A 50 year old woman of Lusaka’s Zingalume Township has sued her husband for divorce, alleging that he takes sex boosters which make him have sex with her all-night long.
This has apparently irritated the woman as she is forced to stay awake throughout the night.
Teresa Mwale told the court that her husband was in the habit of taking sex boosters which sustained his erection for many hours and not ejaculate.
This is in a case in which Mwale sued Christopher Zulu, 58, for divorce after the two failed to resolve this marital dispute.
Facts before the court were that Mwale and Zulu got married in 2006 and have one child, and differences between the couple started shortly after they had their child.
“My husband drinks sex boosters, and when he does, he gets an erection but he fails to release, which keeps me awake the whole night,” she said.
Mwale said she was now tired of being married to Zulu simply because he never gave her chance to rest at night.
She said she had on several occasions pleaded with her husband to stop using sex boosters so that the couple could at least go for some days without having sex but he had flatly refused.
“My husband cannot perform in bed without taking sex boosters, and I have advised him on several occasions to stop taking them so that we can stop having sex, for a while, but he has refused,” Mwale said.
She said as if that was not enough, her husband used to move with his former wife’s underwear in his pocket alleging that it gave him strength in bed.
“My husband moves with his first wife’s pants in his pocket which he frequently uses to wipe his manhood claiming that it makes him strong in bed,” Mwale said.
She said her husband’s children had also beaten her up on several occasions and two months ago they chased her out of the house.
“My husband has kids with his first wife, hence they have not accepted that I am their new mother. As a result they beat me up and have since chased me out of the house,” Mwale said.
In his defence, Zulu told the court that he was ready to divorce his wife because she was mistreating his children.
Zulu said his wife used to insult him in front of the children and did not help him to support the family even when she had money.
“This woman does not love my children. She has a bad heart and that is the reason why she has been married to three other men before me,” he said.
Magistrate Lewis Mumba, sitting with Petronella Kalyelye, dissolved their marriage and ordered Zulu to compensate Mwale with K6,000.
The custody of their child was given to Mwale and Zulu was ordered to be maintaining him with K250.
By Friday Simbaya
Judge Joe Bidden
April 20, 2015 at 2:11 pm
Yaba now thats another story hoping we wont see awash of political innuendos Mr Zulu insatiable sexual appetite linked to a political party.
Czar
April 20, 2015 at 2:28 pm
Shrek will say ‘These are PF illiterates. Next time vote wisely. Vote UPND in 2016. In our constitution sex is guaranteed and will be natural, no need for sex boosters. Kikikiki ukose mune” blah! blah !
New Educated Zambia©
April 20, 2015 at 2:48 pm
Simply a case of failed gender equality. Women are still seen as largely sex objectives who should cater for a man’s needs whenever he feels like it. Fast forward to 2015 we had lungu claiming the country has mide strides in ensuring women are empowered through him employing already successful women to political positions. We in the UPND have always preached that gender equality and empowerment starts from the grassroots and involves sensitization workshops at ground level. It is only through access of information on these issues can you empower people. PF take note. you are sleeping once more. We are lucky this case did not end in the husband battering the wife
Dude
April 20, 2015 at 2:58 pm
Wow, do you never get tired? Your political take on all issues or stories on this site actually do you more of a disservice than anything else. Give it a rest please.
New Educated Zambia©
April 20, 2015 at 3:01 pm
if you are tired go and take a nap or take a leave from this website. DO not worry about me. Just like you and any other person here we in the UPND have the right to express ourselves. You will end up frustrated
major chileshe
April 20, 2015 at 3:34 pm
Mmmmm this is legendary stupidity,chikala u hav managed to convent this site into a political platform.ba tumfweko jus get rid of this punk for us plz.bushe where is pathako pinu kanshi?he knu hw to tame this guy
New Educated Zambia©
April 20, 2015 at 4:26 pm
kiki stay strong. pathako pinu is a useless small boy who just throws insults which have no impact on me. Please engage us maturely.
New Educated Zambia©
April 20, 2015 at 4:32 pm
Kiki mulimbe bane Pathako pinu is off we in UPND are here to stay panyo pako engage us as level headed cikala chawiso.
New Educated Zambia©
April 20, 2015 at 6:34 pm
and yes the idiot that has insulted above me is pathako pinu. that is one way of knowing that he is around kiki pathako good boy vote UPND in 2016 mune
MAFUPA YOKOYOKO
April 20, 2015 at 3:06 pm
Ba NEZ so ni ECL who caused this man to take mutototo? Muleibwelamofye fimo olo mwapishamo pen b4 you start writing and criticising!
poly
April 20, 2015 at 3:10 pm
This poor woman should have sued for rape.From her plea,the mutototo consumer never ejaculate like all other rapists.
