A 33- year-old Lusaka man told the Lusaka Boma court that his wife wants to divorce him because she claims he does not sexually satisfy her.
Victor Phiri told the court that his wife Miriam Phiri 21, has been refusing to have sex with him saying he is not man enough.
“She tells me that there real men who know how to make love,” Phiri said.
He was speaking before senior court magistrate Mary Namangala in a case in which he was sued by Miriam of chawama for divorce.
They got married in 1998 and have four children.
Phiri further said that he at one time found his wife been caressed by a man in September last year but did not take any action.
‘She ran away from home the first time I caught her with a man who was caressing her.
She later changed her mind and started sleeping with her clothes on,” he said.
Phiri said his wife’s sister told him that he was not suitable for her sister and that her sister would soon leave him for another man.
In her statement earlier, Miriam told the court that she wants her marriage dissolved because her husband beats her and squizzes her neck every time they have a quarrel.
She said Phiri has been threatening her and he has no respect for his mother-in-law.
Mirriam told the court that he has been an irresponsible husband and father to their four children as he has not been providing for his family for the 12 years they have been married.
She said both his and her father are tired of sitting them together because of his irrational behaviour.
The court however dismissed the case because Phiri did not pay dowry.
shilingi mia
April 28, 2013 at 12:33 pm
Where is MUTOMBELA KWIPAYA kanshi? Icupo camoneka! Mirriam’s husband cannot satisfy her sexually! Ahaa some of these names.
Wanu Ngwee
April 29, 2013 at 9:35 pm
VICTOR MWANA, LET THAT WOMAN LEAVE – SHE’S ALREADY TASTED BIGGER AND IN HER OPINION “BETTER”. SO, THERE’S NOTHING THE COURT CAN DO TO MAKE HER ENJOY YOUR MEAL…
isankutombe
April 28, 2013 at 12:39 pm
She is just a *****. How can he not be man enough if he has given her 4 chidren. The woman is just a prostitute who will never keep a marriage again
Vma
April 28, 2013 at 12:45 pm
How old was she wen she got married? 12yrs in marriage n 21yrs. She jst wants to leav him
Uncle B'
April 29, 2013 at 8:02 am
@Vma indeed how old was she when she got married? Man she was 9 years old, isnt that child defilement?
Chiwanangala
April 29, 2013 at 10:03 am
indeed, how old was she. This is a lie ba tumfweko
mutoto
April 28, 2013 at 12:49 pm
Come 2 solwezi were we do satsfy prostitutes lyk u
Redbull
April 29, 2013 at 7:02 am
i think i no u.AKA VW
feb
April 28, 2013 at 1:03 pm
she has a big hole…….wonderfull.
cash money
April 28, 2013 at 1:29 pm
shes screwing another man,thats what happens when u get a new screw driver. they say an old broom sweeps better than a new one but not in the case of a screw driver.
thebiG$harp
April 28, 2013 at 1:31 pm
Is she 21 or 31? its not posible tht someone who is 21 today got maried in 1998 ba tumfweko naimwe. Are u telling us tht she got married wen she was 6yrs old?
Reveal!
April 29, 2013 at 6:55 am
Agree with thebiGsharp there is an error in the age of the woman.At 21 and married for 12years.Tumfweko get your facts correct
Soulkings
April 28, 2013 at 1:42 pm
This is a big huge lie. 21-12=9. and 4 children.i guess this was a clear defilement.the boy was 21 and the girl was 9 when they got married.this is a clazy stuff. Simple arithmetic.
The ID10T
April 29, 2013 at 4:10 am
1998 to 2013 is 15 years not 12. This means she was 6 when she got married. And he was 18.
thebiG$harp
April 28, 2013 at 1:49 pm
The girl was 6yrs old wen they got maried & not 9. Acording 2 da story, they’ve bin maried for 15yrs & not 12yrs. Check yo maths guys naimwe.
NASILELE MUTALE YAAULU
April 28, 2013 at 1:59 pm
WHAT EVER THIS IS, YOUNG PEOPLE NEED TO BE EXTRA CAREFUL. EITHER SHE HAD PREMARITAL SEX AND THIS HABIT HAS CONTINUED.
PREMARITAL SEX LEADS TO PROMISCUITY! WHEN YOU GET MARRIED, IT BECOMES A HABIT TO HAVE RELATIONSHIPS OUTSIDE MARRIAGE.
