My Husband Discusses Our Sex Life With His Friends

My Husband Discusses Our Sex Life With His Friends

Question: I am originally from India  but Zambian by law and live in Lusaka. I had an arranged marriage in August last  year. Everything looked good until we went for our honeymoon. On the very first day of our trip, I discovered that my husband shares our sex life with his friends. In fact, he has a huge friend circle and he brags about our sex life.

He even shares every minute detail about it and I am obviously not comfortable with it. Is not this an immature attitude? I tried talking to him but he scolded me for not being liberal. He even asked me to mind my own business.
Whether it is his all-boys Whatsapp group, or female friends, he still discusses our personal things with them. I am very irritated with his irresponsible behaviour and talking to him is not helping out. Is there any solution to this problem?

– By Anonymous

3 Responses to "My Husband Discusses Our Sex Life With His Friends"

  1. Kweshako   January 4, 2018 at 8:12 am

    Not fit for marriage

  2. ACS   January 4, 2018 at 11:02 am

    If there are any Elders who you can confide in so that they could speak to him then the better ,otherwise Bedroom issues are not supposed to be publicized. I feel sorry for a mature person like you.

  3. RM   January 4, 2018 at 1:07 pm

    For sure I feel sorry for you. Try talking to elders for advice and he should be counseled.