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Rare Confession: Help Me! I Am Pregnant For My Daughter’s Lover – Mother
The thing that bothers me most is this sex machine (he’s very good) is my daughter’s boyfriend.
Right now I wish to have him all to myself. But how am going to handle my daughter is the problem. She claims they are in love with with each other but her lover couldn’t say no when I ask him to sleep with me. It was as if he wanted me more than I wanted him.
My daughter is just 21 and my age is double of hers cos I was almost 21 when I gave birth to her. Her father is gone and the responsibility of taking care of her was all mine. I gave her a good life as much as my income could carry and she’s ok.
My headache is this pregnancy. Her boyfriend didn’t know am pregnant for him and my daughter has no idea we are seeing each other. The only man in my life right now is married with wife and three kids.
I know I’ve made mistakes but I’ve read other people’s stories on Tumfweko and I felt I could get some help here that’s why am asking for help.
What is the best option for me bevause abortion is not an option?
Should I take this sweet boy from my daughter and ask her to let go since am her mother? Afterall she can get another young guy to date. Or I should give the pregnancy to the married man am dating?
But I don’t think I want to leave this sweet boy for my small girl.
Chileya M
Posted by Editor
on August 14, 2012. Filed under LIFE & STYLE, STYLE.
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ashmail
August 30, 2012 at 4:57 pm
u r a mad woman shame on you atasee!!!!! dats dirty. i pray your daughter find out and kill u wit her bare hands.
Chibi ku Bantu
August 31, 2012 at 11:54 am
Ba wise one check your spellings before attacking tumfweko for the grammar.As for the pregnant woman just keep your mouth shut.If people ask say it is the married man responsible.Your daughter will get married one day.Do you think she will allow you near her husband if she gets to know about this.All the ladies in your family will start avoiding you for fear that if you could betray your own dota,what more other?
candy
August 31, 2012 at 1:31 pm
By the way,never ever call yourself a mother…
makaranga
August 31, 2012 at 7:49 pm
take time and think twice since people do mistake but we 4 give and forget the better way is to TAKE abortion and stay away from the man since u r dota is the one who have it NOT you so give her full rspect on her privacy and TAKE birth control pills. And seek JESUS TO TAKE AWAY FROM THAT CHIWANDA CHA UGOLOLO.Mulungu akusamalani mayi.
Nouty
September 1, 2012 at 9:29 pm
Its better to keep the pregnance screat rather aborting,and not to let the boyfriend know about da pregnance.
Jason limz
September 2, 2012 at 4:50 pm
You dnt hav a hrt of a mother..
dalitso
September 3, 2012 at 12:10 pm
mulichipuba bamayo
Phamdude
September 3, 2012 at 1:03 pm
Messiah bweli pa chalo ukwapule nafuti, Yesu Christu shibwela
Phamdude
September 3, 2012 at 1:06 pm
Messiah bwela pa chalo ukwapule nafuti, Yesu Christu shibwela
SEKO PONOOOKE!!
September 3, 2012 at 2:43 pm
uli cisushi sana iwe we mayo we cinangwa we!!
chomba
September 3, 2012 at 3:52 pm
Wembwa We! How can you share a man “FOR THAT MATTER A BOY” with your dota. KWENA ULI CHIPUBA! NSE NSONI NAUPOSA PA KULEMBA. mIPAMBA IYI!!
pamela
September 5, 2012 at 11:03 am
useless whore!u even hv the courage to share this nonsess with us!swine,****** *****!u abused the boy n gave him hiv,hw cn u even call urself a mother?chipuba iwe!nyele ya imbwa iyo!
Abigail Jesus is Lord!
September 13, 2012 at 8:22 am
Is this the time in Sodom and Gomorrah!!!!! Woman we know we all commit sin and make mistakes but this one if it was those bible times the ground would have swallowed you alive…sexual sin teyakupeneneko imagine your daughter slept with your husband how would you take it!!!Take your selfish desires to God. Though your daughter is not married yet to the father of your babe but that doesn’t give you the passport to do anything….my advice is break the truth to your daughter and her manfriend its better for them to start quenching the hurt now than it will be when you keep the secrete coz one day they learn of it and do not kill the innocent child in your womb it will be double the sin!!!
nemwine
September 13, 2012 at 11:32 am
Awee sure, this is so rediculous, u r even sayin u dnt want to leave the sweet boy!!!!!!!!!!?????????
the big 1
September 14, 2012 at 1:45 pm
MULI CHIPUMBU MAYO
Tribalist
September 15, 2012 at 8:16 am
Which country are you coming from first of all. secondly you are a big f**l, how can you do such a thing to your daughter that you are claiming to love so much. How did you give in to the inlaw, abormination.
chalala man
September 17, 2012 at 4:23 pm
Chi mami walibutemwa ubwa???try me.
