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Busted: Man Catches His Friend In Bed With His Wife (PHOTOS)
Crazy World: Man catches friend bonking his wife on their matrimonial bed.
The man in question came home and caught his best friend and his wife red handed on his matrimonial bed.
If you are the man what would you do?
Posted by Editor
on August 12, 2012. Filed under LIFE & STYLE, STYLE.
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Culture
August 12, 2012 at 11:24 am
Where was this?
Bungwe
August 12, 2012 at 11:24 am
you can never trust women nowadays. sorry mudala. you and I are facing the same thing. I found sms on my fiancee’s phone where she was planning to go to Lusaka to spend the weekend with her boyfriend. God will help you my man
Janet c
August 12, 2012 at 11:56 am
Women nowadays are playing men at their own game – remember two can definately play that game. The African women is absolutely fed up of being oppressed by men. Once african men learn to be faithful, then women will stop cheating. Otherwise, this is just the beginning men – brace yourselves and your egos. Whilst you are with your ATMs and girlfriends, the wife is also getting busy elsewhere.
Bungwe
August 12, 2012 at 12:21 pm
@Janet, not all men cheat. my case I have never cheated on her and I do all for her but she decides to cheat.
anzathu
August 12, 2012 at 12:29 pm
Just leave them,she was not ment for you.. Just move on…..
Kafulukutu
August 12, 2012 at 12:31 pm
Cheat unto your mate before they cheat unto you.
Movie lover
August 12, 2012 at 12:31 pm
@ janet c you are 100% right,as for me as for me i balance my life style i make sure my wife is happy all the time.And if i can show her my true love who is she to misbehave..no no so that boy @ bungwe jst kw women are trusted very much its only you careless men who cause them to misbehave.learn to look after yo wives feed them dress them nicely take them to the saloon and show them love by spending time with them above all pray for yo marriage for God’s guidance.women are trusted.
Pule1
August 12, 2012 at 12:39 pm
@bungwe i feel bad for u, just put everything to God. Oneday he will give you a right person.
kakolwe
August 12, 2012 at 12:47 pm
Birds of a feather…..
Mind where you fish your spouce from. You pick a man from a bottle & you expect to change him? Bufi! The woman you grabbed from a Keegan somewhere will never be yours, EVER!
Umuntu Mutwe
August 12, 2012 at 1:01 pm
Gelo pali matako zoona.
Chacha
August 12, 2012 at 1:18 pm
For sure check the women you are marrying wat kind of life they lead and wat type of a background that woman had…..thses are the consequences, despite men being cheats women are supposed to be reserved. A married woman is not supposed to compete with her husband if the husband is a cheat…Men also please try to love your women it pains so much. If you show love and take good care of her sometimes a woman will not even notice you are playing games on her….Above all learn to pray for each other.
Wanu Ngwee
August 12, 2012 at 1:35 pm
IF HE CAN TALIA YOUR WIFE THEN THEY’RE AS BAD AS EACH OTHER, BAD FOR YOUR HEALTH AND YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THEM!
Wanu Ngwee
August 12, 2012 at 1:36 pm
WHY TALIA YOUR FRIEND’S WIFE SURE?
Kanda Mbuzi
August 12, 2012 at 1:51 pm
Matrimonial home? But the beddings have writtings on them like they are hospital beddings,are they stolen beddings or its a guest house? surely not matrimonial batumfweko.
BigTymer
August 12, 2012 at 2:50 pm
Kuya bebele!!!! No explainations whatsoever.
wesley
August 12, 2012 at 3:46 pm
i wud nail her ass 2 the whole,neva trust a woman
Zambian
August 12, 2012 at 3:46 pm
@Bungwe, you should be happy that you found out before marring her, before she infected you with HIV/AIDS.Soon or later, when you fiind your missing rib, you will be glad you didnt end up with that loser. Take heart my brother.
umuntu
August 12, 2012 at 5:34 pm
Balimunyenga zoona no mulopa kuli towel. It’s good you found them man.
