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My Husband is Rejecting His Own Son

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I am a married woman with two children but only have one with this man I got married to.

My last child is five and I had vowed never to have another one due to health problems, I have not been on any family planning of late. So for a period of time I thought I was pregnant because my periods were irregular. I  have been clean and have always respected my husband despite his unfaithfulness. He has hurt me so mush in the past during our courtship and made me even loose a pregnancy due to the ill treatment he gave me.

 

He had rejected the pregnancy and asked me to abort and even chased me out of his house. During this period I ended up having a miscarriage so I decided to move out but in barely a month’s time he followed me to where I was staying and even ended up disturbing the affair I was having with this guy who was almost approaching my parents for marriage.

 

He send this guys  insults using my phone, so my affair with him was disturbed.

 

My husband was married before with two children and left his wife for another woman(me) who the family thought was stable financially.

We got married and had our first child and now am expecting again after five years. Due to his infidelity he would come home and have no interest at all in me. At home he would totally ignore me and in bed he would give me his back. So I would go out with friends just to avoid being depressed after I started suspecting that he was having an affair.

One day in my drunken state I told him out of anger that I was pregnant and it wasn’t his . About two months later after our reconciliation with him and help of marriage counseling I eventually got pregnant. The first few months he said nothing negative until I discovered he was still communicating with his ex-girlfriend.

 

I tried to ask him that’s when he just snapped and told me he didn’t even believe the pregnancy was his. Then I made him count the months and it was clear this pregnancy was his and later we told our pastor who counseled us and he apologized for having said this.

Later after the story of the same ex-girlfriend came up when she started calling and texting me with silly messages. He then repeated his words of doubting being the father to this child.

I’m very sure and can swear by anything that this child is his. I wish God could speak from heaven like he used to in those days to tell him this and I am ready for a DNA test but fear the replication it will bring on the child if she grows up to hear this and the shame it will bring on him. I vowed to give this child my father’s name because it really pains to carry a child for nine months and only for the real father to reject the child yet he has even been sleeping with you in the course of your pregnancy.

Please advise.

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27 Responses to My Husband is Rejecting His Own Son

  1. Barotse diaspora Reply

    November 17, 2012 at 1:39 pm

    Untrue story, Its one of tumfweko’s reporters who is seeking advise.go and hung yourself or throw your skeleton under a running locomotive.wanvela!

    • king Reply

      January 13, 2013 at 4:02 pm

      what makes you think its not true, if you cant give people advice then kindly avoid coming to this thread

  2. paguza Reply

    November 17, 2012 at 2:08 pm

    Boring and childish story.

    • king Reply

      January 13, 2013 at 4:00 pm

      then go and look for a fictional story that will be more entertaining, save us the stress please

  3. JOHN B Reply

    November 17, 2012 at 2:25 pm

    u should have left this man before he married you God gave u the chance to know this man but i believe u said he will change after getting married. i still adivce you to leave this man you can`t continue staying with some one trusts you not besides he is even unfaithful and there is hIV/AIDS THESE DAYS.

  4. mbulwe Reply

    November 17, 2012 at 3:15 pm

    You are a problem woman ;you started the problem due with with it.

    • king Reply

      January 13, 2013 at 4:04 pm

      how did she start the problem, have you even read the full story

  5. Mosquito Reply

    November 17, 2012 at 3:18 pm

    Boring indeed and iwe mayo uli hule, u are not straight forward and your story is corrupt.
    I support the man coz the child u r carrying is not his.

    • king Reply

      January 13, 2013 at 4:05 pm

      you lack the brains, you looser

  6. nyax Reply

    November 17, 2012 at 3:58 pm

    U r a foolish girl. U r saying u r a married woman and u moved out of yo husbands house and barely a month yo husband followed u and disturbed the guy who almost approached yo parents 4 marriage. How can u find someonelse to marry barely a month and u cal yoself a married woman? ****** *****!