GMBK
September 18, 2012 at 1:25 pm
Chileya you are not normal. You need serious help. No one on Tumfweko can help you because what you need is someone (a professional) to sit you down, beat you and then talk to you nicely, not for a day, but serious counseling, over like 2 years. Am personally disgusted by your present state of thinking.
ABEL
September 18, 2012 at 5:17 pm
Chileya in my belaved language means”FOOL!” If what you describe is true, then that is what you are!at least am being plain polite with my words
Micheal
September 20, 2012 at 2:27 pm
Keeping quite and hiding it from your daughter and other relatives is not a solution…Remember the bible in the book of Ephesians 1:7 says,”In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of our sins according to the riches of His grace. Kneel before Him, ask for forgiveness. Afterwards, kneel before your daughet and other people involved ask for forgiveness from them. Its only by doing so that u will feel free……God still loves you and He wants you back.
Melissah
September 25, 2012 at 3:20 pm
Shame mama.Jst leave yo dota alone n liv yo own life.
me
October 3, 2012 at 12:18 pm
just give me your number i can mary you and keep that baby,just tell your dota the truth mama and run to me,
Tiz Nanks
October 3, 2012 at 12:32 pm
I have never heard of such mistake in my life. mama u’re just a whore.You, as a woman, u’re the 1 holding the keys 2 your pussy then y not so no!!!!!! If u’re too lust y stay near 2 your inlaw? mama imwe mukatomba no mwana wenu iwa kuifyalila. You are such a betrayer. If its me, i can’nt 4give u 4the rest of your life. He did’nt rape u but u wanted it. U’re even calling him sweetie ne nsoni tamukwete we chipuba we witutolesha imipamba
kamwala
October 3, 2012 at 3:17 pm
eyo tafundwa chiwelewele.
henry
October 3, 2012 at 3:57 pm
You know that is total madness, i fill as am broken for that kind of ubule ubwabula amano. surely do not call your self mother you are a wolve the devil
Geofrrey
October 3, 2012 at 5:17 pm
Madam, you need total deliverance. This is abormination. Please read Leviticus 18 starting from verse 6 going downwards. The way you are describing your feelings shows that you are actually a maniser (opposite of womaniser). Go to Prophet T.B. Joshua in Nigeria, you have an evil spirit. You need deliverance.
big mule
October 3, 2012 at 5:50 pm
kaya bamayo kuntu tuleya.tamufwa muli chiliule
cehnbo
October 3, 2012 at 11:47 pm
send sms i will talk to u 0972429329
MUSONDA CHIBWE
October 4, 2012 at 1:58 pm
Useless woman, your thinking capacity is blank, you can even share this nonsence on air like this, Are sure she is your own daughter not your step? lf she is your own you cant do such a thing to her happiness. Cos in life we all want the best for our children but imwe mayo mulefwaya the worst to your own daughter you want to tak her happiness away, SHAME ON YOU heartless woman. l think you need Jesus.
Man of God
October 5, 2012 at 8:09 am
This forum is not just for educating affected persons. Let us use people’s problems to warn others.
Lady, I am surprised that you expected the poor boy to reject you. Yes, from a religious point of view, he should have. From a social point of view, few men (not to mention young men) can reject advances from women. To do so would be perceived by fellow men, whom he would share the encounter with, as declaring himself as sexually dysfunctional – chibola. Only Joseph could do that, no wonder he is in the Bible. No man wants his manhood doubted. From a psychological point of view, there are what are called male sexual fantasies. The most popular of these are Mother-in-lwa and sister-in-law. To offer a boy what he has been secretly fantasizing about and expect him to refuse is being unreasonable.
Please get me right, what this woman did is disgusting and should not be imitated’ at home or any where’. My short expose above is meant to explain the mind of man.
Obviously, do not abort. BUT, leave the boy for your daughter if you do not want to be disowned by not just her but many of your female relatives. You can get the same thrill from somebody much older. It is all about what a man knows about sex. If you you get a pilibukila kuno kind of man, you will accuse his age. If you get one who knows, you will agree that wine gets better with age.
