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Dear Readers; My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband
My sister is cheating on her husband. She brings the man to the house. My in law is not around, he works in another country(one month in, one month out). He is a nice person and has been taking care of my family and also his wife and their kids. He gives her money a lot and they travel out for vacations, but since this year, my sister has been dating a married man, brings him to the house and cooks for him. Neighbors are noticing. She no longer shows her hubby love. I am scared because if my in law and his family find out about her affair, he will definitely leave her and I don’ even know how our lives will become. How do I get her to stop?
Sent by a female reader
Posted by
Kabusha
July 23, 2015 at 9:08 am
It has become so common for ladies to do that in the absence of their husbands. One thing for sure is that what they should know is; open heavens is watching and that temporal happiness will be exposed soon. Get courage and tell your sister that what she is doing is absolutely wrong. She might pretend not to hear what you will tell her. But her conscious at the right time will speak to her and realize that, what you told her is right. My prayer is that she will not realize it when its too late.
FOXY LADY
July 23, 2015 at 9:10 am
rubbbisssssssssssssssssssssssssh!!
FOXY LADY
July 23, 2015 at 9:09 am
Nanga ni nini yanyoko?
Musiye mwine waké, You only live once!
Life is too short to blend in.
Czar
July 23, 2015 at 9:50 pm
Foolishness
Kape
July 23, 2015 at 9:15 am
if she knows what is good for jst tel her to stop those bad manners otherwise she is going to loose her marriage how can she behave like that when she is not lacking any thing awe mwandi tel yo mumy so that they can help before she looses her marriage and the people who are going to suffer are the kids. she is very stupid to do that and things are difficult and you have a caring husband and yet you are sturbing him at the by bring a married for that matter, so do you thing this same man can marry you and give you happiness? the answer is NO becoz is married ored. my advise to you is that were there warned there armed please change for good and keep your children and you respect you husband coz my he paid a bride price to show that he loves and respect you they are some women who get married and maybe even no bride price have been paid please ichindikeni before your hubby finds out nabobene bamukamwine ebushiku bakamika EPOMPELELE KULI IWE NA MUSONDA SUNG BY PK CHASHALA
Hello Haters
July 23, 2015 at 9:21 am
Kunda’s busakile stories i guess ? Try to keep bloggers busy.
J. CHiiiKALI!
July 23, 2015 at 10:20 am
The Sister inlaw is the one who is feeling it at the moment, being the one who Knowz the happenings!:—IoI, She iz in a “u Cant save 2 masters at a time kind of scene” she has to make a decision which will affect the sister or both, and if the couple breakup or forgive each other and coontinue their marriage she will neva be in good terms with the sister in question and evry 1 might turn against her for interfearing wit the sisters marriage, addvice sis, if u have anywhere u cn live, leave that house and get settled samwhere coz u will help yo bro inlaw at the expense of ending your sisters marriage!!!
charity tengeleko
July 23, 2015 at 10:44 am
if its true yo sister z a blood fool she will regret jst let her be kombwe wamunthu
club zero
July 23, 2015 at 11:41 am
Ni life,u think u are playing him nishi he playing u more.
Beautiful Moma
July 23, 2015 at 11:48 am
Ah, nice one line there. True.
Shaka Zulu
July 23, 2015 at 12:00 pm
Let your sister just continue with what she is doing.You are a fool to assume that your brother in law is abstaining from sex wherever he is working from. These are some of the consequences of capitalism.
Beautiful Moma
July 23, 2015 at 12:42 pm
He may not be abstaining but he hasn’t brought a mistress into his matrimonial home to deflower his bed neither has any woman cooked food for him in his house apart from the woman he is legally bound to. He has some respect for his marriage. There is nothing to enjoy for this woman unfortunately. She’ll soon lose both the husband and the casanova.
Shaka Zulu
July 23, 2015 at 12:06 pm
Let your sister enjoy herself.What do you expect when husband and wife living in different countries?
Shaka Zulu
July 23, 2015 at 12:12 pm
Why are you worried? Let your sister enjoy.
Beautiful Moma
July 23, 2015 at 12:14 pm
If a man can stray from his wife to a mistress, he can also stray from mistress to mistress. Your sister will lose her marriage to a responsible man who is out there slaving to feed her @ss while she is back here giving head to a casanova. Adultery is not the solution, she could have moved with him or requested him to find a job here for the sake of the love they share. Your sister could also be a gold digger , you can’t have an affair in a house provided for by husband and cooking food purchased using his money for a kalya unga who will dump her once the marriage is over and he has to pay at a lodge to have sex. She doesn’t love her husband at all. The bastard she is sexing is equally broke and all he has is a sorry d!ck to show for his life. If he had money or a little dignity, he would not step foot in that house. This soapie won’t end well but I can predict that your in law will win this one and live happily ever after.
