By MUNIDE ZULU
A LUSAKA woman says she wants her 14-year-old marriage dissolved because she can not cope with her husband’s weird acts of making love.
Anna Phiri told senior court magistrates Robert Zulu and George Kaoma that her husband, Frederick Mwanza prefers using his fingers than the traditional way of making love with his manhood.
“I get irritated and uncomfortable with my husband’s behaviour of inserting his fingers in my womanhood when making love. This is the reason why I want to divorce him because I can’t take it anymore,” Phiri said.
But Mwanza who, has been on separation with his wife for five years told the court that he enjoyed touching his wife in that despicable manner.
In passing jugement, the court dissolved their marriage saying they have stayed on separation for a long time.
This is in a case in which Phiri sued Mwanza for divorce. They got married in 1999 and have two children together.
Phiri told the court that problems in their marriage started two weeks after they got married in 1999 as a result of her husband’s irrational behavior who she said used to bring his girlfriend in their matrimonial home.
She said Mwanza is also a violent man, who had at one time tied a rope on her neck after a quarrel.
She added that she later unearthed an axe he was hiding under the bed, which she suspects he wanted to use to kill her.
In his defence, Mwanza told the court that problems in their marriage started when his wife discovered that he had a girlfriend who was heavily pregnant at the same time with her.
“I told my wife that I impregnated my former girlfriend at the time I married her. She has never trusted me since then and she accuses me of having extra marital affairs every time I make a move,” he said.
Mwanza said he suspects his wife has a boyfriend she wants to marry her.
He said their endless marital differences have made them separate many times with the latest being, where they stayed apart for two years.
“I know that she wants to leave me because she has a man who wants to marry her,” Mwanza said.
Danje Lacky
April 2, 2013 at 3:06 pm
Sad dirty linen washed in public
Single Guy
April 2, 2013 at 3:06 pm
No comment for now
ndate mutongoki
April 2, 2013 at 3:57 pm
This is very pathetic. Could it be that the man can’t maintain a solid erection for long?
Shanty
April 2, 2013 at 7:08 pm
You can’t judge your fellow man because sustainability of the manhood. The share of the woman is also coming when a man still can work and the woman is out use completely. He may have been unfaithful but it looks like he has been trying to make up.
Charm and beauty passes out so quickly and before you know it you climbing the same tree as well.
Emotions that enable a man and a woman effectively respond to one another arises from many aspect of life such as culture, social up-bringing s, ethical dispositions and sometimes economics and age. As I can note, she doesn’t believe in touching while others enjoy touching.
He has two kids, definitely something went wrong and one day she will realize touching was even better because it led to a lot of other things!
Woman can be very complicated just men can be too. There is no right answer in this issue as long as another world influences our actions.
Chibomba
April 4, 2013 at 12:18 pm
Well said. Nothing much and nothing less
muchite
April 2, 2013 at 3:59 pm
Bushe uyo taishiba ati kwingishamo umunwe elyo mubomba bwangu. Ask Dora she demonstrated in parliament
Abantu
April 2, 2013 at 9:48 pm
Everyone uses fingers, who doesn’t ?. Maybe this man fingers and ends up sleeping with fingers in after spending his all amunition on another woman, ngatamwakosa bafikala just have one woman to satisfy.
ADIABATIC
April 2, 2013 at 10:51 pm
Fingering,blow jobs,hand jobs are the in thing. I think she just used that as a reason to divorce.
Marriages of nowadays,it’s just foolishness that people even get so excited ululating,dancing and the like instead of feeling pity for the guy who has just gotten himself in problems.
Blaise MBULO
April 3, 2013 at 2:31 am
It will be so embarrassing for the children to explain reasons for their parents divorce.these people are just hiding in the finger story,they have other bigger issues.
enos_Mwale
April 3, 2013 at 9:28 am
Agreed
Sticky Fingerz the quick fingerz
April 4, 2013 at 11:32 am
You have inserted you comment very well in the moist and warmth of this story !