Natasha Ngulube
October 5, 2012 at 9:37 am
Have you lost your senses. How can you sleep with your daughter’s boy friend? Old as you are exposing your nakedness to the young boy. I think you must be taken to Chainama. God has given you a punishment that will torture you for the rest of your life. Whatever step you make in life has a price to pay. Make sure you think twice before making a move. We are human beings and not dogs.
BrainiaC
October 5, 2012 at 1:17 pm
I feel you need to come out in the open because if you hide, it’s gonna come out in the open later even that baby you are carrying will hate you in the end.. i know it’s ugly but you need to just come out then let your daughter be the judge of you. you did wrong..
LCD
October 5, 2012 at 3:10 pm
?????????????????????????????????????????????????????? WOW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
m Kosovo
October 6, 2012 at 5:55 am
Go to church and confess your sins GPs will 4give ï
barny wizzie
October 6, 2012 at 5:56 pm
so sad indeed, when will women have dignity for themselves, one u are dating a married man and u want to destroy the relatioship of your daughter. its quiet obvious theirs something wrong about you. keep the preg and stay away from their love. though every man has the right to know his child but he blew it also. talk to jesus ba mayo.
Bosco Malunda
October 6, 2012 at 11:17 pm
Tumfweko, please put me in touch with this wonderful humanbeing. How Iwish I could meet her and comfort her
mushindo wako
October 7, 2012 at 9:38 am
panyo pako chi mayo.
temitop
October 8, 2012 at 10:57 am
she must be lenje
Boy Legend
October 9, 2012 at 5:46 pm
I sleep with older women for a living and i can satisfy you forget about what they are saying am here free and available.i understand you call me 0973926094 legend
Moze
October 10, 2012 at 1:47 pm
Madam you need delieverance and repentance otherwise sex will always hunt you.Am praying for you.
ck
October 10, 2012 at 3:57 pm
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Mama you are such a whore/demon. How could you be so cruel to your own daughter. You have no heart and you are not even ashamed to say that you the young man has a “powerful sex machine.” Am asking you u to leave it for your daughter. Repeant and ask God to remove this terrible sexual desire from you otherwise with such behaviour you go to hell. I feel pity for the young man and your daughter. I can advise that you say the truth to her and do not hide anything and pls do not abort the innocent soul.
sean
October 11, 2012 at 6:21 am
u pipo advising dis so cald mother ur also mad..u mother i’m also a young sex machine plz give me some!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tonga Bull
October 11, 2012 at 11:34 am
I have a solution to older women who want young men, get in touch,0961618297
malawi
October 11, 2012 at 1:44 pm
your very ****** your a single mother you could have find other young sweet boys for yourself yet you sleep with your son-in-law shame on you and go to hell and **** with the devil bloodshit
stone
October 11, 2012 at 2:03 pm
its sad that our parents can behave this way.surely how can a mother who should morally guide her child do such a thing?
mummy apologize to your daughter and let her Know the decision will entirely depend on her either to go ahead with the boy or not.just show remorse mama.
wise
October 11, 2012 at 4:51 pm
POOR FINISHING CHIMAYO IWE! IS IT RELLY HELP DAT U NEED O U JUST WANT TO ADVERTISE YOUR IDIOTIC FOOLISH MANNERS? U HAVE RELLY FINISHED IT BAD (CANT LET GO MY ASS CHIMAWO…)
Umu Roma
October 13, 2012 at 12:29 am
Consequences of enjoying frm a dick belongs 2 your douta!!shameless woman!!go ahead and tell him and then your douta poison U…y didn’t u come and kiss ma ass!!!!!
Onga
October 13, 2012 at 11:41 am
How dare you even send this nonsense ****** story of yours. How can you snach your daughters boyfriend? This is abominations. God please come back quickly.
Onga
October 13, 2012 at 11:41 am
How dare you even send this nonsense ****** story of yours. How can you snach your daughters boyfriend? This is abomination. God please come back quickly.
honesty
October 13, 2012 at 11:55 am
Atase bamayo,chi mayo iwe tawakwata amano mulichipuba would you do that to your own daughter sure she isn’t your daughter because if she was ud be sorry u wouldn’t even go as far as u did just tell so she can disown u cuz u seriously aint her mother I’m pretty sure u lured the young man into your bed mxxxxxm abakulu ababula amano