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He Accuses Me Of Sleeping With My Step-Son – Wife Tells Lusaka Court
A LUSAKA housewife told the Lusaka Boma court that her husband of nine years has been accusing her of having sexual relations with her step-son.
Evelyn Phiri, 34, of Kamwala South township was narrating a case in which she sued Didima Sakala for divorce.
Phiri told Lusaka boma local court magistrates Miyanda Banda and Davies Mpundu that she got married to Sakala in 2006. She said they have two children together and bride price was paid. However, the couple has been on separation for four months.
“I was once married with two children but my husband died. When I got married to Sakala, I was his third wife and I found he had three children from his previous marriage; I took care of his children,” she said.
She said problems started eight months into their marriage when Sakala packed her clothes and took her back to her parents for no reason.
Phiri said Sakala also developed a habit of calling her a prostitute and accusing her of having sexual relations with his son.
“After this allegation, I left our matrimonial home because he was being disrespectful. Before that, he abandoned me at my parents’ home and married another woman whom he also deserted six months later. He then started begging me for reconciliation and apologised for what he did,” she said.
Phiri told the court that seven months after reconciling, he chased her again and married a fifth wife with whom he had another child.
“He chased his fifth wife and came back with his uncle to beg for forgiveness. We reconciled again and I went back to being a mother to his children while mine remained with my parents. He does not even want me to visit my children or allow them to visit me at my matrimonial home,” she said.
But Sakala in his statement denied the allegations and insisted that Phiri was having a sexual relationship with his son.
Passing judgment, the court granted the couple divorce and ordered Sakala to pay Phiri K10,000 as compensation with an initial instalment of K1,000 followed by K300 monthly instalments.
Sakala was also ordered to pay K400 as child maintenance.
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on December 15, 2015. Filed under WEIRD.
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Denkete
December 15, 2015 at 3:53 am
Sakala litoole!!!!!! Abanakashi bafulisha, that’s contamination.
christopher jim
December 15, 2015 at 6:34 am
a sakala niba kaleya,he is stupid father who can even b jerlous of his own son.bt the problem wth u women u wil continue 2 render sexual services dspite being on dvolse
dude
December 16, 2015 at 5:44 pm
my friend. i know that spelling is hard but the words “jelous” and “divorce” are not that hard to spell.
New Educated Zambia©❤√
December 15, 2015 at 6:49 am
What do you expect from the citizens when the pf lacks in morals and have been lying to zambians. Now they give you a piecemeal constitution with only clauses they feel comfortable with and yet they promised a people driven constitution. Morals will only return when a party of substance like upnd wins in 2016
Chali Chilufya
December 15, 2015 at 2:52 pm
I think you are not normal what has this got to do with PF
Bigmoze
December 15, 2015 at 8:52 am
Azelu akumaba
KILLA D
December 15, 2015 at 8:54 am
@NEZ..indeed things wil only to normal wen we form government nxt year..this women sounds shallow kuti bala mu bang’a
Lamba boy
December 15, 2015 at 9:20 am
@ killa D & NEZ it is indeed true guy thing will be normal wen u form gvt next year coz u will make sure that u marry every one en control homes!
jamoka
December 15, 2015 at 10:52 am
this names of Sakala, phiri, banda they just fight only for Munzopiki all the time, nothing els.
Lima
December 15, 2015 at 10:57 am
Nokupa abaice bafikala bakulaminyengela kubana
aunt k
December 15, 2015 at 11:02 am
sakala you ar a carsenover&theres 2 much jealous in u stp acusing that woman,alow her 2 hav peace,i we (new educated zambia) y ar u bringing politics here?you ar out of the topic’
Neutral observer
December 15, 2015 at 12:01 pm
…Copper belt has a population of more than
1,500,000
the 4,000 miners who were retrenched together with their dependants are probably less than 12,000.Out of this number maybe only 460 are registered voters,out of the registered ones mabe only 210 will vote.This has no impact at all to sway the many other voters to turn against pf.This miners are being given land for free,out of the 210 voters 201 are happy with this land gesture.out of the remaining 9 others believe that all the problems they are passing through were as a result of privatisation which was perpetrated by HH and chiluba.others see the 2015 voting pattern of s province as being tribal and have vowed to do the same also this time.My final views are that cbelt will still fall for pf with a higher magine than the 2015 one
True
December 15, 2015 at 12:55 pm
If u hear names such as Banda, Sakala Phiri, are always suspicious of unknown. They like Musungu anikonde life. You mingle with them at your own risk.
christabel
December 15, 2015 at 9:30 pm
Abena cipata balikwata ubwafye every time ni court stop being ignorant .ulecita ubufuba nakumwana obe so umwana alicula sana.
dude
December 16, 2015 at 5:45 pm
my friend. i know that spelling is hard but the words “jelous” and “divorce” are not that hard to spell.