My name is Majory. I reside in Busakile I have an issue which has been bothering me and I have decided to take the bold step. I am 29 and a virgin. I have always have to deal with men who are only interested in sleeping with me and I have sworn to keep myself for only my future husband.
I have lost a lot of men because they all wanted the same thing before marriage. I am ready to for medical assessment of my virginity to prove it to any real man who is ready to marry me.
I am into event managements, catering and decoration. I am not a graduate but I am willing to become one if the opportunity presents itself. I know its a bit odd doing it this way but this is the way God wants it because my pastor told me few weeks ago that I would meet my man on social network. It is this way but I am really not ready to step into my 30’s without my having a man to call my own. I am doing this because he may be living far away and If I do not reach out he may have to make me wait longer.
Please post this mail. I am getting tired and the pressure is getting too much for me. Even my mother thinks I am possessed because I have refused to sleep with potential suitors. Thanks and God bless u.
From a female reader.
Kosovo, Bosnia & Hercegovina
June 26, 2015 at 10:23 pm
No contact no nothing and indeed u are a virgin
Vampiro @ ONYX POWER
June 27, 2015 at 1:42 am
You are 9years overdue for marriage my dear.
Thief Justice
June 27, 2015 at 3:03 pm
LOL!!
Denkete
June 27, 2015 at 2:10 pm
Virgin nkote proper. Menopause catching up with you. No need to go for medical check to prove you virginity, just come to me, nga bwaingila ninshi teiwe virgin.
New Educated Zambia©
June 26, 2015 at 10:36 pm
You are doing this because you have realised that you cannot survive alone under the tough economic hardships we find ourselves under the PF. No one is blaming you. Please our advice is that in the next election be wise and vote with your head and not stomach. Vote UPND.
Lesa talekelesha
June 27, 2015 at 1:21 am
kikikikiki
Hello Haters
June 27, 2015 at 1:56 am
Kikikiki, kikikiki, boyi nizoona life yavuta pa zed most ladies who are not economically empowered only solution ni chikwati, why panic about your age if you capable of taking care of yourself, men will always come knocking whatever age you are, even 60 year olds get married.
Honesty lukn
June 26, 2015 at 10:47 pm
If u ar serious,contact me on 0976824957.I hv bn waitn 4 someone lik u,am ready 2 tek u seriously.
chief Puta
June 27, 2015 at 12:18 am
U cnt find serious luv on social media my dear,i hv slept wt more than 40 chicks and i dnt think i cn marry any of them.If i were u i wd jst take easy and let lov lead the cz it’s like u wnt a mam by hook or crook whc z nt good at all.Nway try that fool called NEZ or the idiot Hello haters.
Hello Haters
June 27, 2015 at 1:45 am
Stupid fulata puta, what’s this nonsense got to do with me?
New Educated Zambia©
June 27, 2015 at 12:55 pm
kiki the most foolish chief ever known south of the equator kiki. ulichipuba iwe
mangobe
June 26, 2015 at 10:54 pm
Na wah ooh…..
mangobe
June 26, 2015 at 10:57 pm
Yo contacts plzzzzzzzz…..
msquared samaki
June 26, 2015 at 11:04 pm
if its true, may God the creater of the universe bless and continuel strengthening you. your man is coming very soon but you have to be careful, since you have published yourself the devil might use the same social media to make you fall.. keep on praying to God you man is on his way. stay blessed.
Liyah
June 26, 2015 at 11:10 pm
Packaging is very deceptive.
Hello Haters
June 27, 2015 at 1:47 am
Why not support your fellow virgin, mufwayafye muli mweka?
GUNNERS
June 26, 2015 at 11:26 pm
Are u sure u are a virgin???
No One cares
June 26, 2015 at 11:43 pm
My bro Mr Ned i think you look like a symphatize of some political party.i just want you to think of this, God Call Nebuchadnezzar to rule his children. Asumme you are a daniel. would you be willing to serve this wicked king remember God himself appoint this wicked king jeremiah say so 24:1-and 25:1- Today we have a drunkard in the office of president. how do we react to this Patient pays it not right to insult this wicked king after all God say respect you leaders Roman say so Chapter 13:1-when king saul wanted kill david he refused to revenge because saul was anointed by God.and yet it would have fair for david to kill saul so watch what you say about you leaders i not a member of any political party because all of them are liars.