FOR THOSE DEVELOPING STRONG RELATIONSHIPS WITHOUT SEX UNTIL THEY MARRY, THEY TRAIN THEMSELVES TO TAKE ON RESPONSIBILITIES WITHOUT SEX WHEN A WIFE HAS A “PERIOD” AND WHEN SHE GIVES BIRTH (3 MONTHS), IN CONTROLLING THEIR SEXUAL DESIRES.
YOUNG PEOPLE ARE HEREBY WARNED NOT TO GIVE IN TO THEIR SEXUAL DESIRES! WHILE THEY ARE REAL, THE CONSEQUENCES REMAIN FOR A LIFE TIME, SUCH AS THIS CASE HERE!
PLEASE YOUNG PEOPLE, YOU CAN HAVE A LASTING AND STRONG RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT SEX UNTIL YOU GET MARRIED AND A HAPPY LIFE IS ASSURED FOR YOU!
REMEMBER YOU NEVER WIN BY CUTTING IN! BE STRONG AND COURAGEOUS JUST LIKE JOSHUA TOOK OVER THE RESPONSIBILITY LEFT BY MOSES IN TAKING LEADERSHIP AND POSSESSING THE PROMISED LAND! READ JOSHUA 1 THE WHOLE CHAPTER.
WE LOVE YOU YOUNG PEOPLE!!!!
Zebige
April 28, 2013 at 2:03 pm
21 years old and four children ?
TUNTATUNTA
April 28, 2013 at 2:16 pm
COME TO KALUMBU NGWEZI FROM CONGO MUTOMBELA KWIPAYA
UNLOVELYMETAL
April 28, 2013 at 3:14 pm
21 yrs old and they were married in 1998 and have 4 children? Something doesn’t add up.
Nature
April 28, 2013 at 4:02 pm
The woman she is jst a pro,afwile alihufwapo ubwamba ubukulu so mwalisukasana kwati ubwendo bwakoswe thats the problem with these weman they like ifibwamba ifikulu.
BAD NEWS
April 28, 2013 at 4:35 pm
SUNGE CHUPO NOT CHINYO.TEMMWA ABANA NOT UBWAMBA.
Chi-Chi
April 28, 2013 at 5:11 pm
Ba Tumfweko please naimwe go back to the court and get the correct age for the wife
the 3ye
April 28, 2013 at 5:42 pm
Woman! Cry no more, I’m here, call me (or any other women with similar problems) on 0977342884
WakoMicky
April 29, 2013 at 1:28 am
The whole thing is a mystery! Play with it too much… that mileage backfire on you.
As for this mongroid woman, she’s just slept with too many of them to appreciate the ecstasy involved. Ali lila limo. Mileage yaliba apatali. If anything, mustabation could be one culprit.
Theresa
April 28, 2013 at 5:53 pm
Iwe 3eye I have tried that number and I only get voicemail. I need you now!!
victor
April 28, 2013 at 5:57 pm
Another DORA in HD,
Hil
April 28, 2013 at 6:17 pm
@ nasilele u are very right thnx fo such words just at the right tym
tomo
April 28, 2013 at 9:35 pm
She is tired of being battered not that trash from hubby
ZedMaestro
April 28, 2013 at 11:23 pm
mmmmmm!!!! 21 years FOUR children…..
Doras-Fingers
April 29, 2013 at 4:30 am
21years AND THEY MARRIED IN 1998????????????
Doras-Fingers
April 29, 2013 at 4:32 am
12YEARS OF MARRIAGE?????????
Stranded student
April 29, 2013 at 5:06 am
Big penis is NOT EQUAL to great sex. It is all upstairs, in the brain,that matters.
Mutombela kwipaya
April 29, 2013 at 5:48 am
Ici cilefwaikwa ukucitomba bad! Ngacakulolesha namumolu mwatutuma.
Genaro the Analyst
April 29, 2013 at 7:40 am
am back from the diaspora and this is what you are still talking about when our friends out there are putting a hole in-between the smallest wire manje imwe putting a hole in-between nothing. Analyze
Soulkings
April 29, 2013 at 8:03 am
Ba tumfweko, are we not listening today or you have run out of stories.
kolwe kwindi
April 29, 2013 at 8:21 am
BA TUMFWEO UBUFIIIIIIIIII KIKIKIKIK FABRICATED STORY TO LURE PIPO TO OPEN YOUR WEB , GETTING MARRIED AT 6YRS WHERE ON EARTH. KEKEKEKEKEK YABA
big b
April 29, 2013 at 8:51 am
tumfweko u a full of shit! u said they got married in 1998, how does that give u 12 years to date?
