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Sexually Starved Lusaka Woman Begs For Reconciliation

By NOMSA NKANA
A WOMAN of Lusaka has begged the Lusaka Boma Court to reconcile her to her husband who she says has been denying her sex yet comes home with his pubic hair shaved.
Samaria Banda, 32, of Chilanga also accused husband Joseph Liteta, 33, of chongwe of womanising as he has impregnated different women including a young school girl.
This was heard before justices Linda Tembo and Peggy Nyambe in a case in which, Banda sued Liteta for marriage reconciliation.
The two, who have been married since 2002 and have three children together, agreed to reconcile.
In passing judgment, Justice Tembo counseled the couple to be faithful and respect each other if their marriage has to survive.
She also ordered the two to go through marital counselling as it was evident that they were lacking wisdom in that area hence their marriage was turbulent.
Banda told the court problems in their marriage started in 2008 when Liteta had a lover, he impregnated.
In 2009, she said, problems continued escalating as Liteta began sleeping out for as long as a week and when home, he would make it a point to sleep with clothes on.
She said whenever she wanted to have sex with Liteta, he would refuse complain of being tired.
“One day, my husband came home with pubic hair shaved. I got startled because I hadn’t shaved him when he left home. That was an indication he had a lover,” she said.
When Banda asked him who did it, he said he had taken a bath at City market, where he shaved himself.
And as if to confirm her worst fears, Banda said she found love messages in Liteta’s phone to a supposed lover and when she called the number, a lady answered and confirmed she was Liteta’s girlfriend.
She said Liteta’s behaviour got out of hand such that he stopped using the bath water she would warm for him.
In 2010 when both she and Liteta’s lover fell pregnant, she said her husband asked her to abort but she refused.
A week later Banda, said, she heard he had impregnated another girl in Rufunsa and when she asked him about it, he agreed saying the girl in question was a young school girl but nevertheless she forgave him.
She said in 2011, he impregnated another woman yet again in Rufunsa.
Banda also said in 2012, she learnt he had taken his pregnant lover from Chinyunyu for an abortion but out of love, she still forgave him.
She said some time in February, Liteta told her he was going to attend the N’cwala ceremony but a taxi driver told her he was going out with a woman from Kampekete.
“He later told me that as far as he is concerned, our marriage are over in his heart. He packed my clothes and took me back to my parents. Please your worship, I’m requesting this court to help us resolve our marital disputes. I still love my husband,” she said.
And in his statement, Liteta said the problems in their marriage are as a result of Banda being disrespectful to him.
Liteta said he was operating as a bus driver between Chilanga and Chongwe, which required him to sometimes spend nights away from home.
He said he lost his job and only found work in Luangwa but his wife could not understand why he had to spend nights away from home.
“I had to take her there to see for herself how I was working and later, problems lessened,” he said.
He said the reason he took her back to her family was that she started calling him a dog and demanding his salary a time when he had not been paid.
Liteta said it was for that reason he wanted, her to remain with her family so that she could be counselled on how to be a better wife.

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29 Responses to Sexually Starved Lusaka Woman Begs For Reconciliation

  1. truthful Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 9:28 am

    ba tumfweko, this headline is not right-or are you assuming that the only reason she wants to be reconcilled with such a man is becoz she is starved sexually?

    anyway in this day and age-she should just leave him,shes rather too desperate!

  2. CNP-4U Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 9:40 am

    why is she begging to have him back..?she wants to kill him.>?kekekeke

  3. Lisa Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 9:49 am

    Samaria,gone are th days when people used to beg for love! marriage is nt evrything u hv in yo life he will giv u Aids! find btter things to do pliz! som women awe mwee!

  4. zambian Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 10:22 am

    Infidelity on the part of the husband will cost the marrige.

  5. casim Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 10:47 am

    why is asking for reconciliation after all the demages he has caused on her, maybe she coming from a poor family and she needs support or just a name that she is married, but she doent know that she is just punishing herself.

  6. casim Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 10:47 am

    why is asking for reconciliation after all the demages he has caused on her, maybe she coming from a poor family and she needs support or just a name that she is married, but she doent know that she is just punishing herself.

  7. yafffe Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 11:01 am

    forget about him because he does not love you so he told me secretely he has impregnated my sister and that other friend of yours behind where you are currently staying.Watch out

  8. CALLED WISE Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 11:27 am

    SOMETIMES YOU ARE BETTER OFF BEING SINGLE:
    -NO ONE TO MISS
    -NO HEADACHE
    -NO JEALOUSY
    -NO ‘LET ME CHECK YOU PHONE IN BOX’
    -NO ‘WHERE, WHAT IS MY MAN/WOMAN DOING THIS TIME’
    -NO REGRET OF WASTED EXPENSES AND TIME.
    -YOUR ARE JUST YOU, ONLY YOU.
    -YOU TAKE YOURSELF OUT FOR A MOVIE, A WALK…
    -TOTAL PEACE OF MIND.
    ‘LOVE IS BOTH A CURE AND DEADLY INJECTION’

  9. rees Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 11:32 am

    Dnt b stuck my daer men ar ****** just build yo beauty”

  10. rees Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 11:38 am

    Its true better off alone but ar sayin u ll neva love again?