“Do unto others as you would WANT them do to you.”
kakolwe
July 23, 2015 at 12:56 pm
Ahahahahaha! @Moma! Wemuntu wakwalesa, have mercy on my ribcage!! Surely? Ati uyu interloper’s capital bwambafye!!! Oh my god!! Alelema nenkondwa pabwali bwamwine ninshi capital contribution yakwe ill mu pant.
Anyway. This is “Posted by Kunda” Anything goes.
The solution for you lady is trail the d!ck shagging your sister to his home. Tell his wife all the details as rounchy as you can. Then call the wife as soon as he starts investing his capital into your sister, nokufumapo. By the time you come back, just help your sister to clean the house and douse her face ninshi nabamunyensha!! Promise never to tell your mulamu! Sorted!!
Beautiful Moma
July 23, 2015 at 1:08 pm
Capital ili mwitoloshi. He probably also gets money from this dull chick to go and feed his wife and kids. And how can one stoop so low sure? Umuntu wamupela ubwali bobe so that he can sexx you? Double loss. Ngamwapwisha, asambe namenshi yobe, na sopo yobe in a house you have provided?? Daamn this woman! In my view, the husband may not be perfect too but uyu chilende bakamulongeshe. Simple.
Kunda, anything goes for sure.
Zee
July 23, 2015 at 12:37 pm
Ama labishi …..in a bemba voice
Clue-Less
July 23, 2015 at 1:08 pm
Your sister is on the heat [hit] she cant wait …she’s tasted it now , NO looking back till she loses the marriage .
kasantana
July 23, 2015 at 1:12 pm
May be your in law tafikapo bwino bwino,it is a serious issue in marriage. Your sister is a loser anyway.
Shi Mwana
July 23, 2015 at 2:38 pm
Ingrate
true
July 23, 2015 at 4:14 pm
ilyashi lya bwamba kukosa
Kindness
July 23, 2015 at 4:19 pm
Before you put people in dilemma, please bring real situation. Bring true stories. In the real sense you cannot expose your sister like this if she is the one and you really love her. I am sure your family, church members and yourself can help your sister. Before you get advice from the media your in laws have seen how you hate your sister. Please publicize true stories and not fictitious stories.
kakolwe
July 23, 2015 at 9:48 pm
Iwee @Kindness, this is “Posted by Kunda”. Wabwesha na voice mu seriousness. Which part of Busakile haven’t you been to?
major chileshe
July 23, 2015 at 7:19 pm
Isa naine ndekulyapo kaili mulingane,cm I start dodaling u too,so u cn b even
chichi.
July 23, 2015 at 8:21 pm
that sister of yours is a big fool,honestly speakin she expect that stupid fool to marry her wen yo bro inlaw sends her away frm the matrimonial home.seek advise frm yo grandma or aunts,
besa
July 23, 2015 at 8:44 pm
if u truly luv ya sista, tel her 2 stop.Remember, God z watching her
New Educated Zambia©❤√
July 23, 2015 at 10:11 pm
This happens. The PF also cheated on the people that believed in them. The only way to solve this is for you to be honest with your brother in law and let him know. The same way we in the UPND have been honest in letting the people know that the pf is cheating them.
TIME WILL TELL
July 23, 2015 at 11:02 pm
You need to tell your sister the truth and the truth will put things straight…
Joss
July 24, 2015 at 8:58 am
Tell your sister how you feel about her relationship
dishwasher phiri
July 24, 2015 at 9:20 am
First- your sisters private life is none of your business
Second- you seem to be more concerned about the monetary support you and your family are receive than anything else
Third- go get an occupation and earn a living and quit trying to manage your sisters life.
Things have a way of coming out. Maybe your sister will be caught out. Maybe she will bring home an STI or HIV (if she hasn’t already). Maybe its a phase she will grow out of on her own.
Ndaka Boy
July 25, 2015 at 1:48 pm
Pliz Ba Tumfweko Get Th Story Kitwe Times About A Woman Who Was Given A Dildo By Th Hubby To Help Satisfy Herself. Atleast On This Forum Are Many Of Us To Comment.