Margarita
April 29, 2013 at 8:54 am
uyu mayo ena liule..4 children.love making ni bonse participation not the man alone.ifwaika ntunku naiwe ati ntunku..
ck
April 29, 2013 at 9:14 am
Rubbish!
slim b
April 29, 2013 at 10:17 am
Ndeloleshafye.
uwakumushi
April 29, 2013 at 10:26 am
Tumfweko, please correct this story. You mean the girl got married when she was only 8 years of age????????????? The story doesnt make much sense.
salamano
April 29, 2013 at 10:38 am
vyakulolavye………..
Skeletone
April 29, 2013 at 10:41 am
21 years old lady, 12 years in marriage and since 1998.
Very useless story with patholigical lies. How can she get married at 6years you foolish writer?
Tumfweko seriously, you are very unprofessional in your immaginary writing.
Vendor
April 29, 2013 at 10:58 am
They got married in 1998 & shes 21 bufi ubo, if you’ve run of stories its better you close your site.
Mpiana
April 29, 2013 at 11:05 am
21-12=9.
mirriam, how old were you when you married this man?? ba tumfweko be real..
ZEDMAN
April 29, 2013 at 11:36 am
Facts in the story are mixed up indeed. Quiet interesting though.
P3T3R
April 29, 2013 at 12:19 pm
Bull shit ba Tunfweko 21 -15 = 6 years. Can some one at 6 get married
KA GELO
April 29, 2013 at 12:44 pm
You people why do you want to be petty. The issue here is not age. It is divorce for not satisfying the wife. It is common sense that she is 31 years now. Mulefusha fye ifyakulandalanda pali age. It is a mistake because the writer (s) are human. Please focus on the story. It is true some of you men do not satisfy women. They just live with you as security and not marriage. Most married women like ka Miriam get satisfaction from real men. Iwe Victor, come and marry me. I prefer men like you who do no function properly. KIKIKIKIKIKI
Shameless
April 29, 2013 at 12:52 pm
The husband is unable to make her cum. He does not kiss or touch the right places to give her an orgasm. Putting your pecker in a woman doesn’t mean she’s satisfied.
Shameless
April 29, 2013 at 3:16 pm
sorry, Orgasim.
Dabwitso
April 29, 2013 at 1:00 pm
Lord have mercy.
giant
April 29, 2013 at 2:29 pm
this site is for PRO………FOOLS………….GET OUT.
giant
April 29, 2013 at 2:30 pm
IDIOTS FULL OF LIES, REASON WHY THE HONESTY FATHER HAS COME OUT OF HELL.
unknown
April 29, 2013 at 3:35 pm
I wish to inform Tumfweko.com about an assault case of one Govt. official on the copperbelt.
Sibonile Sakala,Prov. Youth Officer at the Ministry of Youth,Sports and Child Development in Ndola.
Sibonile Sakala assauted her husband’s niece after the 12 yrs old girl witnessed and reported how her aunty prepared the juju(trap) for her uncle.
After preparing the juju, she locked the other entrance into the house leaving one way where she put the juju and wanted her husband to step on when he came back home for lunch.
She(Sibonile)then sent the girl to the nearby Kansenshi market to leave room for her husband to come and step on the juju according to plan.
Returning home from the market the girl met her uncle at the gate,opened for him to drive in and quickly run into the house using the opened entrance forgetting that it was her uncle’s trap.
This brought fear into the little girl and she went and reported to her mother’s aunt after her visit to her uncle’s house.
As a Senior Govt. official,what does this imply?
Is she a role model to the Zambian Youth,especially the C/belt Youths she’s saving?
Earlier this year Sibonile Sakala,collected some juju from a suspected witch doctor to help keep her husband away from other women.
Advocate
April 29, 2013 at 4:54 pm
What has this got to do with you? Mind your business. Do not bring personal topics on this site. I think you fabricated the story or she is your friend and you want to scandalise her name out of jealousy. Stick to the topic at hand.
wiseman
April 29, 2013 at 6:45 pm
Iwe tumfweko if you are bringing up a lie make sure you put everything correct, how can a six year old gal get married? The gal is 21 and they have stayed together for 15 years
moses
April 29, 2013 at 10:16 pm
hey this story is a lie, she is 21 and got marrried in 1998 which is 15 years ago making her 6 years at the time, and 1998 is yrs ago but she has been in marriage for 12 years, where is the other three years, ok that aside let mirriam consider tightening her vagina, coz guys hav normal sizes , actually for satisfaction 2 inches is very adequet,
baTumfweko next time edit your shit…….
Kiss it
April 30, 2013 at 7:08 am
Kikikiki ubwamba nauchepa