Protector
August 12, 2012 at 5:37 pm
Notemwa bamukabene kwine
nyansa waku
August 12, 2012 at 7:29 pm
The two are in love there is nothing else you can do just leave them look for a better wife.
Kays
August 12, 2012 at 7:35 pm
2 bad man. Women.
Dwinci
August 12, 2012 at 7:52 pm
Na enve a chaya penangu, that is why the wife sought to protest in this manner.
Never mistreat a woman!
purity
August 12, 2012 at 8:33 pm
@movie lover.
you are right. even women need sexual satisfaction esp once they are married becoz they have tested it. Men we must honour our conjugal obligations or else this is the result. Infact if u know u r not having sex with your wife, just know that someone else is doing it for you. I mean it. Please men, what6 do we expect if we starve our wives sexually for 2 or more years? if you are ipotent, she is not
tombist
August 12, 2012 at 11:30 pm
pleas men never trust women,just love them.im sure the husband has a small dick,she wanted something bigger…..pliz men fac yo wives until you lose yo breath
tombist
August 12, 2012 at 11:34 pm
given the chance,ti na chitomba chimayo
Thief Justice
August 13, 2012 at 7:51 am
That is the matrimonial bed?? no wonder it happened!!
MWINEbala
August 13, 2012 at 8:02 am
If you are the man what would you do?…
There used to be a song in Zambia in the 80s by the Mulemena Boys which was later banned on ZNBC ati.. ‘Bushe kuti waipayapo imwaume nangu kuti waipayapo umwanakashi? Bushe kuti wapaya bonse babili nangu wabalekako bonse babili?’ (do u eliminate the guy or your wife or both or u can just let them go free)
Stone
August 13, 2012 at 8:38 am
If you cant love your partner, walk away. The hurt is not worth it.
Shame that today’s society finds infidelity a norm.
YES
August 13, 2012 at 8:42 am
This is sinfull at its best.My fellow men! this brother is in big trouble all others can say is kuti nachi tomba chimwanakashi ichi.would you want others to do that to u wen u r married? anywere most of you are boys not men! wen u marry you will no wat it can feel like.
pray hard for Gods protection and guidance.
mugaizy wapa zed
August 13, 2012 at 9:07 am
and you still wonder why women are being beaten.
Hidden Objects
August 13, 2012 at 9:11 am
Bad for the owner of the woman. This means it started a long time ago, only that the owner could not know and did not know about the cheat. I wonder what the punishment will be like. What would you do if it were you young man. Forgive and forget?……or hang? Women should learn a lesson, a matrimonial bed or bedroom is not a thing to expose to any man. Why not somewhere else if you wanted it, and does your husband not satisfy you. Echo kebela banachimbusa,tell her that my husband does not satisfy me what should I do,an advise can be given to both you and your husband than bring a man in your private room. Chikubabe mwatemwishe mutapi nangu kufitemwa!….
HH
August 13, 2012 at 9:59 am
I am a very clean guy and no intentions of cheating on my wife the problem i have is that my woman has no interest in sex and i am a complete opposite… married for 7 years now i fear i might fall for the devil one day.. just what do you do in this case fellow bloggers????
Nyele ya Mbuzi
August 13, 2012 at 10:15 am
The best is to divorce other than betray your partner in such a manner! And such people who commit adultery should not be spared – no wonder in islamic countries adultery is punishable by DEATH. Adultery of a woman can shake the world.
Icho
August 13, 2012 at 10:15 am
Monday to Sunday drinking at the bar, what do you think your wife is doing at home? playing with herself? Spend more time at home and give your wives attention or some other Jim or Jack will do it for you.
Lasa Lasa
August 13, 2012 at 11:15 am
Those bed sheets are for Ministry of Health. The guy must be arrested!