Even if the Bible appeals to women to submit to their husbands,not in the manner at hand.
There is nowhere it says wives stay awake all night for your non ejaculating husbands.
Chimbwi
April 20, 2015 at 3:21 pm
Abena NEZ. Kikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikiki. Not Educated Zealot.
New Educated Zambia©
April 20, 2015 at 4:38 pm
kiki stay strong. pathako pinu is a useless small boy who just throws insults which have no impact on me. Please engage us maturely, panyo pako just vote for UPND and deliver yourselves from poverty under PF.
life yakwe umwine
April 20, 2015 at 3:29 pm
Nez baletelete bulaza
major chileshe
April 20, 2015 at 3:35 pm
Ati he walks arnd wit his x wife’s pant in his pockets,hahahahaha te nez uyo bushe?
Judge Joe Bidden
April 20, 2015 at 6:31 pm
life yakwe umwine
April 20, 2015 at 3:35 pm
Alo isakuno ine ninsheta imbalala alo selako pantu ninsheta umutototo tonny breeze ponde mix kkkkkkk
kakolwe
April 20, 2015 at 3:49 pm
Why is it that NEZ never feels ashamed in talking about what is already happening? That is why I say he is the kind that can impress the ignorant. And how do you all guys know that mutitotoans never ejaculate? Is that what you use?
New Educated Zambia©
April 20, 2015 at 4:42 pm
Idiot chinyo cha mayi wako engage us maturely. Just vote for UPND
kakolwe
April 20, 2015 at 6:03 pm
Thanks. I guess your “amai” did not have such a gadget in her morphology. Wondoery which part your father “dwinked” to produce you.
New Educated Zambia©
April 20, 2015 at 6:36 pm
kiki you should know that i never use such pf language of insults. you chaps cannot even tell that is your own pathako pinu the imposter? Pathako pinu u have been missing in action, how is cleaning toilets going? walimu shift? kiki
chichi.
April 20, 2015 at 4:15 pm
thats inhuman,y wud u make
luv 2yo wife al time?kutumpa uko iwe citaataa.y can’t u giv her space?u can’t enjoy sex in a daily basis.ifyo fimutototo cibomfya citaataa @ last ukatomba nomwana obe.
mado Moto
April 20, 2015 at 4:26 pm
U r Very foolish NEZ all u think is politics, get a life chikamba.
New Educated Zambia©
April 20, 2015 at 4:43 pm
Panyo.
jobreaker
April 20, 2015 at 5:40 pm
but poly what should that man do,u heard he fails to wake it up,of course him walking with his wife’s Andy is weird but honestly speaking how can u complain from having sex,we have heard of scenarios of men not giving it to their wives and the wives divorcing them for no service,this one is complaining of too much servicing,and wen he finds ka Priscilla kaku side ati my husband is cheating on me naka 17old girl
monk
April 21, 2015 at 12:16 am
aleuma live umu guys ifwe tulelasa golf
monk
April 21, 2015 at 12:18 am
felo blogers, to plz a fool is to ignore. let us not argue wit useless blogas like NEZ
Fulu fulu
April 21, 2015 at 1:21 am
Hahaha.. Wow. What kind of man is this? And what’s with the whole ex-wife’s underwear? Some people are nutcases.
lemba
April 21, 2015 at 7:57 am
Too much of anything is not good, animal.
lemba
April 21, 2015 at 8:14 am
Hee why did the previous wife leave? may it be the same mutototo which made her run away. Am sure even the next woman will run away. Mr. man reduce the dosage so that your woman can enjoy sex too. the way you do it it’s like you do not mind how she feels you do it for your self only. do it for love and let your woman feel loved. you can even repeat it several times as long as your are tender, caring, passionate etc. yr woman want even notice that you have taken mutototo. be real treat her with special care.
Justice Denied
April 21, 2015 at 10:01 am
What is a point of simply getting an erection and not release the sweet fluid into your woman? How can you enjoy sex without reaching any climax? I am sure if only he could release even five times, the wife would not have sought divorce. Te mwaume uyo divorce granted even by this distant court.
mercy
April 21, 2015 at 3:55 pm
In fact this man is not Mr Zulu,but Mr Chileshe.He is hiding the identity
club zero
April 21, 2015 at 4:15 pm
@ba major chile ni NEZ chikala ku zingalume
major chileshe
April 21, 2015 at 4:26 pm
I thot so too boi,koz only him cn hav such a mindset