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Heart BROKEN But Still In LOVE
I’m seeking advise, I was engaged to a certain guy and we were supposed to get married in February this year, Unfortunately one day when he asked for sex and I denied him and he told me it was over.
In march he came back and apologized and we continued with our relationship. Third week of April I discovered he had got some girl pregnant and when I asked him he accepted and told me he did all that because I starved him sex.
Now this guy is telling me that he wants to marry me because he does not love the girl he impregnated. He says he will only accept the child from this other girl . What should I do?
ADVICE
THANKS
The first thing I want to thank you sister for caring for yourself & having strong mind of keeping the promise between yourselves.
Secondly, your man sister has no love for you. This simply means that even before your agreement of marrying each other he was going back door having sex with other girls.
My question is, if he failed to control himself for a short moment & sleep with another
_ what can stop him from sleeping sleep with others?
Your man is a crook get it right.
TO YOU
-Be patient,
-keep yourself as you did God is preparing a good way for you.
I believe love is a two way run but it has shown that your man really does not love you at all.
Another question; if he does not love the girl whom he impregnated,
_ who is going to marry the second hand girl that he has left?
_ Is that fair?
If he fails to give you the exact answer ask him this again. If he gives u pregnant,
_ is he not going to lie another girl that it happened accidentally with you, did he not love you?
LAST WORDS
_ Sister God loves you for your patience. Don’t allow the man to marry you.
_ Wait for the right time. If you rash you will crash. God loves you so much that he will show you the person he wants you to marry.
_ God’s time is the best. Don’t let anyone lie to you.
Your man tell him to marry the girl he has impregnated. Thus all I can tell you my sister.
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Posted by
johnbee
June 8, 2012 at 10:04 am
ati when he asked for sex i refused n he said it wz ove…..heheheheheheheheheeheheheheh aweeeeh mweeeeh…muleyangala nasex imweee,kumupelafyeeee chapwa ninshi wasova,,,!!!
NDOMFWA DIZY
June 8, 2012 at 10:07 am
SOME OF YOU SAYING HE MUST NOT MARRY HER. WHAT ABOUT THE OTHER GIRL FREINDS YOU HAVE BESIDES YOUR WIVE/ FIENCE.GET STRAIGHT ALSO STOP GOING OUT WITH EXTRA WOMEN.
Joseph Phiri
June 8, 2012 at 10:31 am
Mwandi mukashana , you’re not cheap to be used before you are married. Mantain your intergrity , whether others are doing it with their fiecees on not . After you denied him sex he left you but he came back after realising that there few girls who can say no to the advances from their husbands to be .
Be patient , God will give you a man who has similar values like yours .
Be blessed.
Yamwela
June 8, 2012 at 11:03 am
Kupaka wakazi ofuna kunyengewa why waste time on someone who does not want sex. Thats the kind of women who are very boring in bed you marry her within six months you start going ku mahule kuti usilize nyele.
MOMO
June 8, 2012 at 11:07 am
am going through the same,may God deliver such men who want to take advantage of ladies
Josef P
June 8, 2012 at 1:01 pm
I can assure you that there are very few married couples who married on a holy note. Most people in these marriages you see started their relationships illicitly.You have to use your own initiative to own a partner. I am sure you do not want to be a 30 years old virgine………And when you reach that point a lot of juice will have left you and you will no longer be what you look and thus you will be less expensive…..
Josef P
June 8, 2012 at 1:06 pm
If you love some one you can prepare to die for him/her. Can you imagine. Then what is sex if people can die for the ones they love……You see what I mean?
Ever Blazing
June 8, 2012 at 2:13 pm
That man doesn’t love u, all he wants is to sleep with u thats why he came back to you coz he hasn’t slept with u yet, once u give in you will never see him again,keep yourself for a good man who deserves you,forget about that player
xxx
June 8, 2012 at 2:53 pm
if u are no virgin and you denied him sex…then u are also a crook
smusalaba
June 8, 2012 at 7:44 pm
sister dnt mind about that ************ who just wanted sex from you, forget about him and take your time
mafinga man
June 9, 2012 at 1:10 am
the true advice is that you give him sweet sex and he will never leave you.