Jinx
April 3, 2013 at 7:45 am
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Dora Siliya
April 3, 2013 at 8:20 am
Ndimwe chipuba ngako mwewo baba! loneliness is sickness, find something constructive to do other than feeling sorry for your äss mate!
enos_Mwale
April 3, 2013 at 9:31 am
Koma nimweo a Jinx zoona
The ID10T
April 3, 2013 at 9:41 am
Thanks Jinx. Will be smiling the whole day today. Sorry you still didn’t make it to first comment though. Please keep trying. And like the squirrel in your backyard, one day you will climb this mighty tree.
abene bansamba
April 8, 2013 at 3:15 pm
JINX YOU ARE MAD.THATS THE REASON WHY PEOPLE FAIL EXAMS.YOUR COMMENT IS TOTALLY PARALLEL FROM THE TOPIC UNDER DISCUSSION.FWAKA WANSEKE MUBI EFYO MUPENENA MWEFIPUBAMWE. GO BACK TO SCHOOL AND GIVE YOUR TEACHER A TIME TO EXPLAIN TO YOU THE IMPORTANCE OF OF FOLLOWING INSTRUCTIONS WECIPUBAWE.
Mutototo
April 3, 2013 at 9:02 am
Bushe ba Jinx baliba normal? Iwe chikala Jinx ibange upeepa likali sana ulesansako emenshi, ibange liibi guys.
zayellow
April 3, 2013 at 11:10 am
Jinx!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GOY
April 3, 2013 at 11:54 am
this woman is a lier that ha husband uses fingers to do sex if yo fellow women are busy promoting lesbianism how do they do sex to each other just be truthfull u have a man to marry kaili ama men tulifupuba umunobe afyalamo two ati naiwe upe malabishi
ck
April 3, 2013 at 12:24 pm
Typical of Dora silly
Genaro the Analyst
April 3, 2013 at 12:24 pm
you boyfrnd has made your husbands manhood to start feeling like a finger…i think you re sleeping around with a southerner Taongas. Analyze
Domingos Justine
April 3, 2013 at 12:55 pm
Maama akwetu,there are many ways of keeling a rat therefore when a guitarist wants to play a guitar he does not play it without tuning it to the preferred sound so,teti museke umunenu ask those who have been into marriage for so many years.but not always, a finger needs to be accompanied with the MANHOOD.if not the case then that man must be impotent mulongelenu mutfumwa hanga anwe kanda asweka wafwa! meu.
CHANGA MUSESA MPOLO
June 18, 2013 at 10:33 pm
chitundu nshi ichi walanda webo pa last? we are lost please!!!
Mwana wa mungoni
April 3, 2013 at 3:16 pm
Iwe Ginx! ugula kuni fwaka ya chingoni?
i will not remain the same
April 3, 2013 at 4:15 pm
What was the judgement? Tumfweko this case was not concluded .you didn’t deliberately or you just forgotten? please tell us.
Temitop
April 3, 2013 at 4:28 pm
this woman if you were to investigate u would find it just because she has gotten a job or another man in her life. its just time she will regret
Jones
April 4, 2013 at 9:10 am
She has no reason to divorce but she caught a big fish.
She - Knows
April 4, 2013 at 11:53 am
Look, this guy by my count has three kids. 2 with his now ex – wife and 1 with his former girlfriend. The excuse about the finger does not arise. Chikwati chinakanga chabe. Both of you, just dedicate your lifes to looking after your children and forget the past. Maybe a revived freindship and passion may slowly creep in. All the best.
give it to me
April 4, 2013 at 1:06 pm
So the children will be telling the friends that bamayo balikene batata pantu bale bachita ne chikumo.
ele
April 5, 2013 at 9:10 am
yaba!!!!!!!!
Terry Gambino
April 5, 2013 at 11:44 am
The end of the world is near, More mind boggling stuff is on the way!!, Yaba!!!! indeed!!!
foster city angel
April 5, 2013 at 3:29 pm
Yaba fist cut
ndate Muloda
April 6, 2013 at 12:20 pm
Ask this lady that I can be hired at no cost!!! I am still on Easter Special
prince gift
April 6, 2013 at 5:19 pm
but kwanja awe!
PETERO
April 6, 2013 at 8:37 pm
SHE USES CANDDLE WHEN THE HUSBAND IS OUT. NOMBA ICAWAMA CINSHI, CANDLE OR FINGER?
ashmail
April 9, 2013 at 3:32 pm
e boom iyo mwandi AIDS z 2 mch.
pat
April 9, 2013 at 8:05 pm
I think Shanty explains it all…it is a complicate affair when other forces influence.
bauze
April 12, 2013 at 6:11 pm
shanty you have just wasted electronic stationery bcoz i cant follow the sh*****t you are talking. what exactly are you saying madam or sir whatever is higher?
bauze
April 12, 2013 at 6:15 pm
shanty you have just wasted electronic stationery bcoz i cant follow the sh*****t you are talking. what exactly are you saying madam or sir whatever is higher? pipo like me are waiting
marian
May 29, 2013 at 9:14 am
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