  11. monday Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 12:15 pm

  12. Muntu nyoko Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 12:49 pm

    No No No; Two are better than……

  13. chama john Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 12:56 pm

    foolish lady tawafundwa

  14. CALLED WISE Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 1:02 pm

    @ rees, I SPENT 7 YEARS WITHOUT LOVE AND BELIEVE ME IT WAS THE BEST TIME OF MY 12 PLUS 4 PLUS 3 PLUS 6 PLUS 2 MINUS 1 PLUS 3 YEARS SINCE I HAVE BEEN ON EARTH.
    OF COURSE LOVE IS A RISK WE ALL KEEP ON TAKING.
    SOMETIMES YOU MAY NEED TO KISS MANY FROGS BEFORE YOU FIND THE ALMOST ‘RIGHT ONE.’

    • vi vi Reply

      June 10, 2013 at 2:14 pm

      what do you know about love anyway? Sex is not love! I bet you were shagging all kinds of animals, dogs chickens, goats, you wanker just admit it.

  15. man Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 1:13 pm

    @monday u r so ******, how dare u circulate such images, chikala iwe.

    • Mo Reply

      June 10, 2013 at 2:11 pm

      would you have rather looked at a black Anaconda?

  16. vimatako Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 1:50 pm

    why are you pleading with such a man?he will bring you diseases eventually,is that when you will see that you should have walked away from such a fool.please come back to your senses and move on.he doesn’t deserve YOU.

  17. chileshe Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 2:08 pm

    what kind of a man is this? is he a he goat? am really surprised that such fools still exists.

  18. Elifat Mwanza Junior Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 2:25 pm

    There comes a time that one misses the “devil” she had.

  19. rees Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 2:26 pm

    @called wise.I once facd this but I faild any way thanks. I think its the mind

  20. musonda Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 2:28 pm

    BA SAMARIA SORRY MULEIBIKA MUMAKABE IMBWILI NI MBWILI HE WILL NEVER EVER CHANGE AND HE WILL START MOCKING YOU OVER THAT PLIS THINK TWICE MY SISTER.

  21. gosh Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 3:08 pm

  22. mafo Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 3:23 pm

    some women, stop crying over spilt milk, some men cant change, i know one who begs money from women, he is not ready to suffer with anyone, this ***** steals money from women like no ones businesss, he only dates working class, and begs for cash, he is now single with 4 chidren with different mothers, who is ready to look after for children from diffewrent amatumbo, this money makes money from the unknown business, am afraid the law might catch up with him one day.

  23. CALLED WISE Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 4:09 pm

    @ vima, I AGREE WITH YOU.
    SOMETIMES THESE ‘GOERS AND COMERS’ MAY LETELELA YOU.
    TOO MANY PREGNANCIES WITH THIS MAN.THE LADY SHOULD JUST LET HIM BE.
    BUT BA vima, MU CHINJE KO KA ZINA MWE!!PUULIZIII!

  24. henry Reply

    June 10, 2013 at 4:14 pm

    last days

  25. child protector Reply

    June 11, 2013 at 6:08 am

    MY APPEAL TO ALL WOULD BE COUPLES IS TO UNDERGO MARITAL COUNSELING SIX MONTHS PRIOR TO MARRYING EACH OTHER.EQUALLY I AM APPEALING TO THE RELEVANT AUTHORITIES TO REVIEW THE LOCAL COURT JUSTICE SYSTEM SO AS TO ENACT A LAW WHICH WOULD ALLOW FOR COURT OFFICIALS TO PROVIDE MORE OF GUIDANCE AND COUNSELING SERVICES OTHER THAN GRANTING INSTANTANEOUS DIVORCES WHICH IN MY OPINION HAVE CONTRIBUTED GREATLY TO PROMISCUOUS AND IMMORAL BEHAVIORS ON THE SIDE OF THE DIVORCED COUPLES.WORSE STILL,CHILDREN ARE THE ONES WHO HAVE SUFFERED MORE AFTER SUCH DIVORCES.IT LEAVES ROOM FOR CORRUPT ACTIVITIES.I AM A VICTIM OF CIRCUMSTANCES.AMEN.

  26. beautiful Reply

    June 11, 2013 at 7:02 am

    Its so unbelievable that pipo still exist!

  27. m.w Reply

    June 11, 2013 at 11:25 pm

    how can u plead to such husband definately these women are sick

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