Hello Haters
June 27, 2015 at 1:42 am
Kikikiki, kikikiki, kkiikki, yaba! Kwena tumfweko anasungapo ba kwindi bosiyana, comment iyi ingapange na chakolwa kunkala sober, my friend i think you like reading your version of your Bible upside-down, Daniel and his colleagues where not in Babylon out of their free will, they were slaves, and the king only thought of using them because of their wisdom, by the way if they willing and obeying this king, his three buddies wouldn’t have bn thrown into a furnace, and Dan would not bn thrown into the den of lions, in short it’s alright to challenge your so called “anointed” when you feel they are out of line, David and Saul both anointed, one already king, the other in coming king, just imagine the beef that the king would harbor for the incoming, David also did not find himself at the kings palace out of his own free will, but the king was going through a alot of trials and tribulations in his life and for him to have peace he needed a good very skilled harp player, and my brother the duel in that cave where David had the opportunity to kill saul while he was sh*tting, it was his men who told him were to find his enemy saul, a clear sign David was in rebellion with his king. So please stop abusing this word ANOINTED unnecessarily ba kwindi, sober up and get a life, stupid bloody cocoroaches.
kakolwe
June 27, 2015 at 5:00 am
That is very good @Bishop Hello Haters. Bible abuse is rife in Africa. Both at individual level and at national level. Politicians are even using ‘church goers’ to garner for votes. Why do you think all presidential candidates are in different churches during campaigns? Ekwapwalala ivoti! SDA aya ku katolika, pente, mutima etc. They only skip kucitawala pantu takwaba market.
monk
June 26, 2015 at 11:47 pm
Me I am 35 muli bu monk, but still going strong. Ndefwaya nkamone nga kuti fyanjipaya.
Vampiro @ ONYX POWER
June 27, 2015 at 1:24 am
Virgin nkote not marketable. I ‘ve no time to start teaching someone how to do it. Umuntu afwaikwa alishiba already how to vibrate. Be like @liyah who knows everything about bed issues.
Vampiro @ ONYX POWER
June 27, 2015 at 1:38 am
@liyah knows when to lift the legs vertically and when to put them horizontally backwards or forward. She knows how and when to produce sobing sounds and crys with ecstasy . Not Umuntu at I am 29 yet blank.
Ghetto
June 27, 2015 at 1:25 am
Virgin at 30 years old I am sure mwalimena nama fibros (ba tandabube) kikiki… you need to check your stomach before marrying some men.
Hildah Malama
June 27, 2015 at 5:24 am
@ Ghetto:
But Ghetto my dear you are very foolish, no wonder you have a disturbed home.May you continue wallowing in poverty you fool. you are possessed with one million demons you idiiot fuul. leave the young virgin lady alone.
may the virgin girl remain blessed.
Ghetto
June 27, 2015 at 1:41 pm
Chi Hildah waba ichilichina chama hule wechikote iwe. No wonder you are not married wechikote iwe akuchulafye kumushi waikala me am injoying. No wonder you can’t succeed. Virgin my a.s.s we fotini lyakatu musula obe swaine you are the one who is a demon kolyekombwa waba ichinyo ukufuta.
The spartacus
June 27, 2015 at 4:25 am
Too me u look possessed and a big fool yo mother is right..a beautiful woman with good morals could not have th audacity to advertise herself instead men would just be parading themselves for hand in marriage right at her door step. Women are being misled by these so called false prophets. Tamwaba abaume bamukamfwilwa umomwine mu church.. Hook one en stop complaining coz u ar almost reaching semi menopause..
Hildah Malama
June 27, 2015 at 5:26 am
The spartacus:
Mind your language you idiot fool and leave the young virgin lady alone.
Sparyacus: you are going to die before the end of next year.
The spartacus
June 27, 2015 at 4:36 am
@ am a virgin, i would rather marry a young,beautiful and educated girl who is not a virgin than this rotten shit.. Lyashi lyamuli chibuku ninshi namalaiti nayaya..
Hildah Malama
June 27, 2015 at 5:28 am
@ The spartacus:
Very possessed fool. Leave the young virgin lady alone.
The Commander
June 27, 2015 at 7:25 pm
@The spartacus, this girl is Hilda Malama herself. Just be sober in your language. i once visited her in wusakile and what she told me was sounding exactly as what most virgins would answer you. i was turned down so maybe you real men can win her love. She looks very beautiful and smart if approached
Man
June 27, 2015 at 4:38 am
I can Marry u if u hv stopped completely with ur ex luvs. Weather u r a virgin or nt
Hildah Malama
June 27, 2015 at 5:14 am
I speak blessings to you virgin girl and at the same time, i speak countless curses on you all bloggers who are speaking ill against this virgin lady. i say may the day when you were born remain cursed.
May the Sovereign Lord be with you young girl.
kakolwe
June 27, 2015 at 5:30 am
Cursed?? Cursed be the day?? Ba Hilda, the day I was born is actually your birthday too! Ha! It is the day your zygote was formed. In that day, a million other babies were born. How does God curse His own blessing? So apa answer ni “IT CAN’T” Therefore: Back to Sender!!!!
