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Why Women Think About Sex More Often
Men talk and think a lot about sex while women desire it more often. We explore the reasons…
‘Men think, while women desire.’ Gone are the days when ‘demanding sex’ was considered exclusively a man’s forte. Today women demand sex greater than men. And they have no qualms about getting vocal about it. “I read these funny E-mail forwards that stress on men begging for sex and women denying it. It sounds so funny to me. It’s totally the opposite in my case. While men can have a good laugh over it believing that this notion exists, I literally have to seduce my husband to get him hooked on to the act,” quips production assistant Megha Mehra. And she is not alone. Many girls/women had a similar story.
We spoke to women from different backgrounds to figure out what is making them addicted to sex.
It’s physically pleasurable
Amongst all the other reasons to remain glued to sex, this is the most prominent one. Good sex satisfies your physical urge, which is very normal for anyone to experience. Psychologist Seema Naina opines, “Sex is the most basic need of any person. And I am increasingly getting cases where women are complaining that men are unable to satisfy their physical needs.”
Creates positive feelings about oneself
Ideally, great sex means you are enjoying the sexual act and participating equally. It makes you feel good about yourself, thus adding to your self esteem. Shares housewife Neelam Nehra, “When my husband comes back from a whole day at work and we have our sack session, it increases my self esteem. The very feeling that I am able to satisfy him is a great pleasure. And since I never want to go out of shape to look unappealing to my husband (and other men), it even acts as a motivation to work out and feel desirable.” Wondering why?
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GUN
April 15, 2012 at 11:33 am
Why is it all about men failing to satisfy their women?and if they fail they are not men enough,how can you surely satisfy un overused lady who has had encounters with different men with different sizes of ugly penises? Ladies if you are not satisfied by your man then wali icilihule.
leon
April 15, 2012 at 11:48 am
TRUE THE WORD PROSTITUTE,IF YOUR WOMAN SAYS YOU DO NOT SATISFY HER SEXUALY,INVESTIGATE HER,SHE MIGHT HAVE A NATIONAL TEAM EQIVALET NUMBER OF BOY OR MAN FRIENDS,MY ADVICE,JUST THROW HER OUT BEFORE SHE TRANSFERS ALL ELEVEN DIFFERENT STDS TO YOU
Suchi'007
April 15, 2012 at 11:48 am
It seems 2 me dat women tend 2 enjoy sex dan anytin else in dis world but why chiliso? Sex chipuba
Phiri
April 15, 2012 at 12:13 pm
Housewifes are the waste when it comes to sex they are full of complaints. Single women they do it in order to get something from the man. They perform better and pretend she is enjoying sex with you and yet not. All she thinks about is how much money you will give her or are you weath showing to her friends, what car are you driving. Salon and cloths its what women enjoy having sex with otherwise they are so useless in bed with a man. No wonder nowdays men are loosing interest in having sex with women better a bottle of whisky and chat with friends at a bar.
Hmhm
April 15, 2012 at 12:22 pm
good ‘prophesy’ bishop Gun! tel them even more
[email protected]
April 15, 2012 at 12:23 pm
Any single girl pls email me with da email below im lukn 4 a ka single girl
BA KAONDE
April 15, 2012 at 12:38 pm
Yes women desire it more than we do.it depends on how your winky is and give her your best shot bonking her
GUN
April 15, 2012 at 12:45 pm
@Hmhm..,Malume muletekanya! Anyway bachilamo limbi kalewambile especialy from the back ule vibrator fye and held prisoner never allowed to withdraw,when you are feeling like you are not actualy in.Umo akafwa guys.
KC
April 15, 2012 at 12:48 pm
@GUN, gud analysis, u got my backing. Sex is a psycological game n’ both man n’ woman shud mentor themselves in terms of satisfaction bcs there is no genius in sex but some people hv sex demons hence oways want a evil **** which a hubby cant offer hence they end up in adultery hence leading 2 a lot of ladies sleeping wth young boys, garden boys, their nephews etc No wonder ma divorces yapaka nama GBV cases. Like a story i read in de print media tht some guy went home 4rm work n’ only 2 find his wife in action wth another man n’ it ended up as a GBV case. GOD help us.
Youngest DJ
April 15, 2012 at 1:08 pm
Sex sex sex sex, ubuchende.
Umupasamputi
April 15, 2012 at 2:10 pm
Girls may be desiring too much of sex and if they are not satisfied call me on 0973778860.I’ll girl u a good hard one kukulasa.With ma double size pipe.Just 1 round for me 2 shoot.
Chambaila
April 15, 2012 at 2:28 pm
I like f**king, cant wait 4my new girl 2widen up legs or is it liftng.
