A LUSAKA man has refused being responsible for breaking his girlfriend’s virginity because she had told him she slept with five men before the two met.
Peter Phiri 20 who accepted responsibility for the pregnancy, told the Lusaka Boma Court Magistrates Marble Mwaba and Lazarous Mwape that his girlfriend Sofia Mwale 16 told him that he was not the first man she had slept with because there had been five other men before him.
This was in a case in which Eliza Tembo sued Phiri of Chaisa Township for virginity damage of her daughter Mwale.
“She was not a virgin when we met; she told me herself that she had slept with other men. I am not responsible for breaking her virginity even though I impregnated her,” he said
However, Mwale denied Phiri’s claims saying he was the first man she had slept with. She said when her parents found out about the pregnancy, they asked her to go and live with Phiri who was also being kept by his grandparents.
Mwale said while at his home, Phiri forced her to take some tablets that led to her miscarriage.
“After taking the tablets, I had cramps and a day later, I had a miscarriage,” Mwale said.
Tembo told the court that she sued because Phiri impregnated her daughter and has failed to pay money for damage.
Passing judgment, the court upheld the claim and ordered Phiri to pay Tembo K3 million as compensation in monthly installments of K250, 000 starting August month end.
Chama Febie
August 14, 2012 at 11:55 am
Kukonda vintu vakulu 16 and 20 years old,go back to school imwe ma Id!ots
Lito
August 14, 2012 at 12:03 pm
Vaupuwa
kakolwe
August 14, 2012 at 12:23 pm
Here we go again! Such are the times when daughters are a source of income. The ****** boy will be paying for a good 12months while the girl will have gone on to be pregnanted by another old guy who will pay ‘out-of-court for fear of losing their job or marriage. That, indeed, is Vaupuwa!
gas
August 14, 2012 at 12:29 pm
fools these small girls can shock you what sizes goes in their virgins
Kanda Mbuzi
August 14, 2012 at 12:33 pm
Any evidence she had virginity?
Fault Finder
August 14, 2012 at 1:22 pm
There is no such a thing as virginity damage. When a man has sex with a girl, what he damages is the reputation of the girl’s family. That is what Phiri was charged for. The other 5 have no case to answer because they caused no shame to the Tembo family.
ABAKONZI
August 14, 2012 at 1:45 pm
Can you imagine this foolish girl,what if she didn’t get pregnant was she going to disclose that about her virginity.That’s why I strongly advocate that let’s stop this nonsense of punishing boys alone whenever there’s a pregnancy because they did it together and besides this girl didn’t say she was raped.So ba local court charge both the boy and girl and deter those foolish parents who make their daughters a source of income
DR K
August 14, 2012 at 2:10 pm
WHY SHUD FAVOUR ALWAYS GO TO LADIES?IF SO,PLIZ STOP CRYN FOR GENDER.
Papa Dineo
August 14, 2012 at 2:19 pm
nivaupuba imwe bana….mukonda vabakulu
shoes
August 14, 2012 at 2:25 pm
vima movies va bakulu vamene batamba ba ****** ***** is destroying them.Please ba local court we need to put some stiffer laws to deter this.
Wildimpi
August 14, 2012 at 3:02 pm
Both were enjoying sex. So, who should pay who?
Captain Morgan
August 14, 2012 at 3:11 pm
Nyele bafana,@ 16 and u have already dated 5 men(if not boys),rubbish things u little IDIOTS!Whatever happened 2 being in school vibaiche vi kansi?
virgin
August 14, 2012 at 3:16 pm
panish this boy for breakimg this inocent girl’s virginity.*********** boy.
nicola
August 14, 2012 at 3:33 pm
the world is coming to an end.16years and 20years?
God help us.
Vibrosomal
August 14, 2012 at 4:16 pm
Abaice banomba ukutemwa ukubafwenya..ati she had slept with five men before this guy ( five big black dicks). Nabwaice mwalyamba kale over-extending ifinyo..ka styopet, concentrate on your books!
