I have been married for nine years and have a three-year-old daughter and seven-months-old son. I dated my wife for a year before tying the knot and now feel that I took the decision without spending much time with her.
I am dating my office colleague since a year and we both love each other. She is married but does not have kids. My wife caught us once and I promised I would end my affair. In reality, I was never able to break up with her. We both want to live together and the only thing that is stopping me from taking divorce is my kids. I cannot imagine living separately from them. I will lose them as well if I leave my wife. What should I do? Continue in this loveless marriage so that I can be with my kids every day or take a divorce and marry the woman I love? – By Anonymous
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Dear Brother,
I have never been in that situation before though I am married for 10 yrs now. Are you telling me you never loved your wife from the beginning? if so, why did you go ahead and marry her ? secondly, the relationship you have with this married women is wicked because if she can cheat her husband with you then I am sure she will cheat you again in the future. she is married and you want to take her away from her husband imagine if this was you how would you feel…..I think you are just been selfish and living a sinful life please amend your ways before you end up in hell. your children are too young to bear the trauma….Romans 13:10
Leave that second lover love your wife and kids.