
That’s sounds alright, but it’s demonic! question is, do u remain a virgin if u were a virgin after the use of those toys? The fact is that u will never get attracted to the oposit sex, u will only be comfortable doing yourself.
Oscar Pistorius
February 3, 2015 at 4:28 pm
CJ ur right. Ichinyo chabumbilwe na lesa, ukuti ubukala fye ebwingeengilamo.
Chief of Grief
February 3, 2015 at 5:21 pm
Iwe nifinshi ulebosa,ubwamba bwamba solola iwe.
Sikiza
February 3, 2015 at 7:41 pm
@mwansa kabinga say the truth on ths media dnt cookup stories if ur not in gud terms with her.how cn u find a white man on top as if the hotel rum was widely open? Does it mean that even sata was helping himself she might be beatiful then but be careful with yo alegations you wil be put behind bars
Hate tribalism
February 4, 2015 at 2:34 am
People please spare us your hypocrisy. Using sex toys is much safer than prostitutes
Tina Doyo
February 4, 2015 at 2:58 am
I smell a dead rat. Mwansa Kabinga is the type of person who cooks stories and suddenly thinks they are true. Get a life and concentrate on wiping your sorry backside. Oh please!
Mwansa Kabinga
February 4, 2015 at 8:29 am
Sikiza & Tina Doyo, I may not be able to prove my allegations in court but they are true. If u want ask her, if she is truthful she will acknowledge that. Lets learn to live in a realistic world than always in the academic world. You ur the people who doubt when told that Tilyenji is Kapwepwe’s son.
maikalange
February 5, 2015 at 11:29 am
These same people doubt that Fred M’membe is Kenneth Kaunda’s son
Stunning Beauty
February 4, 2015 at 8:44 am
Both ur sinners.
shuvan kafuwe
February 4, 2015 at 8:44 am
Mwansa Kabonga the two faced liar who must be ignored for he always exposes his foolishness.No one mentioned Hon Margaret Mwanakatwe MP but the fool Mwansa Kabinga satana lucifer mubobo is humiliating her.Useless Zambian Mwansa Kabinga you are.
mercy
February 4, 2015 at 10:43 am
The use of toys is demonic,coz most of these people who uses that are usually not attracted to men when it comes to have sex.Deliverance is needed.You may think its a toy in physical but spiritually its a spiritual man doing you and this causes alot of problems as you may not enjoy sex with a physical man coz you are addicted.Please God help us from this and give us men as for sure a woman should not live alone.As long as we have feelings,we need men,so Lord come through and help us.Amen
jamoka
February 4, 2015 at 10:55 am
users of toys sex or prostitute, you are just a sinners, tell people to come to Jesus.
Yambayamba
February 4, 2015 at 11:31 am
I think the primes of all this is wrong. I am not sure what the exact question put to her was, but PROSTITUTION has very little to do with sexual desire or satisfaction. Prostitutes ply their “trade” mostly for financial and economical survival more than any other consideration. Being SEXUALY PROSQUIMOUS is really quite different from being a prostitute—to me it sounds like this is what she is taking about than prostitution. Also it is quite possible that there are plenty of prostitutes out there who own and use sex toys and still go out and engage in the business of prostitution. By the same token, using sex toys does not guarantee that someone will be sexually fulfilled and not engage in sexual activities with men. So having and using a sex toy is just a “stop-gap measure” which has very little, to nothing really, to do with ones’ DECENCE or MORALS. Nonetheless, she is right on the disease aspect of it.
tutu
February 4, 2015 at 12:46 pm
kuti natemwa ukuchichomeka ifi mangasho ififine chishitisha muchimusula na muchinyo elo nasomeka ubukala kumilomo elo ukuchipela umupowe uwinewine…
dm
February 4, 2015 at 1:02 pm
chances are that she never gets enough of a man’s cock. she uses toys to supplement.
mercy
February 4, 2015 at 3:27 pm
This kind of supplement destroys sexual desire for a man.Better you keep cool.
kachiwanda
February 4, 2015 at 3:34 pm
God created Aman ad a woman for a purpose.
Sikiza
February 4, 2015 at 7:10 pm
If a woman is not married better hav one man to satisfy u sexually instead of sex toy.because u feel gilt after inserting a sex toy. A man is a man and it feels nice stop that and snach one man better
MCY
February 4, 2015 at 8:05 pm
Man was made for a woman.
fwanda fwanda hichilima
February 4, 2015 at 8:11 pm
Uleshitisha ama tools yaku wankila ko.lol
crowned prince
February 5, 2015 at 5:32 am
but ninshi iwe balakuchita kwiule lyobe nokukumfwa bwino ka?
Salvatore Shawa
February 5, 2015 at 6:44 am
I bet sex toys are just a supplementary measure for those whores!!!but nevertheless a cork is a cork
Sikiza
February 5, 2015 at 7:00 am
@ground price you dnt feel gud when your man is on top. You shud be appreciating the effort frm your man .after sex kneel down and clap 4 him for satisfying you sexually
Mula
February 5, 2015 at 7:44 am
Bottom Line Is She Is Doing Business And She Is Busy Marketing. Who Knows, Maybe Today She Will Have More Sales After Talking About Them Widely. I Think They Are Good For Those Women Whose Husbands Are Mostly Out For Work For Sometime. She Should Even Sale Sex Toys For Men To Balance Things So That If A Man Is Going Out For Sometime Should Carry One. Am Only Thinking.
helicopter
February 5, 2015 at 8:31 am
akapuma waumfwa!
Bujo mujo
February 5, 2015 at 9:18 am
Yambayamba well spoken!!! Not ifwe bonse bafikala…..
Kalufyanya
February 5, 2015 at 9:37 am
Awe sana ndeloleshafye
kalu
February 5, 2015 at 9:58 am
Useless idiots for supporting toys ubwamba busuma ichinyo chisuma
maikalange
February 5, 2015 at 11:32 am
Tell them!
Akapondo
February 5, 2015 at 12:46 pm
sex toys are wrong whether marketing strategy or not. a woman is meant to recieve a man’s and not otherwise, may God forgive her.
angielski czasowniki nieregularne
February 6, 2015 at 11:25 am
computerworld events and dobry okulista szczecin.pl.
computerworld events
senseless
February 6, 2015 at 9:45 pm
Ninshi nankwe alabonfya
Vulture
February 6, 2015 at 10:23 pm
she z promotin her busines…..
TimZ
February 7, 2015 at 5:52 am
Yambayamba u’ve spoken da truth.
Renee
February 7, 2015 at 6:15 am
Yambayamba, prostitution is simply immoral conduct ending up in sex for one to gain favors.
Reasons differ depending on needs. Some its money as you have already reasoned. Its still prostitution if a woman seduces you to get a job, claim marriage from you etc. Have you not heard of women who have offered sex to gain confort. Sugar mommies fund us but they are prostitutes. Aren’t they? In real terms, the writer of the article is right except the alternative she is suggesting though safer is also harmful.
christians could teach us more on use of dores, masturbation, and how these would affect our real way of life.