Posh
August 14, 2012 at 5:00 pm
The girl is a big fool,teenagers do alot of nosense @16 sleeping with men.EEEsh!shame
Kwa george
August 14, 2012 at 5:06 pm
so when there is damage/ chaisa the defilement falls off. What is the age limit for defilement.
Dece
August 14, 2012 at 5:08 pm
16Years of age, nitoteni bonse
Manyi ambuzi mchimwene wa Munyelo Pwete ndi Janet C.
August 14, 2012 at 5:47 pm
Ooh! Why not suing her for breaking man’s virginity?
Pipi
August 14, 2012 at 5:54 pm
Kids of nowadays. Shame on u. Go back to sku
RB
August 14, 2012 at 7:38 pm
Hahaha @16 she had slept with five men,I can imagine by the time she is 20 or if she will ever go to college, she will sleep with the whole world. Shame to all the women teach your children good manners that’s why I will never marry!
Tonga Bull
August 14, 2012 at 8:52 pm
BREAKING NEWS : UN officials are arriving in the country on wednesday to investigate pf and police attempts to destroy democracy. and also HH is being considered for a nobel prize for his sacrifices in up holding democracy.
BREAKING NEWS
August 14, 2012 at 8:53 pm
UN officials are arriving in the country on wednesday to investigate pf and police attempts to destroy democracy. and also HH is being considered for a nobel prize for his sacrifices in up holding democracy.
CONCERNED
August 14, 2012 at 9:34 pm
Can somebody save us from the arrogance,stupidity,foolishness,madness of a motherfu€ker called Mwale @ Kabwe RTSA before i beat up the son of a bit.ch!
BUS..
August 14, 2012 at 9:53 pm
@ concerned,i agree with you this fool seems so frustrated.One more thing at kabwe RTSA; offices open at 09hrs,break for lunch at 11Hrs -15hrs then lock their doors at 16hrs.Now what kind of workculture is this bafikala..?
BK
August 14, 2012 at 11:03 pm
Gents lets be realistic,is virginity only to girls and not boys?
ABAKONZI
August 14, 2012 at 11:32 pm
@ BUS and CONCERNED,I agree with you guys kabwe RATSA office is the worst in the country I was there early this year and you are saying the truth.These bloody buffoons are kabwe RATSA nabatumpa sana ba Imbwa aba,they are cocroaches,niba koswe bekabeka,Impanya sha bantu ba kwindi aba ukubikilako nawabengishe inchito nimbwa nankwe and nakalya kaka pokola akanakashi akafita that girl thinks she is a somebody,mudala I shouted at that ugly black police girl(guys uyu mwaiche alifita kwati munyen’gu-big black ant) over her behaviour by the time I left RATSA she was calling me with respect,I told her who I was and how I could have her dismissed or sent to the remotest part of zambia.
Noreen the doc
August 15, 2012 at 8:38 am
if at 16years she has slept with 5 men how many more before she clocks 20, weres your proud girl, the bible says you are the temple of the holy spirit, you are so cheap
exZedian
August 15, 2012 at 8:51 am
WHAT DO YOU EXPECT, SHE IS A ZEDIAN GAL. Malépé yamene badónsa yabapasa nyélé maningi!!
Every girl and woman with enlongated labia (malépé.. míshínó) is hórny 24/7 one man is not enough! By the time she’s 40 if she’s lucky to reach that age she would have bonked with 100′s of strong bigpipe’s!
Bwana Phiri
August 15, 2012 at 10:00 am
Limbi Chimuti abomfyeshe.
Zozo
August 15, 2012 at 10:29 am
Sex has no age has long as it gets hard and wet inside that so.Only that when you are old enough you will have control so unplanned pregnancy wont be there nama STI’s. you have to pay efyaba i yakiba you went in it for it let or so the parents feel ubuswili bwakufyala.
Guess-Who ?
August 15, 2012 at 1:28 pm
Modern day Prostituition
LETIBE
August 17, 2012 at 10:29 am
ok but kwena baiche mwalifichita bwangu @16 and 20.its nt the boys fault coz both of u were enjoying each ather.dnt blame the boy the ****** girl has no future plans shez useless.she doesnt know wat she wnts in life..