Question: I am a working woman and have a 12-year-old daughter. I am fed up with my husband because he is a serial cheater. Two years back, I caught him red handed having an affair with his colleague. When I confronted them, they assured me that they will put an end to this relationship and everything became normal between us.
After six months, I found that he is having another affair with a former colleague. Again, I had a word with both and even contacted the husband of this woman. But after four months, I got to know that they (my husband and the other woman) are still in a relationship and in fact, it has grown stronger. I was recently going through his phone and got another shock. He has broken up with his last partner and is now having an affair with someone else.
I really want to divorce him but the only thing stopping me from taking this step is our daughter. I don’t want her to suffer. What should I do?
– By Anonymous
He doesn’t love you just leave him because the same child you re worried about will suffer when you get sick. God will take care of you and your and not that cheater.
He aint worth it…your daughter will get married and leave u miserable with that prick. Worry about your health and happiness for now.
Hope you will find a man who will not cheat. By the way, there are very few men that do not cheat. Men are naturally polygamous, although your husband seems to be extreme
Who told you that you will have a husband all to yourself. Mistaken woman. If man has failled to love God who provides everything, who are you to demand that love. After all your might not have been a virgin at the time you were getting married. To tell you the truth, your next husband will be worse. Try to follow these things:
1. Stop checking his phone
2. Stop discussing your husband with other ladies
3. Wait untill he is 65 years of age, he will minimize.
4. Give him the best respect
5. Pretend you trust him
6. Do not play the same game
7. Stay away from the so called pastors
If i can guess, your husband is a very quiet man who does not talk. There are things he has heard about you and those things have affected him to the point he finds to be cold in bed. Serious issues mama.