A WELDER from Lusaka’s Chazanga Township has told the Matero Local Court his wife forced him into having extra marital affairs by denying him his conjugal rights.
Felix Zulu, 26, told Senior Court Magistrates Lewis Mumba and Pauline Newa that lack of conjugal rights in his marriage led him to find a lover to teach his wife a lesson.
Felix was narrating in a case in which he had been sued for marriage reconciliation by his wife Jessica Zulu, 23.
“The other woman is just there to assist me sexually because my wife denies me sex. The only thing is that my girlfriend is excellent in bed. I even contemplated having a child out of wedlock to teach my wife a lesson because we can’t have children if we are not having sexual relations,” he said.
Felix complained that Jessica was also in the habit of spending time at her parents’ house.
“I provide for my family, there is always food in the house but I do not know why she is always trying to make me look bad before my in-laws and her family members,” he said.
However, Jessica complained that she was the one being sexually starved especially after her husband started having extra marital affairs.
“He comes to bed fully dressed arrest and when I complained, he abandoned our matrimonial bedroom and started sleeping in the living room. He doesn’t even get excited when I caress him,” she said.
The court reconciled the couple and advised them not to deny each other their conjugal rights.
Mula
November 30, 2015 at 8:51 am
If EC Lungu Can Deny Zambians A Better Life By Imposing A Bad Economy On Them, What Do You Expect From His Members? Nififine Ni Deny Deny Na Sex Batata. Bwafya. Vote For Upnd In 2016.
New Educated Zambia©❤√
November 30, 2015 at 9:06 am
Mula took the words out of my mouth. Indeed mune when there is a lack of communication in a relationship such is bound to happen. In the same vain the pf has not been listening to the people and still expect zambians to go to bed with them in 2016. They are in for a rude shock. Please pf be advised that my services are available for writing the exist speech for lungu. Contact me for prices
Shi Mwana
November 30, 2015 at 9:13 am
Mano ya buchende aya. Political prostitution included
Anthony Chisanga
November 30, 2015 at 11:27 am
Yes women should learn to keep their marriege they should not think that once she married she can any thing NO. the Bible says women should submit to their husaband and hus bands should love their wifes like their bodies.
Judge Joe Bidden
November 30, 2015 at 12:16 pm
Its my first time I read THE COURT RECONCILED THE COUPLE, was expecting granted divorce.
Ron M
November 30, 2015 at 12:39 pm
You are right ba Joe its the first time I’m hearing that the court RECONCILLED the couple. All the time similar cases end in th Judge granting divorce. Im surprised in a good way.
Goodz
November 30, 2015 at 12:58 pm
woman is a problem kuti ulekanya shani i cinyo
Shi Mwana
November 30, 2015 at 1:25 pm
True. The secret to a successful marriage is to keep his stomach full and his balls empty!
Pwii
November 30, 2015 at 1:35 pm
Ukutombana
endless end
November 30, 2015 at 2:01 pm
Ngalemeka kutomba na ba nankwe so that she lems a leson
Jamaican hasband
November 30, 2015 at 2:51 pm
First of all you knew your man is a manwhole elo wayaupwako wanya ukalafyala ngepanya. It’s a mistake to bring back your old enemie in your life now it has come for more competition next time let it go for good.
milmapeter
November 30, 2015 at 3:37 pm
ENDLESS walibuka sana teti wafwaya nowakukulwalika
jay
November 30, 2015 at 3:47 pm
the couple is just a mismatch in bed. they should find a way of aligning their sexual feelings to make it work. all is not lost.
mahule
November 30, 2015 at 3:58 pm
I was expecting the court to grant the divorce and a man to pay bcoz every time its in favour of the woman.
EVANGELIST
November 30, 2015 at 7:01 pm
Men marry 4 sex,but women marry care,protection & security,so woman give him gud sex 7 times a day and also man love yo wife.enjoi yo marriage.
NEZ The Tonga Idiot
November 30, 2015 at 7:25 pm
Shi Mwana chikala wanjipaya ku nseko. Ati ‘The secret to a successful marriage is to keep the man’s stomach full and his balls empty.’ In other words a wife has the duty to ensure that the man goes out of the home completely drained. He shouldn’t go out with any sperm in the sack. Lol!
The Eye
December 1, 2015 at 4:38 pm
I also agree with you the heart of a man is in stomach but
the two swinging items between his legs should always be empty.Otherwise the next door lady will be squeezing them for you mama.
Who doesn’t like the bedroom food..who?The answer is well known.
Good story we are so many in the same plate.Ladies beware of denying your man the bedroom food the hunger will send him to the next door then you ll be the first one to cry.
No marriage without both foods:dinning and bedroom then the rest will automatically fall in place
Shi Mwana
November 30, 2015 at 7:40 pm
NEZ the Tonga Idiot chikala it works perfectly
Jamaican husband
November 30, 2015 at 9:00 pm
Hahaha
DJ The-brave
December 1, 2015 at 12:12 am
u ar fun guys…! Hahahahaaa…!
The Eye
December 1, 2015 at 4:45 pm
The heart of a man is in stomach but
the two swinging items between his legs should always be empty.Otherwise the next door lady will be squeezing them for you mama.
Who doesn’t like the bedroom food..who?The answer is well known.
Good story we are so many in the same plate.Ladies beware of denying your man the bedroom food the hunger will send him out to the next door then you ll be the first one to cry.
No marriage without both foods:dinning and bedroom then the rest will automatically fall in place