DEPUTY Speaker of the National Assembly Mukhondo Lungu says marriage is the cornerstone of unity in the African set-up because it goes beyond the couple.
Lungu was speaking when he officiated at the weeding ceremony of Kasempa member of parliament and former foreign affairs minister Kabinga Pande.
Pande, who lost his wife slightly over a year ago, married Emmah Mwiinga on Saturday evening in Lusaka.
Lungu said the institution of marriage was key to national unity and development because it was the starting point for dialogue and peace.
He said although there could be challenges in marriage life, dialogue was the best among couples.
Lungu, who was accompanied by his wife, gave his 47 years in marriage as an example, saying it was possible to live that long in marriage despite some shortcomings.
“Yes, in any marriage there could be some differences, but knowing you Pande with your negotiating and dialoguing skills you demonstrated as foreign affairs minister, I have confidence your marriage will stand strong,” said Lungu.
Prophet Elijah Chali from Healing Voice Ministries where the couple fellowships, conducted a quick ceremony during the reception to bless the marriage.
And spokespersons from both families urged the couple to embrace the two families and have the fear of God in their marriage.
The wedding ceremony was punctuated by live performances from the Amayenge Cultural Ensemble and a barrage of comic acts from Lusaka-based comedian Brighton Sinkala.
Sir jeff
September 2, 2013 at 5:38 pm
Such is life! Life should go on
pezo
September 2, 2013 at 5:45 pm
he is free to marry, but just too early.
Brother Muzo
September 2, 2013 at 6:41 pm
Wise decision Honorable. There are too many temptations out there so it’s better you have a partner by your side.
Kalulu
September 2, 2013 at 8:12 pm
only a black man can marry a new woman just after a year. I doubt if he loved his wife indeed…No wonder my zambian boyfriend left me a week let he was dating another woman….
icinshikululwa
September 2, 2013 at 9:17 pm
Go on, you are free; just keep yourselves in line with the Word of God
Bingo
September 2, 2013 at 10:25 pm
one can remarry six monthes after losing one’s spouse.it’s correct to do so
DIP STICK
September 3, 2013 at 1:15 am
HE WAS FREE TO RE-MARRY SINCE HE HAD LOST HIS WIFE.
BE IT 6 MONTHS OR 12 MONTHS AGO.
mambala
September 3, 2013 at 1:42 am
I hope they went for the test. These politicians are serious womanisers
WESTLIFE-2013
September 3, 2013 at 4:21 am
yebo.aba tati ku mwena fye no ku bilimina kiss.yanshi vct.he cant.
Chase Maketula
September 3, 2013 at 9:21 am
Yes they went and Pande tested pol steve and the lady nega teve. Bu they love each other so much that not even the disease can separate them. It seems ba guy balelya even before the wife died.
Pyepye
September 3, 2013 at 10:08 am
lol….
atishani
September 3, 2013 at 1:10 pm
that data is deep lo
pumric
September 3, 2013 at 7:28 am
He is a God fearing man and came out in the open than enjoying the woman secretly and then declaring her as. A wife after a year for the sake of people____smh
KA GELO
September 3, 2013 at 9:02 am
Is new Mrs Pande wearing the Pope’s head gear or what?
Trixy
September 3, 2013 at 9:53 am
This is nauseating!!!!
Trixy
September 3, 2013 at 9:56 am
nauseating
chilanga dweller
September 3, 2013 at 10:00 am
pwaha ha ha ,pope’s head gear
nana
September 3, 2013 at 10:01 am
it good that he has decide to settle down the are so many temptation and hope they went for vct.
Robinhood
September 3, 2013 at 10:27 am
Typical of Zambian men. It’s is obvious he was seeing this woman even before his wife died. If this was a widow moving on after one year, the whole world would have been against it especially the mans side and she would also have been accused of killing the husband. But because pande is a man , then it makes it ok! What a shame.
melisa
September 3, 2013 at 10:28 am
Kabinga Mpande, this is wickedness! You should mourn your wife for a year atleast. This shows that you already had an affair before she died…wicked man!
anthony chisanga
September 3, 2013 at 10:31 am
People you must understand dearth is the end of everything when some one dies it means the other partner is free to marry or re marry so one year it means it is along time even if he moans hi wife for 20yrs it means nothing Gods will is to marry than doing ( Ubucende ) good bye I wish you Mr. pande and your new wife Gods blessing.
