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Kitwe Man Leaves Jail, Finds Wife With Child
AFTER serving one year in jail, a Kitwe man returns home to find his wife has a baby with another man.
Chama Chisha told the Buchi Local Court that he wanted his three-year marriage dissolved based on his wife Bridget Chilengwe’s infidelity.
Chisha was narrating before Senior Magistrate Elizabeth Banda in a case in which he sued Chilengwe for divorce.
He told the court that the two got married in 2012 and have one child together. However, no bride price was paid.
Chisha said all was fine in their marriage until the time he was jailed.
“Before I went to jail, I left some money with my wife to start a business to help sustain her while I was serving my sentence,” he said.
Chama said while in jail, he started hearing rumours that his wife was having an affair with another man.
“After seven months, my wife stopped visiting me in jail and when I was released, I went home and discovered that she was married to another man and that they now have a child together. I cannot stay with a woman who has a child with another man,” he said.
But Chilengwe pleaded with the court to reconcile her with her husband because she still loves him.
“I am not married to the other man. We only started cohabiting after I got pregnant but he hasn’t paid bride price. I am still married to Chisha,” she said.
However, the court dismissed the case, saying there was no marriage between Chama and Chilengwe because no bride price was paid.
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Kingdom Values
November 9, 2015 at 8:18 am
Unfaithful woman, it just shows that even before getting married she was a problem.
Kamata
November 9, 2015 at 8:39 am
Women are weak
ackim sasu
November 9, 2015 at 8:53 am
This woman is a prostitute,only one year she could not keep her thing closed ,shame on her.
Goodz
November 9, 2015 at 11:46 am
Chipuba sana icanakashi jst find another one there so many fishes in the lake.
Denkete
November 9, 2015 at 8:24 pm
What a man is capable of doing, a woman can do it very smart. Guys mwebalelanda can one year elapse without marrying if your wife was jailed? Mwandi maayo walicitafye bwino. One year yonse iyo, teeti kuntweno kwaba ne ngalawa!!!!!!
Kingdom Values
November 9, 2015 at 11:55 am
This is what cost the life of Mrs Vivien Ilukena Banda BUHULE. Col Paul Pandala Banda discovered that one of his children is not actually his, and then he shot the wife dead. Women’s infidelity bring a lot of problems. Mrs Banda dead, her husband going to long term jail or hanging and one of the children has to start searching for his biological father.
ka junta
November 9, 2015 at 11:57 am
sori boi… bafikala ba tandiza malume
New Educated Zambia©❤√
November 9, 2015 at 12:11 pm
Infidelity,crimes; adultery. Name it all this has become the norm under pf. Zambians were known to be respectful law abiding citizens. Now since pf took over we have seen an increase in anti social activities. Very sad.
KABASO
November 12, 2015 at 5:57 am
ZAMBIAN WOMEN HAVE ALWAYS BEEN LIKE THAT SINCE K KAUNDA ERA. VERY UNFAITHFUL WOMEN!!!!!
The redeemed
November 9, 2015 at 12:39 pm
The court sure ! The law says if you stay with someone for three months it means you are married and now it says they were not married ,furthermore they are the same court who gave him the surmon why didnt the advise him ? Wrotten courts .
christabel
November 9, 2015 at 2:26 pm
Iwe watusebanya u can’t even pity yo husband he was in jail suffering may be he went to jail bcoz u told him to do what caused him go to jail.ifibanakashi fyalunkumbwe fi.be wise ifyupo fyalyafya what if he was jailed for ten years ngatebana sate.
IF NOT
November 9, 2015 at 3:58 pm
move on brother and find another woman to marry. Make sure you pay the bride price otherwise…………
twetwe
November 9, 2015 at 5:35 pm
At least there are lessons to be learnt here. Economic independence or empowerment can come in handy as these issues of cohabitating could be reduced. But others are just randy and will not sleep with out a prod on the vitals!!!!
spear ngozi
November 9, 2015 at 6:14 pm
Women or can i say human beings are the most difficulty creatures to please among all that God created,no matter what u can do to her,she can be telling u that u are the best husband and father but stil cheat on you.infact,her situation is better,her husband was in prison.Some of them cheat when their husbands are with them everyday,may God Help Us.
Kelvin
November 9, 2015 at 7:57 pm
Boi jst leave her she thinks her opening z so nice jst opening legs any how shame .she z a demon.
Kelvin Mwelwa Mutale
November 10, 2015 at 11:36 am
Kutumpa thts why PK Chisala aimbile ati cibinda wipaye inama kanga ulye fye filecitika abakashi kumushi taufishibe
FULLNESS OF TIME
November 10, 2015 at 1:01 pm
The bible says ” I find a woman to be more bitter than death .”
slim
November 10, 2015 at 1:04 pm
Expect that wen u go to jail banamayo hmmm
kwindi koswe
November 10, 2015 at 5:08 pm
This woman has no morals shame on her instead of being on the side of the man she was all over opening legs for other men.KUTUMPA
The great one
November 10, 2015 at 8:31 pm
Let God take full control in this situation.
mwana bulu muchende
November 10, 2015 at 8:50 pm
Imagine u preparing for an overnight one with you wife after missing it for a year only to find yourself in such a cituation!!? It’s had to comprehend, your own wife being boonked, boonked, by another ujeni? No my friend, tell her to zwaaaaa!!!!!.
mutombela kwipaya
November 11, 2015 at 9:14 am
If the complainant was the lady, the court was going to say you guys were married and thus we are divorcing you and you (man) should compensate the wife. We order you to pay her K3000 in fifteen installments.
Kutambafye
cakolwa
November 11, 2015 at 6:46 pm
no wonder I never trust a woman pantu abanakashi amano yanono no Wonder lesa asalile umwaume ukubangomutwe wang’anda.
M
November 11, 2015 at 7:09 pm
Just leave her.God will open you a new door for you.Human being we are full of disappointments.More rewards will be on you.Mucende uyo na mayo kale atapile ubusushi.
bigman
November 12, 2015 at 6:32 am
women ar problems i cant trust them anymore.my fiend u ar free bcoz thts wat the bible declares.