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Lusaka Wife Refuses To Divorce Randy Husband
By NOMSA NKANA
THE scriputure in the book of proverbs which says ‘better to live on the roof of a house than with a quarrelsome wife’ came alive in the Kanyama local court when an irate Lusaka man, who sued for divorce said his wife is careless with her speech such that even their 19-year-old son knows how many rounds of sex they have in a night.
And his wife, who was not going to roll over and play dead while he accused her of being quarrelsome and talkative stunned the court when she said despite her husband having six women, she does not want to divorce him.
This was heard before Justices, Esther Sifulwe, Gastone Kalala, and Ng’andu Mukuka in a case where Beston Mandevu, 41, sued Ethel Mwiinga 26, both of Lusaka for divorce.
The court granted divorce and ordered Mandevu to pay Mwiinga KR7 000 as compensation.
Mandevu told the court that in 2009, Mwiinga suspected him of having a lover and that one night when he left home for a beer, she secretly followed him with the hope of catching him red handed.
He said as he sat outside with some folks enjoying his beer, he heard the voice of a lady calling out to him but because it was dark, he didn’t recognise who it was.
“I started chatting with her for quite some time only for my wife to come out of the shadows enraged, with a long knife ready to stab me,” he said.
Mandevu took his wife home but a fight ensued making it difficult for him to sleep in their house and he opted for the chicken run.
In 2010 he said, their marital problems escalated forcing, the couple to go on separation for a year but reconciled in 2011, however, they only moved in together in 2012.
He said after a while, they both fell sick and discovered that Mwiinga had a sexually transmitted infection (STI) and when he asked her where she contracted it from, she told him probably from a boyfriend she had during the time the two were on separation.
Mandevu told the floor that Mwiinga got treated but the infection re-occurred at the time she discovered she was pregnant.
He said it surprised him how she got re-infected when they had stopped having sex, making him suspect she was still intimate with the man she claimed was her former lover.
Mandevu said in February this year, he moved out of their bedroom because of Mwiinga’s alleged promiscuity and lack of respect for him.
He said he moved out because Mwiinga insults him and talks too much that their son even knows how many rounds of sex the two have in a night.
And in her statement, Mwiinga, who is eight months pregnant, shocked the court when she said Mandevu has six women in his life, some of whom are wives while others are concubines.
Amid sounds of iye, iye and hmms from the floor, Mwiinga said when they were on separation, Mandevu married two women who were pregnant at the same time.
Mwiinga said when that happened, Mandevu went back to her begging for reconciliation.
“I asked him what he was going to do with his two wives and he told me he was going to chase them which he did and took me back to his house,” she said.
Mwiinga said at the height of their re-union, she fell pregnant but to her surprise, he chased her away saying he wanted to marry another woman.
She said one day late in the night, she felt like easing herself and when she went to the toilet outside, she saw Mandevu holding a woman by the hand and leading her into one of the rented rooms.
And as if that was not enough she said, he impregnated another woman within their neighbourhood.
Mwiinga said they have had discussions six times with six different women who he has impregnated but despite all that, she said she still loves him and wants him back.
Posted by Editor
on May 7, 2013. Filed under LATEST NEWS.
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man
May 7, 2013 at 9:44 am
Even their 19 year old son knows abt how many rounds of sex they have per nite and the wife is only 26, meaning she had a child when she was 7 years old, Amazing.
Zebige
May 7, 2013 at 3:18 pm
That should be her step son i guess.
critico
May 7, 2013 at 6:59 pm
man is just trying to be sacarstic, of course he knows it’s a step son. have some sense of humour please!
K
May 7, 2013 at 9:56 am
Reporter NOMSA NKANA is not accurate in her reporting.
Umupandapwiti
May 7, 2013 at 9:57 am
Ba Mwiinga muli cipubafye, ati “Mwiinga said they have had discussions six times with six different women who he has impregnated but despite all that, she said she still loves him and wants him back”.
mwewa
May 7, 2013 at 9:58 am
Meaning that son z step son to the woman,she(woman) did nt go under amafunde ya mucupo,too bad 4 her.
