Question: I am a 33-year old IT professional with a promising career. A few months back I met my boss’ wife at an office dinner and was surprised to discover that she was my classmate in college and I had a crush on her.

We had exchanged numbers and started keeping in touch through phone calls and social media. After a while, she confessed that she wasn’t happy with her husband because he is much older than her and does not have a satisfying physical relationship.

Gradually we grew very close and shared some intimate moments. It has been four months and I am completely at a loss because this might leave my professional and personal life in a mess. Please tell me what should I do?

-By anonymous