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I Have No Feelings For My Husband,Please Help!
Dear Readers,
I have been married for 10 years with two children. I have no feelings for my husband and have been hoping that something will change, but no avail. What can I do to revive my marriage?
Posted by
New Educated Zambia©
March 22, 2015 at 11:21 am
Look lady just like the marriage between zambians and the pf, yours too needs to come to an end. You cannot revive something that you do not want. In the same way many people left the pf marriage and supported hh at the just ended elections. You too need to have a back bone and leave that marriage. You are clearly not happy in the same way many zambians are not happy with pf lack of performance. Your husband ain’t performing. Vote upnd
Pastor Richard
March 22, 2015 at 1:05 pm
Please visit Nigeria’s Prophet TB Joshua and your problem will be a thing of the past.
God is able, your marriage is from God, but the devil has overtaken it.
New Educated Zambia©
March 22, 2015 at 4:02 pm
I do not need to visit a man that predicts disasters as a way of earning a living. It is chaps like you and that TB joshua that are keeping africa behind. Thanks for the advice anyway
major chileshe
March 22, 2015 at 7:57 pm
Mmmmmm its amazin hw u manage to connect evrythin to ur political bullshit,u really r creative and talented at this shit man,hats off to u man,u the king of bullshit
New Educated Zambia©
March 22, 2015 at 8:00 pm
kiki uchili uledabwa? Even when 2016 comes and we walk into office you will still be getting surprised. Mukose ba PF. Times for mediocre rulers based on lies is over. This is the new zambia.
TRUTH
March 22, 2015 at 10:51 pm
but nez walasa mwadi,no marriage with pf because pf doe not support pan’anda(house)
Chief of Grief
March 22, 2015 at 1:05 pm
Aah iwe naiwe kabiye uko!!Just leave him n move on to another y ukwishupa.Am sure uli hule sana so if dig deepr its about conjugal isues,ukutemwisha ubukala women of nowdays,kam to 2 me ukamona efyo aka dimba pantu kulekunasha ubushiku bonse.
Sikiza
March 22, 2015 at 1:09 pm
Y u dnt hv feeling 4yo hubby is because u enjoy sex every day.u nid to be breaking some times u go sme whre and cme home after some wks when u do that i tel u ,u wil re gain the feelings.on the other hand if u hav man frd then difficult to have feelings 4your hubby so stop !!!
wayne
March 22, 2015 at 11:23 pm
very true, to many married women have male friends
redlinso
March 22, 2015 at 1:10 pm
You are useless you just tell the truth you have started opening else where period.
Ghetto
March 22, 2015 at 2:05 pm
We hule iwe after 10 years . You need to tell your husband the truth about you your new boyfriend.
peda
March 22, 2015 at 2:28 pm
takutombesha? try me
Chief Puta
March 22, 2015 at 2:31 pm
I wud rather b a cow than than a Tonga.
New Educated Zambia©
March 22, 2015 at 4:05 pm
and zambia would rather have a dog living in it than have you a dog like you. Learn to be objective in approach mune. We are fighting hard to prevent this country becoming a tribal failed state. Please do not be careless with your sentiments. You should realise that civil wars have been started out of foolish careless remarks such as those. In zambia we are united and do not care what tribe one is. We are humans. Grow up and next time please seek the services of a guardian before you comment on such a site. YOu are clearly still connected to your mother’s womb via the umbilical cord
KOSWE
March 22, 2015 at 6:59 pm
IWE IDIOT.Stop insulting other tribes.
No one choose to be of a certain tribe.Your days a numbered.
zoom
March 22, 2015 at 2:36 pm
Iwe namayo. I lefwaya tuchte shani ifwe. Landa fye ichishinka
Rashman
March 22, 2015 at 3:54 pm
wt feeling is it sexual feelings or jst emotional feelings find a psycologist
chichi.
March 22, 2015 at 4:38 pm
stanyoko weule we,afta 10yrs in marriage that wen u cn tel the whole world that u’ve no feelingz towardz yo hubby.ask that man whoz cheatin on u if she’l luk afta thoz kidz of kidz of yos?
concerned citizen
March 22, 2015 at 4:54 pm
My dear to tell you the truth, they are ladies out there who really needs husbands. Do me a favour, jst give me your hubby’s no I will go for him myself. Good luck.
Dota of love
March 22, 2015 at 6:39 pm
My sis pray hard for your marriage ten years is a long time,ask GOD to rivive your feelings.
ponki
March 22, 2015 at 8:32 pm
Just leave him in peace. i think mwalikwata bambi mayo. aculilemo!!!!
Evil mind
March 22, 2015 at 9:00 pm
U have demons am sure u sleep n ve sex in yo dreams wth da spiritual husband find men of God to pray for u.
