I am Zambian of Indian origin. I have been married for the past 5 years. Everything seems alright except the fact that my mother and wife fight a lot. Since we are a joint family, we all live under the same roof. The reasons behind their fight can be as simple as deciding the menu to serious issues like savings. I have told them innumerable times to sort out the differences in an amicable way but they never seem to listen. I am under a lot of stress because I love both equally and their fights care a cause of great stress. What should I do to make them understand?-By Anonymous
Should have regular meetings with them. Talk to your wife and mum separetly before and those are part of input for discussion. Use great wisdom. It is very difficult but not impossible. I have experienced it before