Miss Phiri
April 15, 2012 at 2:40 pm
This article is just a fake. The headline or headLIE promises to answer why women think about sex more often but the story answers nothing. The women in the story are imagined. If not why not talk to Zambian women since tumfweko’s target market is Zambia. This is just a story you Dreamt up because you want some hits
Mosquito
April 15, 2012 at 2:53 pm
@ Leon kikikikiki u hav made my day and I totally agree with, any woman or lady who speaks out to say tekwite ninshi awe she has a wagon of those who satisfy her more than u. Watch out guys!!! Leon has a point.
Mr wise
April 15, 2012 at 2:58 pm
KC and GUN….U are very right and if u have followed my posts on women’s infidelity i always get insulted heavily .The reason for that is because these ladies who insults us are very guilty of cheating such that they fail to hold it but end up insulting.So pls continue telling them, some are getting sense while some resists and even justify cheating that its on a rise and on sex sastification no man will ever sastify a prostitute to them its duty, but if a wife says am not getting full at home just trace her roots.
tin tin
April 15, 2012 at 3:03 pm
Only men respnded to this . It shows you all have a complex of some sort for you to think that if a woman tells you to try and be better in bed it means she has a chain of men. It goes to show that you requir a woman to be silent even if all you know is nothing in the art of sex .
manda
April 15, 2012 at 3:09 pm
any woman who is never satisfied here? give me a ka email and you can get my circumcised machine if you are good at it and beautiful.. im encouraging kaondes, Easterners, illa’s/soli and lozi to send me ka email on [email protected]
Secret
April 15, 2012 at 3:29 pm
The secret is communication.
It doesnt mean that when ur gal tells u to satisfy her then she is a prostitute or was.
Just talk and learn how and where she feels more sexually active.Some of u guys just know how to remove ur knob and insert then ejaculate and expect ur partner to be satisfied.Learn the art of sex;let ur partner orgasm,its not all about dick sex …Damn!!!!!
Mk
April 15, 2012 at 5:42 pm
ba guy,
nowønder we ar advised 2 go 4 a lady @least 4 yearz blow our age.,
period!
kekeke
April 15, 2012 at 5:44 pm
MEN MEN MEN…sex is not every thing. There is Romance…Before each and every session. Remember ROMANCE
BM
April 15, 2012 at 5:51 pm
My girl is 4yrs older thn me bt i make her shout in tongues.
Ka Luvale
April 15, 2012 at 6:11 pm
If u are a lady who demands sex too much,meet me kaluvale i wl show u hw to do it and u shal never demand it anymo instead sleeping al day. Send your request or a msg on my facebook page that is Kabompo topstories.
Spermatozoa
April 15, 2012 at 6:38 pm
ma sperm!
mwebelepo
April 15, 2012 at 8:08 pm
GUN or whatever you call yourself, you have fired a blank. you can only call a woman who wants more sex or more pleasure hule if you have a ka cigarrate sized mulfunctional penis that has never satisfied anything, including yourself. We women have learnt to open up because of exposure and good education you fool. its a mans matrimonial duty, just like its a womans matrimonial duty to sastisfy their spouse. Its only a lazy man like yourself and a few weaklings who want to think they are smart. go and see a doctor or your elders for advice on how best you can satisfy a hungry woman, the same way we are also taught how to satisfy our men. Atase iwe!
Chax
April 15, 2012 at 8:09 pm
@MK, age
has nothing
to do with
the size of
a gal’s pussy.
Nowadays,
some of these
chaps have
pussies like that
of a cow coz
theyve been
exposed to
diffferent dicks.
Eliud Nawa
April 15, 2012 at 8:25 pm
Ki butata shaa.
fisher
April 15, 2012 at 8:30 pm
@mwebelepo, hahaha! i lyk yo words
Dobo
April 15, 2012 at 8:33 pm
Gentlemen @mwebelpo is so ryt,u chaps dnt knw a thng bout sex.its an art.no mata wat size ur kama item is u cn stil make ha crazy if u uze the ryt techniques n positions.not ati kula tungafye.abengi u dnt knw how 2 use ur 2ma pipes hence no results.its about 2 pipo so ask ur partna wat she feels n ul enjoy both of u.
oxmos
April 15, 2012 at 8:41 pm
TO SATISFY A WOMAN ISNT EASY GUYS,MEN USUALLY JUST PUTING A PENIS IN A VAGINA AND YOU THINK SHE IS ENJOYING NO!…YOU NEED TO PREPARE A WOMAN PSYCHOLOGICALLY AND PUT HER IN A MOOD,BEFORE YOU EJACULATE LET HER AGREE TO YOUR WIGING THAT ITS NOW TIME YOU GIVE HER THE HEADS OF SPERMS….USE MORE POSITIONS THAN ONLY ONE BECAUSE OF THERE BIOLOGICAL MAKEUP 360 DEGREES…..
condom
April 15, 2012 at 8:42 pm
women complain about small diks. What do they say about big vaginas?
mango chisha
April 15, 2012 at 8:47 pm
Dodo you lack knowledge of the anatomy of the vagina. Anyway, lets respect where we came from. what you talking about borders on insulting all women regardless. Amen
john m
April 15, 2012 at 9:48 pm
satisfactioñ does nt com easy jst lyk da were sperms are,wit woman jst simply folo da sex prosiger.