    • king Reply

      January 13, 2013 at 4:06 pm

      she did that out of frustration

  7. PUSO Reply

    November 17, 2012 at 4:01 pm

    You are a prostitute,… “One day in my drunken state I told him out of anger that I was pregnant and it wasn’t his”.

    The drunken state is an excuse, that is the TRUTH,….DNA test will turn against you my dear that is free advice for you.

    • king Reply

      January 13, 2013 at 4:08 pm

      its your mother who is a *****

  8. juice manure Reply

    November 17, 2012 at 4:12 pm

    She is a drunkard. What more can expect from a slut.. Lies,

  9. Lachi Reply

    November 17, 2012 at 5:13 pm

    He left the wife 4 u coz u whr financialy stable?real men dnt marry lyk tht.u thot it rit 4 him 2 liv hs family n marry.hav heard alot of women say hes livng or has left the wife coz shes naging.wht does she nag abt?him comng late?havng galfrnds?a woman wil only tok if shes dangrn she wil nag.wait until u get in tht hme,u wil b the naglst.u r the 1 who tod him the preg is nt his,y r u nw shokd tht hs denyng it.women say alot of wht thy dnt min unfortunatly men get tht.to tel u the truth he realy got wht u said.n how alot of men of refused pregs aftr baby is born a gud numbr cme along.esp u being in his house,i dnt see ths 2 b a big problem.stop nagng abt preg liv life as normal,he wil cme along.men hav pride bt finally gve up.

  10. frankchipila Reply

    November 17, 2012 at 7:38 pm

    takwaba uli wabufi

  11. BryD Reply

    November 17, 2012 at 8:09 pm

    My sister you made a mistake to lie to him that the pregnancy was not his. However just be prayerful, pray for him and ask God to intervein and all will be well. Wish you God’s favour.

  12. pears kalubi Reply

    November 17, 2012 at 8:58 pm

    ba tumfweko u once brought this photo b4 claiming the same lady was preg by a pastor bufi

  13. This story is unedited plz tumfweko edit Reply

    November 17, 2012 at 9:50 pm

    Unedited plz edit b4 you publish..nyax and puso i agree wth yo comments

  14. Lubabe Lwakaena Reply

    November 18, 2012 at 12:06 am

    Why misuse the name husband,that’s just your boyfriend iwe kwangara

  15. Chicco Reply

    November 18, 2012 at 6:11 am

    A we chimayo uli ulefye, u said that u ar married but how did u allow another proposal 4 that man to see yo parents, ulichipuba and learn some manners, morals & start going 2 churc.

  16. Doutfire Reply

    November 18, 2012 at 6:28 am

    Marraied,pregnant and then DRUNK what do i call you? ah iwe go and tell the one who made you drunk about your problem.You are just an item of no commercial value in the nation. fuleeshe woman

  17. Abakonzi Reply

    November 18, 2012 at 6:39 am

    This woman is an idiott and its funny that most women out there want to use pregnancy or children as a way to tie down a man to marry them.No wonder some women point even 3 different men as father to their,my fellow guys please careful which pregnancies you accept otherwise DNA is the way to go if you’re not sure

  18. Rizzo Reply

    November 18, 2012 at 1:22 pm

    silly woman…having an affair while still married
    weh hule weh!!!

  19. Candy Reply

    November 19, 2012 at 11:16 am

    Ba Tumfweko,kindly edit your stories b4 hand instead of letting us go through the process of trying to make sense out of nonsense.Woman,Is your husband really the father to your unborn child?From what i see,you are a husband snatcher,prostitute & drunkard.You are just reaping what you sowed,i wonder why you are complaining….

  20. P3T3R Reply

    November 28, 2012 at 10:46 am

    Boiling Ba Tunfweko. Please have a class of stories to publish

  21. Kate Chilambwe Reply

    January 2, 2013 at 10:56 am

    useless story

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