‘Two Women Are Pregnant For Me At The Same Time’

man pregMy longtime girlfriend and I are expecting our first child together and are planning to marry in December. But I was also seeing someone on the side and she’s also pregnant. To be honest I feel bad because she was a virgin and she’s very young – just 19. I am 33. I don’t know what to do in this situation as her parents are very upset and want me to do right by her. My main girlfriend doesn’t know about the other one and her pregnancy and I don’t know how to break it to her. In fact I am confused about my situation. Has any guy ever been in this situation? How did you handle it?

 

From a male reader.

34 Responses to "‘Two Women Are Pregnant For Me At The Same Time’"

  1. YADAYA   June 10, 2015 at 8:42 am

    BOI NIWEBO WALE POPA SALA AMANO MUUNEE

    • Pwanya Nini   June 10, 2015 at 9:32 am

      The only solution for you is to drink DOOM then you assured no one will trouble you.You know why I say drink Doom? Bcoz you cannot handle a small issue like pregnancies which is not even criminal when me am able to deal with hard core cases like aggravated robbery I do in Lusaka & Copperbelt sometimes in Lilongwe ,Malawi!I survive on that in & out of cells & courts…

  2. Beautiful Moma   June 10, 2015 at 8:47 am

    Chikamba chobe wembwawe. You shouldn’t have misbehaved like that in the first place. I hope your fiancée leaves your stupid @$$ so you can settle down with your small whoring side plate. I pray that your fiancée finds a good man who will love her and your own child (also hoping that your biological child will despise you) and that she does better than you in life. Hoping, really hoping that you will always be her footstool. Styopet. I have seen this before and such men make me angry. If I knew you, I’d use the 9 Ne bullet left in my chamber on you. Loser.

    • K   June 10, 2015 at 9:46 am

      pwanya nini thats not the advice u kan give someone.this guy is confused and in his desperate situation,mite follow yo advice.

      • Beautiful Moma   June 10, 2015 at 10:11 am

        Eh eh eh eh, abeg, this is not @P.N ‘s thread my dear.Respond to him directly, abeg.
        On the other hand, I agree with @P.N. This dumb f*ck can go jump off a cliff. One idiot less on earth is good for humanity.

  3. IF NOT   June 10, 2015 at 9:01 am

    learn to term your penis.

  4. Pwanya Nini   June 10, 2015 at 9:33 am

    The only solution for you is to drink DOOM then you assured no one will trouble you.You know why I say drink Doom? Bcoz you cannot handle a small issue like pregnancies which is not even criminal when me am able to deal with hard core cases like aggravated robbery I do in Lusaka & Copperbelt sometimes in Lilongwe ,Malawi!I survive on that in & out of cells & courts…Yikes!!!

    • Kingsley Kaliye   June 10, 2015 at 10:10 pm

      NEZ where hv u been bro,, u my man. This country needs youths who are well organised in mind like you. Hachikasa-Hachikasa til 2016!!

  5. New Educated Zambia©   June 10, 2015 at 9:45 am

    Too bad because under the pf all the odds are against you in terms of being able to afford to support those kids. Ukose or votr upnd

    • Pwanya Nini   June 10, 2015 at 9:57 am

      The UPND thought it was mandatory for all Zambians to vote for HH in the January 2015 elections and after their candidate lost, they are venting their anger on President Lungu and Rupiah Banda,” he said. “The hate for Mr. Banda was due to the belief that Banda swayed the MMD votes in favour of Lungu

    • PRIVATISATION   June 10, 2015 at 10:09 am

      This NEZ is he around?. His been too quiet now, I thought his part of UPND head that has been swalled by Our PF because the whole part of upnd has been swalled already and what is remaing is just the tail. read what our boss chama said in yesterdays post.

  6. K   June 10, 2015 at 9:54 am

    GET IT FROM ME BRO,THERE IS NO PROBLEM GOD KAN FAAIL TO SOLVE IF U RUN TO HIM.FIRSTLY KNEEL DOWN RITE NOW AND REPENT ALL YO SINS AND ASK JESUS TO COME INTO YO HEART AND BE YO LORD AND PERSONAL SAVIOUR.SECONDLY TELL YO GIRLFRIEND THE TRUTH.SH IS MOST LIKELY TO DUMP U,BUT ITS BETTER TO BE HONEST THAN LIVE A LIE AND MAKING HER DISCOVER LATER.IF SHE DOES NOT DUMP U,THEN ASSURE HER U A RE NOW A NEW PERSON,AND TELL THE OTHER GIRL AND HER FAMILY THAT U WILL SUPPORT THE CHILD BUT U KANT MARRY HER.REMEMBER PIPO WILL JUDGE U AND LAUGH AT U,BUT GAD DOES NOT LOOK ATB THE FORMER THINGS WEN WE BECOME BORN AGAIN.

