I have been stuck in an extramarital affair with a married man since 15 long years. I am a married woman myself with two kids. He was my colleague and the relationship started with friendship and slowly turned romantic. Things went well for the first couple of years, later we became business partners, which made it easier for us to be together during the day and live as husband-wife. Slowly, the attraction and love deteriorated when he started controlling me and turned abusive. He is too emotional, moody, sensitive and has a bloated ego and when things go wrong, he threatens to tell my husband about our relationship. He gets extremely angry and abusive. He doesn’t want to end the relationship or adjust to the circumstances. He thinks that I need to notify him of every single action of mine. I feel trapped and don’t know how to get out of this.
From a female reader