Question: I am originally from India but Zambian by law and live in Lusaka. I had an arranged marriage in August last year. Everything looked good until we went for our honeymoon. On the very first day of our trip, I discovered that my husband shares our sex life with his friends. In fact, he has a huge friend circle and he brags about our sex life.
He even shares every minute detail about it and I am obviously not comfortable with it. Is not this an immature attitude? I tried talking to him but he scolded me for not being liberal. He even asked me to mind my own business.
Whether it is his all-boys Whatsapp group, or female friends, he still discusses our personal things with them. I am very irritated with his irresponsible behaviour and talking to him is not helping out. Is there any solution to this problem?
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Not fit for marriage
If there are any Elders who you can confide in so that they could speak to him then the better ,otherwise Bedroom issues are not supposed to be publicized. I feel sorry for a mature person like you.
For sure I feel sorry for you. Try talking to elders for advice and he should be counseled.