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‘I Have An Affair With My Pastor, Need Some Advice’
I recently started a relationship with my married pastor whom I have been close to for a while now. He has always been there for me through everything and he also inspire me. This is one of the reasons we bonded. Lately I have started developing some romantic feelings for him and I was very excited when he told me he felt the same way.
I know this is wrong but we have begun a sexual relationship and the sex is the best I have ever had. I don’t know how to stop and I have also started becoming jealous of his wife because he goes home to her every night after being with me.
Please tell me what to do.
From Agness
Posted by Admin
on June 27, 2013. Filed under LIFE & STYLE, STYLE.
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Saint
June 27, 2013 at 12:20 am
U n yo pastor r sick.repent of yo sins
NGOSA
June 27, 2013 at 12:30 am
WHAT ADVICE?STOP THAT NONSES, YOU ARE EVN WSTN YO TYM, RPENT NOW IMEAN JST AFTER THIS MSG,TA WAKWATA KATINA? TELL DAT PASTOR TO DO THE SAME.
joe
June 27, 2013 at 1:43 am
uli kapuba kuti ule tombanana ba pastor shini you are dog change for the better cause if the own of the pastor knows about it bazakoshoka ngati muzako wako kabwe.
CALLED WISE
June 27, 2013 at 2:20 am
….SEX IS THE BEST YOU HAVE EVER HAD BECAUSE EVIL ALWAYS TASTES SWEET.
…HE GOES HOME TO HIS WIFE EVERY NIGHT BECAUSE IT’S WHERE HIS BELONGS.
SO DEAR, BOTH YOUR SEXY DESIRE AND YOUR JEALOUSY ARE MISPLACED.
YOU COME IN THE OPEN AND ASK ADVICE BECAUSE SOMETHING INSIDE YOU IS TELLING YOU THAT YOU ARE DOING WRONG.
OTHERWISE, YOU WOULD HAVE KEPT QUIET.
STOP IT NOW!!!!
ALREADY YOUR PASTOR IS LOSING HIS ANOINTING BECAUSE GOD DOES MIX TUJILIJILI WITH FANTA DRINK.
CALLED WISE
June 27, 2013 at 2:22 am
I MEANT’ IT’S WHERE HE BELONGS.
CALLED WISE
June 27, 2013 at 2:45 am
I MEANT’…GOD DOES NOT MIX…
AGNESS, DO THE U-TURN NOW!!!
IT’S LIKE SOMEONE ARMED WITH A RAZOR BLADE, GOES TO ROB A BANK AT 10’58 HOURS.
Dimman
June 27, 2013 at 4:26 am
You are on high way to hell! Someone mightier than you is having sex through you. You are so blinded and soon you will see the results.
Democrat
June 27, 2013 at 4:55 am
Story yaba tumfweko yabufii. A normal person cannot ask such a silly question. Next pliz?
Wathorg
June 28, 2013 at 11:59 am
Who cares?!!as long as its happening and they are pumping some sense in your empty head. dunderhead!!!!
Popopo
June 27, 2013 at 6:37 am
@ Aginess expose your evil acts to your deacons and other members of your church coz we are equally sinners, what advice can you get from here? You are posessed with yo devil pastor get delievered from annointed men of God in your Church
Roma
June 27, 2013 at 7:22 am
Agness ko o txt 0978224104
wakadubious
June 27, 2013 at 7:33 am
U dnt need advice u *****,u hav oredy tasted his prick so wat do u want pipo to tell u?