Mavis
September 3, 2013 at 11:39 am
Ba Melisa, go to hell, you prositute, what do you know, we hule iwe, who are you to vomit those ruthless words, atase, na mahule yalalnda, because he did not marry you, were you not yawning for the same, it is because us as a family did not aprove a hule like you, some of these things, mule tekanya, whoare you cheating, you think we can allow our Uncle to marry a fool like you. disappointed *****.
DIVA
September 3, 2013 at 12:27 pm
@Mavis, you must be the new Mrs Pande!!! Why so emotional?
atishani
September 3, 2013 at 1:14 pm
ata ka mavis….
swine
September 3, 2013 at 2:08 pm
A kettle calling the pot black…”b!tch!
ben
September 3, 2013 at 11:54 am
Ba Mavis take it easy,you are also a lady.
Trixy
September 3, 2013 at 11:56 am
Maaaaaaaah!!
Mwine Mushi
September 3, 2013 at 12:39 pm
Kiss of death!
JOMBO
September 3, 2013 at 1:14 pm
Christopher Katongo demands to be promoted to the rank of ” ARMY COMMANDER” when he takes Zambia to ” BRAZIL 2014″.
Mwamelo Munalula
September 3, 2013 at 1:17 pm
Nothing wrong, life must go on. 1 year is more than enough. I have seen women sleeping around just a Zambians like condemning others.
Rod
September 3, 2013 at 1:25 pm
When a spouse dies one is free and can remarry. The bible gives a spouse a year of mourning for a deceased spouse and after that one is free to marry. Life goes on people!
SEKOPONOKE
September 3, 2013 at 1:29 pm
He was in parallel relationships
Chibote
September 3, 2013 at 1:30 pm
Congrats Mr Pande, you are brave. Others would be having secret concubines.
Trywell Chifita
September 3, 2013 at 1:34 pm
Whatever the time, i think Hon Mpande is right. He is playing safelove games. No pretenece if you are burning with passion. Why please outsiders when inside you are dying to be with someone. He is right and i salute him. I just have a problem with the head gear for Mrs Mpande? Is she the new Pope? Lol
Julia Chikamoneka
September 3, 2013 at 3:00 pm
Trywell Chifita, you are very right! Actually not like the Pope, but like Cardinal Mazombwe especially as he has been laid to rest. Check ZNBC videos during his body viewing!!!
MAFUPA YOKOYOKO
September 3, 2013 at 3:08 pm
Pipo tekeni bola panshi, no nid 2 become emotional apa, Pande is free 2 marry, wheather he was seeing dis woman o not b4 his wife died dats non of yo bizness, wats impt is dat he is now married. How many married men have concubines? U know da answer, so which is better, 2 marry o 2 hv secret affairs? Yipushe usange na answer, hahaha…
Mavis
September 3, 2013 at 3:50 pm
Thanks above for giving Melisa what she asked for, it seems Zambians are fond of judging others for their ignorance, thanks for supporting my article. Melisa stop the nonsence. Chibote, Trywell Chifita, and others for the support
melisa
September 3, 2013 at 3:52 pm
chi mavis waba emputi! wembwa we. dd i insult u o anyone when i made the very first comment?
snr soccer analyst
September 3, 2013 at 4:41 pm
When marrying we saY TILL DEATH DO US PART, THE MAN HAS PARTED WITH HIS WIFE THROUGH A NORMAL WAY AND IS FREE TO MARRY. THE PROBLEM MIGHT COME IN IF HE WAS DATING THE SAME WOMAN WHEN THE WIFE WAS AROUND
Nakulu Wantula
September 3, 2013 at 4:53 pm
Exactly walasa ifyo fine efyo chali
Mo taim
September 3, 2013 at 6:59 pm
I`m sure he started seeing her way long before his wife died.
xxx
September 3, 2013 at 8:46 pm
this woman was a long time girl friend I bet contributed to the death of the first wife!!!!
Slim Dee Production(bupilio)
September 4, 2013 at 7:35 am
the decission to marry was wise, but how long was your courtship with that woman?i believe she was your girl friend before your wife died.
it’s too early for you mr.Lungu.
dzone
September 4, 2013 at 7:40 am
….better to marry than burn with passion!