Lusaka Hubby Finds Two Used Condom With Wife, Convinced She Was Having An Affair

A Lusaka man narrated in Lusaka’s Matero Local Court how he found two used condoms in his matrimonial bedroom after returning home from work.
Nicodemus Banda, 33, of Zingalume Township said when he confronted his wife Charity Tembo, 28, a fight ensued and she accused him of using the condoms with a prostitute.
Banda was narrating before senior local court magistrates Lewis Mumba and Pauline Newa in a case in which he sued Given Munamonga, 30, of Lusaka West for compensation for adultery.
Banda and Tembo have been married for 11 years and have three children together. Bride price was paid. However, Banda said Munamonga and Tembo have been having an affair for a year.
“After I discovered the used condoms, I stopped having sex with my wife because I was convinced she was having an affair. But that decision did seem to bother her at all. My suspicions about the other man came when she told me about a trip to the village to visit her relatives,” he said.
Banda said a few days after Tembo left, he called her parents only to discover that she was not in the village. A search on her whereabouts proved futile until some members of the neighbourhood tipped him on her whereabouts which was at a house in Lusaka West.
“I located the house and found her cooking in the presence of our children that she had carried along. She told me she was a married woman and that I should leave her alone. So I waited for Munamonga but he never showed up. I told Tembo that I will sue Munamonga for adultery,” he said.
He said Munamonga later called seeking to settle the issue out of court.
“I refused. I want him to pay me because he has ruined my marriage and has caused me a lot of misery,” he said.
But Munamonga, who admitted the charge, told the court that he had married Tembo and had even paid her bride price. He said Tembo had told him she was single when he proposed to her.
However, Tembo denied being married to Banda. She said their marriage had ended at the village and all that was left was for Banda to go and collect his bride price.
Tembo also admitted before the court of having sex with Munamonga.
Passing judgment, the court ordered Munamonga to pay Banda K15,000 as compensation for adultery with an initial instalment of K1,000 followed by K600 monthly instalments effective October month-end.

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24 Responses to Lusaka Hubby Finds Two Used Condom With Wife, Convinced She Was Having An Affair

Mulenga

September 13, 2015 at 12:43 pm

Sad story some of these women
- KABASO
  
  September 13, 2015 at 2:08 pm
  
  Many women in Zambia are just too bad (prostitutes). Marriages are not respected. It is even far better to stay alone than marry.
New Educated Zambia©❤√

September 13, 2015 at 12:49 pm

This is not surprising. Under the pf we have seen a situation where by our women have become desperate enough to sell their body and risk marriages due to tough economic times under the pf. Vote upnd and save your marriage
- kakolwe
  
  September 13, 2015 at 1:29 pm
  
  Iwe wemwaume. Ilyashi limo walekelako abena Chief of Grief and Tutu. Everybody knows what you are going to say about everything and anything even before you open your mouth. At least those men know how to bring our humour in such grim occurrences such that even the parties involved can laugh at it.
Yankee

September 13, 2015 at 1:06 pm

Your grandparents used to do prostitution even b4 PF came into power.Desperation just work extra in your 3 provinces tribal tag
Chief of Grief

September 13, 2015 at 1:19 pm

weh hule lyamupamba iwe!Am sure ma hafu washililepo yo husband ka?Iwe naiwe chi mudala chi mutoba mayanda chikala,u sayin ati u din knw that the harlot wasnt maried & has infantd is total horse shit!now that u knw send that ingrid packin bk kumushi!!Weh chipuba chamwaume iwe.Leave the breakin of houses to us who just shagg n on to the nxt phsycotic jezebel.
jazz

September 13, 2015 at 2:01 pm

just leav her, u ll find sum1 better and bueat than that hule, they ar many who ar luking 4 men. sh ll do the same to that guy also.
sandman

September 13, 2015 at 2:57 pm

Chipuba ichi mu guys zoona cha upnd obviously..
NEZ ANALYSER

September 13, 2015 at 3:20 pm

IWE NEZ ADULTERY HAZ OWEZ BIN DER.YO PRESIDENT HH HAZ 2 WIVES AND MANY CONCUBINES.Z IT DA PF DAT CAUSED HIM 2 DO DAT.
Denkete

September 13, 2015 at 3:36 pm

walasa kakolwe!!! nez is something else. Back to the story at hand. That woman is shameless. Ba Nichodemus Banda naimwe muleposako amaano mukutomba, otherwise bakulamibutuka ifyofine.
mj banda

September 13, 2015 at 3:36 pm

If HH wins the elections next year, how many first ladies are we going to have, cos Maureen is also counting herself in to re first lady again
- New Educated Zambia©❤√
  
  September 13, 2015 at 3:40 pm
  
  kiki banda this is a sign that there is panic in the PF camp. it is like they are searching for some dirt on HH but have failed to find any tangible negative issues. Stay strong and good luck in 2015 because as things stand, the PF are in trouble kiki
Candy

September 13, 2015 at 3:57 pm

Ths munamonga z Hakainde Hichipuba’s brtha,dey r o wif snachers.
mj banda

September 13, 2015 at 5:08 pm

My bro nez, I can ve a feel for HH to take over unlike Guyscot but am not panicking at cos am here to debate.
Kings s sakayi

September 13, 2015 at 6:24 pm

This Tempo of a woman should be Hildah Malama if it all she is a woman and The current dude is bro NEZ.These guys are two timers and confusers be careful with them.
amankolobwe

September 13, 2015 at 6:43 pm

Some women are evil how can she do that to her husband to the extend of shifting ku mpulumushi yakwe. Ba banda jst leave yo promiscuous wife and that k15000 is for what?
The redeemed

September 13, 2015 at 6:47 pm

Gender, women hav bn empoered even to marry two husbands . Moral decay ,the court did well .
Hello Haters

September 13, 2015 at 6:56 pm

@sandman what has UPND got to do with this article? Are we the ones who tell you cadres to leave your wives everyday destination airport dancing and ululating for the presidential challenger jet whenever it taking off or touch down? Bakulavwampula.
KABASO

September 13, 2015 at 7:01 pm

BETWEEN MONEY AND A WOMAN I WILL GO FOR MONEY. WOMEN ARE INCARNATION OF THE DEVIL.
ba guy

September 13, 2015 at 7:56 pm

@KABASO,not all women are like that,they are others who are truly humble and really faithful,but they are few.that’s why men should be careful when finding a woman to marry.be careful guy’s!.
Shaka Zulu

September 13, 2015 at 8:01 pm

I sincerely believe even beer is better than a woman.With beer you will relax but with a woman you will be sorry and panicking.
observer

September 13, 2015 at 8:52 pm

boring responses from nez
- New Educated Zambia©❤√
  
  September 13, 2015 at 9:09 pm
  
  Kiki te movie iyi. What entertainment. People are suffering how can u be after entertainment
observer

September 14, 2015 at 2:01 pm

too kambersome nothing new from nez,bring something new madala.