Mula
March 23, 2015 at 12:08 am
This Is A Problem Of Loving A Person Because Of Sex Only. Because When The Desire Drops, Instead Of Looking For Ways To Rebute Your Desire For Each Other, The Offender Will Quickly Say I Have No Feelings For Him/her. Even Where You Will Go After Sometime It Will Be The Same Thing. Because The Problem Is You. Just Sit Back And Solve Your Issue With Your Husband.
twetwe
March 23, 2015 at 12:51 am
Mutual love does not come that cheap. Women today are so desperate for that ka spice in their lives that they fall prey to idle talk in kitchen parties, next door neighbors, old school mates, internet…and once into it coming out is a nightmare. If the treatment the girlfriends get from men wud apply in homes, there wud be fewer such incidences. Career women also can be problems in that being housewife with its many chaos, the contribution and effort appear like slavery. Family – relatives to hubby may be stress to some(WE HAVE LOST FAMILY VALUES IN THIS DIFFICULT TIME).Extra curricular issues are a part that may not be discussed here but are pivotal in these areas.. Be truthful and the problem may be sorted out.Stop this bubble gum love !
mr listener
March 23, 2015 at 8:53 am
so mean after all these years u hv been leaving with sam one u dnt luv that’s a lie jst come with the truth and the ploblem wil b solved. pliz forget about that secret lovoe of yours and concertrate on yo mariege abanobe balechilila ichupo iwe ulechita ifyabupuba get some sence.
satesate
March 23, 2015 at 1:18 pm
new educated zambvia, ninsh whatever comes out of that urgly face of yours is rubbish? chinyo chanoko. waba ifimalepe..
booz party
March 23, 2015 at 1:29 pm
for the past 10 years your husband has been bonking u sweetly now sam mutototo chaps are busy scewing you now u ar thinking u dnt have feelings for your husband. leave him instead of staying a cheat…. leta ubwalwa tulenwa
rev
March 23, 2015 at 3:03 pm
just know you are a problem and sooner or later will be on the street prostituting so seek deliverance from a emmanuel.tv or call the hotline for deliverance in jesus name you will be well
LOMBE
March 23, 2015 at 7:52 pm
TOO,BT WATEVER PROBLEM FACING,TELL JESUS
Hanya Hamasushi
March 24, 2015 at 7:57 am
the best thing my sister is to seek Gods guidance otherwise whoever you decide to free to you will face similar ups and downs in yo relationship. God is the only answer to your problem. My advise to some of you who politise any thing is that take any problem a person bring as it is and not bring in politics even when something boarders on something else.
mutolo
March 24, 2015 at 8:16 am
most women in zambia get married as a source of lively hood. some are orphaned at a tender age and struggle to meet basics needs. they only resort to marriage hoping to find a better life without analysing/evaluating who on earth they marry. result is a maarriage without any emotional bond.i know some men screw better than others, equally some women smell better than others thats why its hard to be content with your partner.you may think u hv a good husband and yet hes not so much into u, equally u may think u hv a good wife yet shes not so much into u.
tobela
March 24, 2015 at 10:56 am
its my first time on this site so I decided to read through other comments just to blend in. but all I read are insults&thuggery language….can I appeal for some levels of integrity so that some of us can use this site to air our opinions in comfort.
HARD BODY MUBAUBAU
March 24, 2015 at 11:13 am
Welcome to our world of insights. Oh sorry I meant insults. Join us or leave this site alone. Luk at what your friend is complaining about. Is that normal. What do u expect us nigros to conclude. Tell her your kamasuntra swicretes and stop questioning the intergrity of these dear members. WE CAN TEACH YOU A LESSON JUST NOW, ati your name again? oh, TOBELA. DEAL?
saicool
March 24, 2015 at 12:58 pm
I think u have a spiritual husband my sister.seek Gods kingdom and pray hard.
simus
March 24, 2015 at 1:58 pm
stop using family planning pil you be fine.
ELIZABETH KAHEBE
March 24, 2015 at 2:06 pm
Just pray hard my sister there is nothing which God can fell to do .May God bless you>
Bhinsimatako
March 24, 2015 at 2:18 pm
we are fed up of such magwamps,eh, i have no feelings for him, eh, he doesnt satisfy me,eh bla bla bla. stupid chap. how many men have posted such bulshit online to the whole world you chinese dog! women why is it that its only you complaining every time? we are disgusted please learn to be logical
shimaini
March 24, 2015 at 5:57 pm
you just marred bcoz of money,so u wnt 2 go for money again.Guys Wake Up 4 Thiz Beachs Like Thz One.
twetwe
March 25, 2015 at 11:59 am
Mother of children? Just be sincere and tell this site that you are seeing someone with fantastic taste for sex.. The trouble is u will never negotiate for anything low than the mutoto boy u are seeing. Thats it u will never know peace again as long as you have shifted your appetite for longer orgasms and better playtime.Your man must be in some stressful occupation and hardly has time for longer playtime…Its really up to you to redeem yourself.
baby j
March 25, 2015 at 12:13 pm
Stay with him .how can u marry samone u have no feelings for ….tebupuba !