Ma issues
June 27, 2015 at 5:18 am
Ndise cabe vipuba.Sankhapo pa vipuba
kakolwe
June 27, 2015 at 5:20 am
Alakwena ama ‘pastors’ tukwete nomba masaaka sana. Instead of helping the woman to trust in Godly time he tells her to advertise her pooosy status in order to trap some gnat of a man? Lady (or is it Virgin?), Your stupid pastor just told you to get rid of God Almighty & go search for a man on your own. Yaweh is not geographically confined. He sees you where you are your needs. Epali ebo ukana tabakwata ama standards ufwaya & God has left you to your schemes? Take your trust back to God & trust in Him.
Hildah Malama
June 27, 2015 at 6:23 am
@ KAKOLWE.
just go to work you foolish fool. you depend on your wife nearly for everything including your toilet paper. Leave the young virgin girl alone.
May you be cursed Kakolwe.
kakolwe
June 27, 2015 at 8:34 am
@Hilda Malairia. Sweetheart, am already cursed with the curse of having to be conversing with you and reading your blogs.
ichintu2o11
June 27, 2015 at 11:51 am
Ba hildah are you are virgin? Wen did you loose it and which cursed idiot?
Beautiful Moma
June 27, 2015 at 6:26 am
Lol. Ba Tumfweko, there isn’t a single insult in my first comment. You are ‘moderating’ it because I called you liars. Ba swine, mwanya pela. How about that?
Morning @kakolwe.
kakolwe
June 27, 2015 at 8:21 am
Morning @Beautiful Moma. How is the Judge? Tired! Let him rest. I know what he went through all night long. Am glad he never had to reply to any advert to meet you.
Hello Haters
June 27, 2015 at 10:17 am
Kikikiki, kakolwe uli nami zeto, the judge didn’t show up last night, he was burning candles all night long at the his office with his secretary, you know a lot of upcoming nonsensical cases to courts he needs to study.
Beautiful Moma
June 27, 2015 at 10:49 am
Morning HH.
You guys are adding to my misery. I called him twice and he never picked up. I had a swollen ankle and couldn’t drive. I had to ask major chileshe for a lift, you can imagine. Am nursing a broken heart, alone
Hello Haters
June 27, 2015 at 11:19 am
Yaaaba!Moma Am very disappointed, my heart bleeds with sorrow, of all the people major hachileshe, that’s suicidal, how did you manage to escape from the jaws of that sexual path? People say a woman with a broken heart is also easy prey is it true?
period banda
June 27, 2015 at 5:31 am
foolish girl with no morals.
period banda
June 27, 2015 at 5:33 am
Go to hell.
monk
June 27, 2015 at 6:34 am
it is not virginity dat will atract men, but yo personality. b kind, friendly and caring. its nomo 4men 2 ask for sex but help dem mature in love without sex.
Beautiful Moma
June 27, 2015 at 6:50 am
You nailed it! Good advice.
Hello Haters
June 27, 2015 at 10:18 am
Morning Moma, everything ok?
The spartacus
June 27, 2015 at 6:57 am
@hilder malamba kikikiki u ar fun baby, yo ranting tells a millions.. Our sovereign God does not operate like tht, he is merciful who shines light, give food,air, water,shelter etc even to a cruel person like u who curses even her own birth day. We ar products of blessing baby. Gud day
Davies
June 27, 2015 at 7:07 am
Dear sister in christ. I salute you for keeping your virginity. May Jehovah God continue blessing you. It’s not easy. I want to encourage you to be prayerful bcoz your partner is nigh but require prayers so that you remain focused. Remember, God knows your hearts desire and he will surely grant you. Be blessed. We will pray with you. Amen.
KABASO
June 27, 2015 at 7:14 am
Thanks for keeping yourself. Many women have played so much that we only find a big hole in them ( you know what I mean), bigger even for a big bottle of castle. Please post your contact details (phone number), I will get in touch with you.
Focus
June 27, 2015 at 7:15 am
Virgin Mery, i think i know u. I also know your man friend. His not married, try to give him the attention his asking. He is a good man. He can marry u if u change your attitude. God bless u.
Shi Mwana
June 27, 2015 at 7:22 am
Virginity for sale! Here goes, how much baby?
young boss
June 27, 2015 at 7:39 am
aba kukushishe ichingeleshi nibani begin wabufi and nani wakweba anti niwe begin.