  7. Judge Joe Bidden   June 10, 2015 at 10:30 am

    I hate it when someone pisses off my wife…. for sure this guy has possibly changed the life of a 19yr old and nobody is even talking about HIV. Sis! Be assured nowdays us men are now more flexible marrying single mothers than in the past, both women might just find their right men in their lives, as for the man let someone tie a ship anchor to his d!ck and throw him in Bangweulu.

    • Beautiful Moma   June 10, 2015 at 10:41 am

      Kikiki. Indeed. Hi sunshine.
      Afwe fye umulumendo uyu. Anwefye doom mixed with whisky. Aposemo na rat killer. Aleposa enshita asking for advice because those pregnancies, ma live wire alechaya. What about the ones who haven’t come forward with pregnancies? He is a nympho and who knows what he is carrying in his body. Iyi story nga ya chine, the main chick should drop him ASAP. He is dead weight around her ankles.

      • kakolwe   June 10, 2015 at 11:53 am

        Hey! Nympho is a she! He is just a sex maniac!

        • Beautiful Moma   June 10, 2015 at 12:03 pm

          Thanks. For sure. Typed it in a rush. That guy needs to tame it or chop it off. It’s leaving a trail of destruction in its path.

  8. major chileshe   June 10, 2015 at 10:34 am

    If its on that pic then niggar u r sick,red lips lyk that? Lookin lyk hapunda

    • Beautiful Moma   June 10, 2015 at 10:43 am

      But hapunda muntu wenu. Finshi mulesosa apa ba major? Ninshi uku ikolopa mwebene futi?

  9. de blues   June 10, 2015 at 11:22 am

    Bro jst leav every thing in the hards of God

  10. de blues   June 10, 2015 at 11:34 am

    Ad dnt follow those evil advice everything will be ok trust me

  11. UWAMIPOTO   June 10, 2015 at 11:34 am

    Wait….two??ok marry both

  12. kakolwe   June 10, 2015 at 12:07 pm

    Ba Tumfweko, if this is true, the idiet is just confused coz he does not know where to get money for damages from. Link me to him please. My advice is: Just man up to both ladies & their families, I pay ALL charges & responsibilities & you disappear (forever) from these lives. I’ll raise those kids as mine. Why do you dwink when the only capital wakwata kabwambafye? If ever you show your dikc, I cut U up & feed you to stray dogs.

  13. Shi Mwana   June 10, 2015 at 12:07 pm

    Uyu cikala kuti alenga na devil aba confused! He is worse than the devil himself. Beautiful Moma is right. Doom is the way to go mune. Nangu Mutototo nifi?

  14. Ezemwa   June 10, 2015 at 12:21 pm

    Just tell yo fiance, am sure she will not live u if she loves u n she will understand but very bad walya isungu cha mwaiche better marry ha lso. infact the niteen year old gal is da 1 u supose to marry

  15. Chief of Grief   June 10, 2015 at 1:10 pm

    Ukose pantu walewunfwa ubulowe weka!So imwe guyz mwebatemwa ukupowela mundofu u think ati spermu yile mumwela,ifikonkapo lifumo bamambala imwe.Y not ukumupowela pamabele nangula mukanwa?U on yo own on this one mate!

  16. one Zambia   June 10, 2015 at 1:24 pm

    Only the truth will set u free

  17. Liyah   June 10, 2015 at 2:09 pm

    In every situation God has somethings to say, hear from God muune.

  18. daily drinking officer   June 10, 2015 at 2:10 pm

    Problem uyu chikamba ama live sana,you should like Tayali always prepared.

  19. Munyelo Pwete!   June 10, 2015 at 3:08 pm

    Yabaaaaaa! This site is full of confused people! Kikikikiki! Surely ati the idiet should learn to tame his penis…kekekekekeke!

  20. jane   June 10, 2015 at 3:25 pm

    Nice looking guy mwee….

  21. wezi   June 10, 2015 at 3:43 pm

    you ar such a fool and a traitor.u neva loved yo fiance.if u did u wudnt do such a stupid thng.she doesnt dserve u a single bit.u betray her nw wen u ar stl coutng wat more wen u mary her.gvng u advice is wastage of tme.

  22. No One cares   June 10, 2015 at 4:48 pm

    NO ADVISE BRO JUST GO BONKING THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE, NEVER MIND, YOU YOUR SO CALLED FIANCE. IS A FOOL THE GIRL AS WELL IS A FOOL. HOW DO YOU BONK OUTSIDE MARRIAGE SPARE US SOMETIME WITH THIS SHIT!

  23. JOHN CHINENA   June 10, 2015 at 7:53 pm

    Too bad my bro. Issues of women are confusing. Just tell both the truth and marry the one you love between the two.

  24. one tim   June 10, 2015 at 8:07 pm

    may guy you are not serious with life how do u date two women at the same time just face the consequences of your actions u thought you were a staring deal with it.