akeem
June 27, 2013 at 8:02 am
No go ahead enjoy after all in this world the pipo with money dictates how the world should run. Faithful Christians who genuinely love God remain poor with no voice. After all whoever has the money has power.Gay rights being enforced becoz the pipo in power have money power. Even that pastor is there for money not for God because he has seen..that’s why he can commit adultery. Trust me that’s not hz first tym nt u r not the only one hz sleepn with besides hz wife. You know the unfair part you nd pastor won’t even catch hiv, only innocent and naïve people who love God catch it! Its the way it is..so go ahead enjoy! U r on the ryt train
patrik
June 27, 2013 at 8:18 am
all have sinned and fall3n short of His glory .it’s almost impossible to save or advise somebody who is still enjoying sin.The one you can face in this matter who doesn’t fail is God,that is IF you are willing
Servant of God
June 27, 2013 at 8:30 am
All of us are not judges because we have no right to judge others.the fact that you have come out and know that it is not right,your problem is 50% solved.The one thing i can advise you is that go for deliverance to a real man of God.I fyou have the opportunity to access internet please see this website and watch.www.emmanuel.tv.It will change your life.Just watch it and God will speak into your life.If you have free to air decorder please search for emmanual tv channel and God will do it for you.If you have the resources and are real serious with this issue please fly to Synagogue Church of All nations(SCOAN) in Nigeria.Please share this info with the Pastor as he also needs deliverance like we also do.
Mwana T B Joshua
June 27, 2013 at 10:49 am
Way to Go.
ftj
June 27, 2013 at 8:32 am
Romeo Moyo posted on-The Zambian Peoples PACT. Is This the end of Rainford Kalaba’s football career?. Rumour has it that the midfield maestro scored in the wrong net (Someone’s wife) apparently the husband to the woman has told him that he will never play football again. What happens is that whenever Kalaba steps on the football pitch, his private parts get swollen and painful. The congolese husband has vowed never to reverse the curse. Could this be the end of the Master?
achikama
June 27, 2013 at 8:43 am
Continue, that is a good spirit.From the pastor come to me. u will get the best
bupe
June 27, 2013 at 9:01 am
wow thats nice! what advice do you need when are oredy having jealousy for his wife…. do you think will make you happy cz its u r very pleased with de sex he is giving and to u its de best u hv neva had.. hv some for honour urslf
jahlanso
June 27, 2013 at 9:11 am
what kind of a pastor is he….stop calling him a pastor because he’s leading u to hell…..stop that affair now and repent…..tell us a tangible problem we can advise you on,not this rubbish ….weka ule we
William Cartwright
June 27, 2013 at 9:28 am
Girl you are so dirty …………i wonder if u know what u are doing ? it’s either ndiwe marriage material or ma offals ya nkumba………….wankala object yo siliza pastor chilaka……cha nyele ………wanya uzakakota chikubaba.
chiingu
June 27, 2013 at 9:43 am
You are both sick in the head and need spiritual deliverance.Infact the pastor is more sick than you are and you are both idiots.Go to hell like the Mailoni brothers.
PureZed
June 27, 2013 at 9:57 am
Uyo te pastor ni chikala..how can a pastor be lying to the wife and sleep with someone. $tupid pastor.
lala
June 27, 2013 at 10:07 am
Agness my dear, stop that affair because it is sin…which apparently, is usually sweet BUT leads to both physical and spiritual death. You should even consider leaving that church because if you continue seeing that ‘pastor’ you may not have the courage to stop your acts. Run my dear, run. Run fast and repent.
MANSATR
June 27, 2013 at 10:27 am
that pastor is not a man of GOD,what a shame woman.stop it
mwewa
June 27, 2013 at 10:37 am
‘You are just a whore!!!what advise do you need?
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June 27, 2013 at 10:38 am
Madam, stolen waters are sweet. Just enjoy the stolen juice but remember theres judgement for tht. I hope u remind the pastors as well. So i advice u to have the last one, give him the best and aft that round tell him, its over u both repent and move on without the swit stolen manzi
bkk
June 27, 2013 at 11:04 am
You shall know them by the fruits. The pastor even has the courage to stand in church to preach whilst leaving in sin, no fear for Jehovah. And you lady you are putting a curse on yourself run for your life.
phylis
June 27, 2013 at 11:58 am
Iyo mukashana uli nsoka,ala insoni ebuntu.ulelanda nokulanda ngoulewamya.foolish!
