I’m 52 And A Happy Virgin!

I’m 52 And A Happy Virgin!

THEMBISILE Ntaka is 52 years old and a proud virgin.

“Even at my age, I still go to Umkhosi woMhlanga,” said Thembisile at a social cohesion dialogue about virginity. It was organised by eThekwini Municipality at Moses Mabhida Stadium in Durban on Tuesday night.

“I began this journey when I was 14 years old. I get a lot of people criticising me for being a virgin and not having children. Some even tell me I will die a lonely woman. But that does not make me want to change my life.”

The South African soxial worker said she has never slept with a man or even kissed one. She said she is one of the most respected women in Botha’s Hill.

Thembisile encouraged young women to stay virgins.

“I’m the lastborn at home. My eight siblings got married and left me with my brother’s two children.”

She said when she was young she heard her brothers’ friends saying bad things about the girls they’d had sex with.

“I decided then I didn’t want to be one of those girls,” she said. She said each time there is virginity testing in her area, she is always the first one in line.

“I don’t care if I die without children or a husband. I’m happy with my life and so is my family.”

During the conference, where virgins and virginity testers discussed the importance of purity, tester Zanele Shezi-Sishi said it’s important for women to look after themselves.

“Staying a virgin helps to avoid infections and disease.” Head of recreation at eThekwini Municipality, Thembinkosi Ngcobo, said they chose the topic because too many girls fall pregnant at an early age.

9 Responses to "I’m 52 And A Happy Virgin!"

  1. Economic hitman   May 18, 2017 at 11:54 pm

    But you look exactly like the one I was with last night!

  2. Jb   May 19, 2017 at 5:57 am

    She is not normal

  3. Dota   May 19, 2017 at 8:21 am

    She is very normal, she was just instilled with discipline at a young age. Mwebaiche banomba tamumfwa. Most of our parents and grandparents were married off as virgins. Even me am 40 and still a virgin. Sex is in the mind.

  4. Kelly Nswana   May 19, 2017 at 10:05 am

    But from the spiritual point of view this woman could be married to some spirit which makes her hate some men or not wanted to go into some relationship. At 52 years surely she should have gotten the desire to have some companion. Late her seek some deliverance and see if she is really alone.


  5. Ndapapa   May 19, 2017 at 11:32 am

    The desire can be there to have a companion, but if men are not approaching you, you wait. In our culture, its men who set the ball going.

  6. chibuye   May 19, 2017 at 12:11 pm

    Mmmmmmm ndeloleshafye……

  7. Shi mwana   May 19, 2017 at 12:22 pm

    This lady does not know what she is missing ooooh

  8. Stone crush   May 22, 2017 at 9:38 am

    It’s very good l admire your thought if it’s true

  9. howie   May 22, 2017 at 11:47 am

    She’s just a nun, that’s it. If she has not had an orgasm yet then…..wow!!! Just because her brothers friends told her that girls that have sex are …. Gotta feel sorry for her!!