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I’m In Love With An Engaged Man,Please What Do I Do?
Dear Readers,
I am a 21-year-old girl. I once fell in love with a certain man and used to pray that things go well between us, but unfortunately it did not last long because he moved on and got engaged to someone he once dated in the past. We still kind of love each other I cannot lie, but the problem is his an engaged man now…. Can you help me to move on because I also want to date someone, and can the prayers I used to have for us to be together be causing us to keep coming back for each other? I do not want to be between them.
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90 days
February 19, 2015 at 12:42 pm
my dear ,give yo name (face book)we can work out something am also looking for someone to love
New Educated Zambia
February 19, 2015 at 12:43 pm
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90 days
February 19, 2015 at 12:50 pm
a fool is you .look at yo self
New Educated Zambia
February 19, 2015 at 1:48 pm
the fool is one who believes that over 60 percent of people can be made rich within 90days. you my friend are the village idiiot
Umukaya wakwa Milambo
February 19, 2015 at 1:01 pm
Let go off someone is waiting for you somewhere
teddy
February 19, 2015 at 1:16 pm
I know that you know the right thing to do. The guy dosent love you, for he got another person to marry and at the same time he wants you hung. Get that it from me, he dosent love you! Theirs over a billion of guys out their who wants a person like you. Do lie to yourself thinking that you’re going to be happy with a person who belongs to another person. Think HE IS NOT FOR YOU. It would a great thing to find a man who will take you beyond hights you’ve never imagined someone who will treat you like a Queen.A MAN FOR YOU!
Taj
February 19, 2015 at 1:25 pm
continue to be his side chick its normal these days
me too
February 19, 2015 at 1:33 pm
true
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abene bansamba
February 19, 2015 at 1:48 pm
Good that you know he’s just chewing you up with no marriage intentions.Am sure you know the solution is a common knowledge one.
Chief of Grief
February 19, 2015 at 2:47 pm
Iwe mami!Jus move on & screw as many niggaz as posibo & in due time it wil b water under the bridge.
lapkeni family
February 19, 2015 at 4:25 pm
Love does not go and start destroying other peoples relationships.Since the man is engaged and presumably i guess to some one you know, what you are feeling for the man is not LOVE but LUST.
LUST wants that which is not its own.
And the golden rule in Life is ” DO TO OTHERS AS YOU WISH THEM TO DO TO YOU” How would you feel if some one was meddling in your affairs.
The bible says he who kills by the sword dies by the sword. So my advise is stay away from the man.
When you do that, God will send yours and you will enjoy your life abundantly
kakolwe
February 19, 2015 at 5:46 pm
A few days ago, on ZNBC News, I saw a news item that indeed as: “…and he is survived by three (3) wives and a host of children, myriad of grand & great grand children.
Probably, the man was mentored by the same dead polygamist and he wishes you to be his second as he hunts for number 3. Since you love him, live it up!
Curvy
February 19, 2015 at 7:20 pm
Never force a man! Move on! If a man goes he goes….let him go. Once he gets tired of you, he is tired.
tutu
February 19, 2015 at 8:14 pm
try giving gud BJs,t mite do wonders!! but in de min time akutombeshapo ama fellaz bambi
Nalungwe
February 19, 2015 at 9:18 pm
If you belong together you will be together. For now your role is to be happy for him and stop looking back. Maybe God is only waiting for you to move on to do something for you.
Remember if/when he settles down, you will have a bigger struggle coz the problems and temptations that come with marriage may bring him back to you. Then it will be messy for you.
For now step away and cut all manner of communication. If you believe in your God and leave it to him, your rightful man will come. if its him God will do it. For now you have absolutely nothing else to do in all this but to pray for your partner. Cut communication with ex and stop holding on to the past. Your eyes may end up being closed to new people God is showing you. That man has decided, unless he is irresponsible. Just move on.
abene ba nyekese
February 19, 2015 at 9:48 pm
Step aside and let him decide without your influence.
zoom
February 20, 2015 at 10:30 am
Sweetie balekubepa… ukaba side chick. He is serious with the girl engaged to not iwe. Ukanjeba. Twali teyapo ayaso
chacha
February 20, 2015 at 3:29 pm
You should cut soul ties otherwise it will be on and off relationship.Ask God for forgiveness n release forgiveness too.Ask a God fearing man or woman of God for guidance
Jimmy Shaba
February 20, 2015 at 9:10 pm
At 21 years you supposed to focus on your future. He is engaged so leave him.
Ghetto
February 21, 2015 at 3:23 pm
We hule iwe, you know a man’s brain elo ulelanda ati we still love each other weshipuba iwe wake your ass up and move on. These girls are the ones destroying ama marriages ku buhule. Find another man for yourself, if the guy loved you so much that ring would have been yours, for now you are just a sperm chamber to him and a hoe!
J~Hams
February 23, 2015 at 1:53 pm
stop wasting ur time lady gat a life