Advocate
May 7, 2013 at 9:58 am
Mandevu, Mandevu, Mandevu. It is evident that Mandevu is a cheat. Mwiinga cannot divorce this bastard because she is dependant on him. Ladies, it is good to go to school. These foolish men think they can sleep with any woman they see. Atase.
shikulu
May 7, 2013 at 10:00 am
I see it as marriage of sex only, both of them ma sex maniacs and perharps I can also participate.
NASILELE MUTALE YAAULU
May 7, 2013 at 11:49 am
THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU HAVE SEX BEFORE YOU MARRY. THAT HABIT CONTINUES EVEN IN MARRIAGE. BUT IF ONE DISCIPLINES HIS LIFE BY HAVING NO SEX UNTIL MARRIED, THIS KIND OF PROBLEMS DOES NOT NECESSARILY OCCUR.
YOUNG PEOPLE NEED TO LEARN FROM LESSONS OF THIS COUPLE. IT DOES NOT PAY TO CHEAT, AS ONE ONLY ENDS UP MISERABLE WITH A DISEASE, CREATE CONDITIONS FOR CANCER AND LOSS OF RESPECT.
NASILELE MUTALE YAAULU
May 7, 2013 at 12:42 pm
IN FACT IN JAPAN, THERE IS A NEW SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE, WHICH IS WORSE THAN HIV & AIDS, CALLED H041 ‘sex superbug’, WHICH HAS JUST BEEN DISCOVERED!!!
SO YOUNG PEOPLE WHY RISK YOUR LIVES?
Umupandapwiti
May 7, 2013 at 3:14 pm
“HO41″ just found out about. It was discovered two years ago in Japan and it has spread to as far as Norway and also some parts of California. This bacteria is resistant to all kinds of antibiotics, though no deaths have been reported from it. Thanx for the infor bro…
Soby
May 7, 2013 at 12:04 pm
6 women some of whom are wives! Any proof (marriage certificate)? olo nikuwamiza story!
Umungulu
May 7, 2013 at 12:34 pm
BaTumfweko, bushe uyu wine reporter wenu Nomsa Nkana uushaishiba ukupenda, mumutoolele kwisa?
Lusaka
May 7, 2013 at 2:06 pm
You are 26 and you go after a 41 year old man. you got what you wanted
chileshe
May 7, 2013 at 2:08 pm
Nomsa Nkana, you should calculate the ages before you publish your stories. people will take for uneducated person.and for you Mwiinga if you are desperate for a husband come here, i will marry you. leave your promiscuous of the husband.
tomo
May 7, 2013 at 2:19 pm
Better separated. A very bad example to young ones.
dnice
May 7, 2013 at 2:31 pm
@ Man, you read my mind
game meat
May 7, 2013 at 3:36 pm
Ka Nomsa, maybe this happened to you. Why do you mix up ages
game meat
May 7, 2013 at 3:38 pm
Ka Nomsa, the way you introduce the article has nothing to do with the way the stories ends. Unless you are a cowboy writer
Vibrosomal
May 8, 2013 at 4:18 am
Promiscuity of the highest degree. Bushe what’s wrong with our society? We live as though sex is everything. Morally bankrupt society!
best
May 8, 2013 at 11:29 am
shanty compound life
KK
May 8, 2013 at 3:56 pm
Ba Tumfweko try to analyse issues before they are published. Ba editer, whats your duty kanshi? How can a 7 year girl give birth honestly? was it after Puberty or before?
Supermodel
May 8, 2013 at 4:31 pm
Zambian women shud learn to be independent and survive on their own and not solely depend on men or milk their husbands. Have a vision of earning a living on your own as a woman not planing to get married and depend on a man. that’s why we these women failing to get out of marriages even when their husband impregnant six women bcoz they have no means of surviving on their own. Ladies lets get educated be independent and help out our husbands and not just wait for them to bring money.