Reject
August 13, 2012 at 11:44 am
She never was meant for him. It’s better to let your man know if you are not being satisfied than cheating with his best friend. What will you be trying to portray or prove? I hate such women.
LIATO
August 13, 2012 at 12:33 pm
SOME WOMEN HAVE WARTS.NANGU UNYENGE BWANJI THEY STILL FEEL LIKE HAVING MORE AND MORE.ITS NOT THEM BUT THE DISEASE THEY HAVE.GO FOR A CHECKUP.FREE ADVICE FOR WOMEN.IF YOU HAVE THEM NO MAN WILL EVER SATISFY YOU
palace boy
August 13, 2012 at 12:35 pm
For a man it is the final “killer punch”. However, i have heard of men who can forgive,… what do you think?
ba Zac
August 13, 2012 at 1:10 pm
this world is moving soo fast,if its me its better u just find someone else coz 4 a man to catch his wife in bed with another man means that they had started doing this sex game 4 couple of months or years…
Wanu Ngwee
August 13, 2012 at 2:25 pm
@HH your complaint is not very clear. What do you mean by “…my woman has no interest in sex…”? Is it that she never wants it AT ALL or just RARELY wants it? You have more to worry about if she never wants it at all, coz it defeats the whole essence of getting married(unless you forced her). In this instance you must then worry about how she’s satisfying her sexual needs. But if it’s just the frequency of sexual activity that she’s regulating then you should be ok mwana. You sound like someone who never or very rarley travels out of town for work. If you do, it would be a major headache to be leaving at home a woman that is addicted to IT. So, just work on the duration of your “sabbaticals”
wadya
August 13, 2012 at 3:23 pm
its a sad situation.As much as some men are cheating on their wives equally a good number of women cheat on their husbands weather the are satisfied ,given every thing or what especially the so called mudawakudala arrangement.
chuncha
August 13, 2012 at 3:24 pm
nga ni gelo wandi uyu nga ndamusunga bwino chachine.
OrgasmTembo
August 13, 2012 at 5:00 pm
Best punishment is to give him the lady. Senda mune, she is all yours. Then you move on!!
wildimpi
August 13, 2012 at 5:06 pm
@ Janet c. I will have reservations about marrying a harlot like you
wildimpi
August 13, 2012 at 5:13 pm
@ OrgasmTembo. Eastern I D I O T. Today you have used your head to think wisely. Keep it Up, ****** *****.
Dizzo 28
August 13, 2012 at 6:05 pm
Ba tumfweko, its Hard to believe you sometimes, No Story Just a picture naimwe. who would put beddings like that on a matrimonial bed that are scribbled like that. niku ghetto nshi? But somehow they are both fool. Ubu chende kuchitila ukutali.hahaha BUSTED
The Mighty One
August 13, 2012 at 7:15 pm
Iwe “Movie Lover”,u have just spoken well but some Women are like a Pig which goes back in dirty no matter how much u can clean it.So if your Wife is that faithful then it is God u should thank about that bcoz its not by your tender care that she is like that.
SEXIOLOGIST
August 13, 2012 at 10:05 pm
in SEXIOLOGY-we call this TALIAKEAGANISM it is a disease that makes one feel sex whenever see a lady. most pipo who suffer from this disease can even rape, have it in public etc. its a serious disease which my brother in question should look at it carefully before marrying another woman.
But anyway there was nothing the man caught in the act could do because the lady ali na tako.
PLACENTA
August 13, 2012 at 10:07 pm
MAKE SURE THE NEXT LADY YOU MARRY. KUYI BIKILA CHALIMO MU PLACENTA OTHERWISE BAKAKWAFWA.
ANTI SATAN
August 13, 2012 at 10:50 pm
All in all the things we try to justify this and that what she did was wrong and things like this should not be welcomed in our society. the wages of sin is death, its just that people have taken the lord so lightly in our time but remember the fear of thy lord is the beginning of wisdom. am not perfect but i can stil say when its wrong its wrong!