Pwanya nini
June 27, 2015 at 7:49 am
We are there just give us your contact number or the number for your agent. Ensure that your agent is male
pillar
June 27, 2015 at 7:52 am
congrats young lady,i was 23 when she broke my virginity and she was 21 when i broke her virginity.
may God almighty bless u
Chief of Grief
June 27, 2015 at 8:46 am
U thot u were smart ka?U thot a d!ck was of use in a womans life ka?So u tel me,whoz smiling with a big grin on his face?U’re ryt me!Tulamyeba ati utuma chicky uto tukamiletelela muchipichipi…..
Chief of Grief
June 27, 2015 at 8:50 am
Sex b4 mariage is now a cliché,y waste yo time lukin 4 Mr ryt,just luk 4 Mr left n drag the idiet to the ryt chapwa but non the les,i too wud lyk to deflower u,i promise i’l b gentle n wil maitain yo pace.
mutiz
June 27, 2015 at 9:27 am
pastors are fooling pipo sure,ati u wil find a man pa social networking,aweee
chikala
June 27, 2015 at 9:34 am
ulichipuba
kay
June 27, 2015 at 9:38 am
U say u have alot of men,now from all those u can’t identify one? Sure u are possesed.
mj banda
June 27, 2015 at 12:11 pm
Keep trying lady cos even in developed countries, they advertise themselves and why not pa Zed? Remember to advertise yourself isn’t PF’s issue but yourself.
panyo pa bemba
June 27, 2015 at 12:13 pm
mmmm aint this a demon mwebantu?
still thinking for a rotten coment………………………..
mcj
June 27, 2015 at 12:16 pm
Majory I hav understood want u hav cried u know sometimes ladies u ar to harshly in responding u may end up chasing yo angel the one to rescue in life u know want I mean mean marry u bcoz u said that alot of men approached u n you were rejecting them the only problem I see is that u were lacking the spirit of discern u could hav pick one out of those men( but it’s not to let )
Shaka Zulu
June 27, 2015 at 12:27 pm
After ba jama elyo baletubepa ati she is a virgin. Total nonsense.Your past is now haunting you.
Ghetto
June 27, 2015 at 2:03 pm
Awe shachine balijama aba. Now life yamupesha.
pastor chamunji
June 27, 2015 at 2:17 pm
My sister my advise is your step is good but you just need go back to your pastor so he or she can just deliver you then the light of God will begin to shine upon your life,right man will come through for u do not even advertise yourself,your are a blessing wait upon God.
Ba Lesa Ni ba Yahweh
June 27, 2015 at 2:36 pm
The world is in need of women like Hilda who are true virgins. She does not need deliverance. She kept herself pure and may the right man come to her.
Be Careful
June 27, 2015 at 2:37 pm
Please note that there is no Area or Township called Busakili in Zambia. This is a blue lie. If someone does not even know where they live do they even exist? If she existed she should have said: Wusakili in Kitwe on the Copperbelt not Busakili. This is should be a man trying to pull your legs. Be careful.
spy chief
June 27, 2015 at 2:41 pm
Economic hardship. Chiswick sobasakila monga tomatoes ku market. Bazakunyenga ba mambala usale ulila.
Ghetto
June 27, 2015 at 2:49 pm
Her name is Hildah na Aids ilemoneka pamenso mahule Yamuna colonyo aba Eli she is 47.
Uncle Malume
June 27, 2015 at 2:51 pm
I have noticed with great fascination how we people comment so much on such issues like the one the 29 year old has presented.
Respect yourself
June 27, 2015 at 3:27 pm
Nomwine this is not a date site.
Shaka Zulu
June 27, 2015 at 3:31 pm
Sex is the price women pay for marriage.Marriage is the price men pay for sex.
Chief of Grief
June 27, 2015 at 4:22 pm
Pwahahahahahahahahahahaha iwe @Shaka Zulu wantombaula imbafu chikala kikikikikikiest nice one…..
kakolwe
June 27, 2015 at 8:37 pm
In short: If you go for beauty of a woman, be ready to live with the rest of her!!
Jha ray
June 27, 2015 at 5:06 pm
Ba Tumfweko ,this virgin of yours is not Zambian. You have imported the story from olufamous.com a Nigerian website.
spy chief
June 27, 2015 at 5:12 pm
Shaka zulu Walasa boi. Ni nyele na Munyengo yamene ilengesa.
CHIEF-DC
June 27, 2015 at 6:18 pm
29 stl vign i lyk dat staf
ANDY
June 27, 2015 at 6:46 pm
Hahahaha this crazy stupid at my pastor told me my husband is on social network hahahahahha thiis so demonic pastors of nowadays balwele next time it’ll be ba pastor has impregnated her kaili she’s desperate the pastor will only ask her to have sex with her ,for her to get married