LMK
June 27, 2013 at 12:20 pm
Young lady the lord your God is not one to be mocked infact report that pastor to the elders in your church and repent. They are a lot fo men in your church who would like to be with you not a married man and if were to fall pregnant. Just stop it. That pastor is not even a man of God because that behaviour is for corrupt and demented people. In the end you have to make your choice. It is all up to you
isaac
June 27, 2013 at 12:49 pm
Agness and your pastor have rotten moral fibre to the core. The pastor being a pastor if given a chance to see the Lord face to face, he will be used as firewood to char other pipo. Agness becareful, after having an affair with you then he goes back to the pulpit to preach and you’re there to watch, sad indeed we know such churches which are doing that.
peace maker
June 27, 2013 at 12:58 pm
You must stop. You are not the only girl he is defilling. Pastors of nowadays are womansers and liars. He defilled his wife and now he is defilling you. Tomorrow he will defile a new member. Pastors please stop sexing people. God will sought you out.
Muzeleze2
June 27, 2013 at 1:39 pm
I was caught in almost the same web apart from I started a relationship with the Pastors wife who at the same time was my spiritual mother ( Who led me to Christ) It is not as simple as members of the blog think and comment. I know exactly what you are going through. The problem one finds these is whom to trust and confide in in such situations. It indeed has to take the power of God to intervene. Try to create some artificial distance from the pastor and possibly ulesangwa nabana Kapyunga in most cases and this will put some pressure on the Pastor. Change the congregation and align yourself to prayer worriours. Ask for God’s mercy and wisdom He will surely come through for you. Ulebatamfya ba Kapyunga otherwise the wages of sin is death
zambian
June 27, 2013 at 2:01 pm
Kabili mwe pastor nimwe mulecita ubucende?God is never mocked ba pastor you will reap what you are sowing.
yesterday
June 27, 2013 at 2:21 pm
You are a big fool.
toxic
June 27, 2013 at 2:28 pm
first account yourself sick of HIV cause you dnt know his status. Then start crying. Ulikapuba
Rizzo
June 27, 2013 at 2:48 pm
hule
Theoretical
June 27, 2013 at 3:05 pm
You need deliverance.
swine
June 27, 2013 at 3:26 pm
Ati Agness, what a waste of time even discussing your sh**t!…lost souls!
ONE NEKA
June 27, 2013 at 3:42 pm
now this is funny.Guys with your comments
KK
June 27, 2013 at 5:14 pm
Iwe chi agness ulichipumbu, wherever u r just stop nonsence and conferse ur sins.
jeat
June 27, 2013 at 8:10 pm
Those are devils plan, help 2 build your pastor and not contributing to his failure. Women y being used by devil? Remember what happened to Adam and Eva
pompwe
June 27, 2013 at 10:02 pm
People in Zambia are horny like rabbits nowadays nichani….. Shameless
CNP-4U
June 28, 2013 at 8:51 am
you are both silly with your pastor..stop the act!!
xxxxx
June 28, 2013 at 9:02 am
hahahahahahahha..funny comments,whats the issue again?????
kelly
June 28, 2013 at 9:03 am
YOU AR BIG FOOLS,
SEAN
June 28, 2013 at 9:40 am
ur a foolish woman, a waste of time and space honestly..Advising you is a waste of time. you know what you are doing is wrong so why should we waste our time to advise you whose behaving like a whore. you and that bogus man of God should just go to hell. Its people like you that are promoting the spread of HIV/AIDS and bringing shame to the house of God. Please Get the **** off of here and lets advise people who have real issues not self inflicted issues…
pompolyongo
June 28, 2013 at 9:41 am
go ahead enjoy yourselves until you are caught the devil is a lair
abene bansamba
June 28, 2013 at 11:22 am
ma advice to you is do what you think is right in your eyes period.
WAZANGA
June 28, 2013 at 12:23 pm
wabe chinyo how do you ask for advice when you are doing wrong things
Wathorg
June 28, 2013 at 4:04 pm
Some advice!!away!!mwantekunya,
CACINE
June 28, 2013 at 12:47 pm
Continue having it because you are an adult and you know what you are doing. That man is not a servant of God but of the devil, so if you think it is good continue and only God will tell you what you will need to do.
Amson
June 28, 2013 at 1:38 pm
How is he able to stand in front and preach, after being with you the previous day…. both of you are just pretending to be Christians.. it is not right what you are doing to yoursselves and his wife