4 Ways to Deal with People Who Hate You

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By Mubita C. Nawa
There are people who love you and those who don’t. Here is a simple recipe on how to deal with those who may dislike you.
1- Forgive them for they probably don’t know what they are doing.
2- Defeat them with more success. It’s really not you they dislike. It’s your results.
3- Never respond to them directly. Silence is so painful to shallow people.
4. Use them. Use them to advertise you. Their talking about you is helping you grow, mature and humble yourself. Most of all learn from them.

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9 Responses to "4 Ways to Deal with People Who Hate You"

  1. Hello Haters   February 18, 2016 at 6:40 am

    That’s right pf cadres hate for UPND has really help us grow country wide, we appreciate for this not paid for advertisement, even when deadNBC has completely blacked out UPND it always finds it’s way on top stories through the pf vuvuzelas who always rush to deadNBC.

    Thanks guys for your unsolicited support.

  2. Kapps   February 18, 2016 at 10:14 am

    Continue cheating yourself HH.

  3. mailon   February 18, 2016 at 1:57 pm

    Ba Mubita naimwe
    You are now hallucinating.Just pay back your debts to the pipo you owe.You came from America and tried to convince us that you had secrets of how to help pipo succeed.Now your tuma ideas have failed to work,you owe pipo and you are now imagining or hallucinating that the pipo you owe and those that are disappointed in you hate you.Grow up.

    • Kazizi kazizi   February 20, 2016 at 3:13 pm

      You are finished nawa and a failure, who are you trying to teach? Its shows you have nothing to do now, jst shut up.

  4. daddyk   February 18, 2016 at 7:43 pm

    Thanks for the advise lately my mother in law has been a pain in my butt.keep them wise words coming they really turn me on

  5. kanchine   February 18, 2016 at 9:47 pm

    Kikikikikiki, mubita so you owe people and u are trying to sound innocente on tumfweko, lets hope u too u are not boast that u are rich after using dubious means cause upnd is too much in that, get a life man.

    • Sir George   February 20, 2016 at 5:41 am

      @nkachine.Why are you pf cadres this shallow in mind,why do you assume Mubita is upnd? Get wise you tribalists.

  6. girl   February 19, 2016 at 10:16 am

    innocente ka????? kikikikiki…………..lol

  7. Leadership is a serious matter   February 20, 2016 at 6:22 pm

    The words are full of wisdom.
    Mubita owing people does nother take the wisdom away from what he has written.
    The other bloggers reminds one of those who mocked Jesus Christ while he was on the cross.
    If Mubita should not cough because he owes people money why should Zambia which owes so much to both its local suppliers and the rest of the world?
    If you are owed by Mubita surely this is a private matter between you. Yes he came from USA with ideas but you were so jealousy you made sure you PHDed him. He loves the Lord and the Lord will do a Numbers 6:24-26 on Mubita. Which genuine small business is not struggling except those who are enjoying our taxpayers money?