GUN
April 15, 2012 at 10:57 pm
@Mwebelepo, i know what am talking about because ive f.cked ladies who complained of my sturbon dick and ive f.cked some like you who go to wipe every after a round in the bathroom.Just stop blaming men sweetheart you are overused.
GUN
April 15, 2012 at 11:21 pm
WARNING: HIV/AIDS HAS NO CURE YET.
Wanu Ngwee
April 15, 2012 at 11:26 pm
What a difficult topic! While no man likes a lady that shows too much experience we nonetheless want them to “handle” us nicely in bed. So how does a woman strike the balance without looking like SHE’S BEEN AROUND? But also, what makes us think we’re more deserving of satisfaction than women? Whatever you say, it’s important to acknowledge as men that making love is HARD WORK! That’s why I say this subject is a difficult one.
Mkolokolo
April 16, 2012 at 12:06 am
And just like that, the women have chickened out….
sheddy
April 16, 2012 at 1:24 am
hehe, more drama people, more drama!
USB CABLE
April 16, 2012 at 2:06 am
Like
this! When your friends are on a 20 day fast, you take pleasure in talking about
private parts?? When one Prophesies and you jump out and condemn! Seeeee ,seek ye first the kingdom of God…
Gaddafi
April 16, 2012 at 5:35 am
On average every statement is right…
Ranging frm pussy/dick sizes.. demand & xperience.
Ultimately communication is vital… Sex was mearnt for all the parties involved to get satsfyd (man & woman).
We take it like u’re each others doctor when in bed. Each one has to be stating where it feels good for him/her .. other than jus complainin in the end for instance. The doctor will give you the rit medicine if only he understands yo complaint & need . For ladies.. i urge u to be tellin your partna’s whr u get mo sensation so that u’re strocked often frm there…..believe me ,one day u’ll get to climax .
Mubita Namatama
April 16, 2012 at 6:33 am
Help me on dis one people,am i right if i say tht all de comments tht hs bin posted on dis subject are frm MEN ONLY?
muntalamisoko
April 16, 2012 at 7:21 am
sex is a baby 2 take care of wheather long pipes or big holes u ev 2 wrk on it b4 u dig mentaly and pschycologically prepared or else it bcums lyk rape wen 1 is not enjoying mubombelepo or else niggas and b*tches u ur rapists
RYX
April 16, 2012 at 8:25 am
Ya, women love and enjoy the game.
Geofsrice
April 16, 2012 at 8:35 am
som of us we hav leant sex as a caurse during my first BBA nd i wil tel u dat if a woman is a prostitute time is gone 4 u 2 satisfy her, these a ladies whose vagina is open b4 insetng your penis, it is even wistlering, u try the 360 may be charting wel doing it even legs on your showders it wil nt work. it is just lik havng a bath in a dram with a backat of water poled in… this goz 2 ladies nd girls keep yours 4 chikwati others guyz wil com put their thing nd leav u nd they ll be the 1z sayng u are a hole….
Josef P
April 16, 2012 at 8:50 am
Even a finger or cigarette like penis can be more satisfying some times even more than the biggest you can ever think of.The trick is putting into the mood and entering her at the right time. Women themselves masturbate using finegrs ,candles, pins, bananas etc to derive pleasure for themselves and they succeed in getting it fully despite that the feeeling of it being unreal still exists. Ask most widows and singles.
sex
April 16, 2012 at 8:56 am
Women like big diks and for a long time of riding,if yours is small and do it within 1 minute,am sorry she cant call you a man!!
Zambian in Malawi
April 16, 2012 at 9:11 am
@BM, ya crazy men! kkkkkkkkkkkk!Thats exactly why ma gal doesnt want to lose me! I make her scream like a two year old! SEX is massive! Kkkkkkk!
Kaya
April 16, 2012 at 9:19 am
Man just marry your fellow man and you women do the same,please.Why blame the man.
Kaya
April 16, 2012 at 9:25 am
Men just marry your fellow men and you women do the same,please.Why blame the man.After all it is the women who cry foul because they love to be facked by a man,later on pretend to have been raped.
Zubligo
April 16, 2012 at 9:56 am
i am a 35 year old woman who has had many boyfriends in the past and yet today i think i am one of the few women who enjoy sexs to the fullest. we have sex everyday and everyday feels like a new experience. My pussy is still so so tight and very sweet
X.fella$$
April 16, 2012 at 10:05 am
Women claim more sexual preasure becoz us men nowa days drink tumuch alcohol plz tule eshako nomutototo walyako tukafupa